All my friends are so much prettier and skinnier than me, and it lowers my self esteem. They are always the ones that get all the guys attention, and I hardly get any. I know it shouldnt matter at all, but it still bothers me. My friends dont treat me badly or anything, but im always worried that they are secretly thinking lower of me. Any suggestions on how to quit becoming so jealous and to stop thinking Im not good enough for my friends?
that's the same thing that happens here..you really just need to act your self and think you are pretty and trust me..you will get a boys attention when the time is ready...it just doesnt poof. Maybe your friends dont like having the looks all the time because it gets annoying to them when a boy always does stuff with them...
hope that made sense
adn hope i helped
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i was ownderin if you kno of any websites that show oyu how to do some dance moves? pleaseemial me at babiegurl2290@yahoo.com or im me at luvwithinme thanks
you can go to google.com and then type in dance moves and then there will be sum things there!
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
-confused
yea that takes care of it, if you had your period your not pregnant
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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.
its not normal....i think you should see a doctor about it so he can give u medicine because havin a erections 6 times and hour is not normal at ALL!
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14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out a little over a year now, and we both want to have sex. we're both virgins, and we are very eager to do this. problem is, since were "so young" our parents never will leave us alone. we never have any time to ourselves, which sucks. i would like to know if anybody has a way of doing this without our parents finding out. thanks (: i rate high.
i would say.......go to one of your friends house when the parents arent home...
hope i helped
-Amber Nicole-
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for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?
Nothing will stop that
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i am a girl that is very sexual with my boyfirend. and every time he eats me out or we have sex i always moan and etc but i dont cum.. he cums all the time when we have sex or i give him head.. and etc.. but why arent i cumming too?
because you are not fully reaching an orgasim
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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
Well if you insist on changing your self then start doing stuff for him and act more like a girlfriend even though you arent dating still do all the manly stuff if you want.But most of all be who you are and hope he notices what a great GIRL you are..Dont go changing your self for boys! its bad for you and ur self esteem...trust me i have done it!
HOPE I HELPEd!**
-Amber Nicole-
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I've heard Limewire is illegal from some people, and not from others.. it is or isn't it? :-/
That's not true. its all illegal. I have LimeWire...soo
its not true unless you buy it
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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
Just forget him, since he doesn't like you anymore. If he wont admitt his feelings for you then its not worth being with.
hope me and my friend helpeD!
-Amber Nicole-
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where can i find the No Boundaries brand for back to school supplies like binders and book covers ect. Does anyone know a store or a site?
THE DOLLAR STORES!! HAAH duh silly...thats the cheapiest place to get them!
Hoppe I HelpeD!!
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My boyfried & I were good friends before we developed feelings for eachother. Our relationship started slow, like he'd just put his arm around me in movies & we'd talk. Then things are getting closer & by only the third or fourth date, we make out most of the movie. I love showinnng my affection for him & he's a really sweet guy I just don't want things to get touchy-feely & nothing else. How can I make sure we don't base our relationship on lust?
Be open with him all the time, constantly tell him how you feel.Be affectionette,but dont do it to extend where all he wants is affection.
Hope I HelpeD!
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Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do?
you tell your other friend that you wanna do it with someone else this year because shes slacking and not doing her part...tell her that you want to win and you will go do it with sumone else
hope i helped!
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
it only means you are bi, theres totally nothing wrong with that...you just are attracted to the same sex. its fine dont worry about it!
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Okay, I know I'm an advice columnist, but I really need help. My best friend Rachael, dated my other best friend Evan. And that was fine. Evan broke up with her numerous times. Then they always got back together. Rachael got sick of it and broke it off for good. Then while Rachael was at camp me and Evan started going out. I only did it because I knew Rachael didn't like him still. Rachael is the um.. JEALOUS type. VERY jealous type. But still, she didn't care we were going out. She was TOTALLY okay with it. Then last night she told Evan she still liked him, and was thinking about him. With Rachael, it's REALLY obvious when she lies, so when she said she didn't like Evan, I KNEW she was telling the truth. I think she's lying about still liking Evan. But I don't know. I think she did it cuz Evan liked her still.. until he started going out with me, and Rachael thinks he still likes her. And Evan is moving 45 minutes away from here. My question is.. should I stay with him? Or not? I REALLY like him.. And his brother would drive him here every week to see us. But his mom might not let him. What should I doooo? Sorry this is so long.
you should still stay with him. If you really love him then you will stay with him. And you guys will still see each other...
hope i helped
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Ok see i went on a trip and first i asked my best friend to go wth me but there was no more room on the airplane. i kno if she did go we would have a BLAST! but then my other friend's mom talked 2 my dad and my dad invited her and the SOME HOW he found a ticket for her. i didnt kno what to say about that or even what to say to my best friend. she was a little pissed when she found out, but i hate when she is pissed at me ! i love her like a fat kid loves cake we have been though everything 2geter
tell her that it isnt your fault, and that you wanted her to go but your other friend's mom got to your dad first and talked to him in to it. And tell her that you love you alot! and that there is no one to replace her....
hope i helped!
-Amber Nicole-
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ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!!
The same thing has happened to me. He knows you like him and all...And after it does get old doesnt it? You try soo hard and then they ignore you like you are a brick wall. Hunnyie you should just move on. IT's not worth wasting your time on. If he cant see you of how you feel he doesnt like you like that...
hope i helped!
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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me
Tell your mom or dad....and tell him to stop,if hes above age level then you can tell the police and he can get into trouble...better yet, flip out on him in front of people be like " would you stop touching me, i dont like you and i dont feel confertable you touching me"...or sumthing like that
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About a week ago, I told my mom and my sister that we should go see the movie "Bewitched" since we used to watch 70's version of this late at night on TV together. When I said this I meant for us to "set a date" to go see a movie. My mom called me earlier and said she wanted to watch this movie now. I am 31 years old and have a family of my own. I also have other plans to do tonight although my plans aren't that important. Anyways, I told her that I have a headache and that they should just go ahead and watch without me. I felt bad because I was the one who originally asked them to see this movie...It's just that I didn't expect it to be today....It's a long weekend...I just went out and watch a movie with my kids, went to a baby shower and I'm kind of tired and wanted to rest and then maybe do some grocery shopping later tonight. Was I wrong for saying no?...I really feel bad and my guts says I should've just gone with them....
No, you werent wrong for saying no. I mean im only 13....but i could help you. You were tired and wanted to relax and some people need that sometimes. Its fine you said no, dont get worked up all over it!
hope i helped
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I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?
Don`t try to get her attention...Girls like it when guys go up to them and act nice and tell them that they like their hair or their outfit or something or just...try to stand out more...but not in a bad way
hope i helped!
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