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Moving Away
Okay, I know I'm an advice columnist, but I really need help. My best friend Rachael, dated my other best friend Evan. And that was fine. Evan broke up with her numerous times. Then they always got back together. Rachael got sick of it and broke it off for good. Then while Rachael was at camp me and Evan started going out. I only did it because I knew Rachael didn't like him still. Rachael is the um.. JEALOUS type. VERY jealous type. But still, she didn't care we were going out. She was TOTALLY okay with it. Then last night she told Evan she still liked him, and was thinking about him. With Rachael, it's REALLY obvious when she lies, so when she said she didn't like Evan, I KNEW she was telling the truth. I think she's lying about still liking Evan. But I don't know. I think she did it cuz Evan liked her still.. until he started going out with me, and Rachael thinks he still likes her. And Evan is moving 45 minutes away from here. My question is.. should I stay with him? Or not? I REALLY like him.. And his brother would drive him here every week to see us. But his mom might not let him. What should I doooo? Sorry this is so long.
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I think you should just keep going out with him, just explane to racheal that she said it was ok if u went out with him, so it is her lost....:/
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you should still stay with him. If you really love him then you will stay with him. And you guys will still see each other...
hope i helped
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-Amber Nicole-
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I'd try to find a new guy! That sort of thing happened to one of my friends. He went out with my friend THen broke it off with the other girl. Then a week later went back with the other girl. These two girls were the BeST of Friends! And it was so sad to see a guy get between them. Dump the guy and ask your friend to do the same. You don't want to loose a friendship over a guy.
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Well, first things first, your friend needs to move on. She is obviously jealous that her best friend is going out with her ex. (It's understandable but still)Also, if you really like him, and you can see him occasionaly, as long as you stay true to each other, I think there is no problem. Also, if your mom doesn't like the idea of every week, try every other week, and try to get him to come down to you sometimes. Hope this helps.
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So long as you get to see each other now and then I don't see why you can't continue as bf/gf
if that's what you want to do. So long as he will be able to go to school dances with you and things like that.
As for Rachael....well I'd be asking her what she thinks shes doing if I were you. She, as a best friend, has no business trying to move in on your boyfriend...whether she likes him for real or not. She gave him up and he is now yours. Tell her to keep future comments like that to herself. :)
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Danielle says ; First of all, I think you should have a talk with Rachael. You should tell her that you REALLY like Evan. If she is truly your friend she should respect that you guys go out. Also, you should ask Evan what he thinks of Rachael. As for the distance thing 45 minutes isn't to far, and if the brother is willing to help I think it'll work out!
Hope this helps =)
danielle
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Olivia, is that you?
Even if not...
You're 13. Don't hang on to any relationship at this point, as it is doomed to failure anyway.
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What matter is if you like him ask your self did you just go out with him to make her jelous or do you really like him ask him if he really likes you or just went out with you to make Rachael jealous!
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Girl palease, you can go out with someone Millions of miles away, stay with him if you really do like him, i mean thats like possibly true love going to waste. Dont let how far away you guys are come between you, if he takes the time to come see you ever week im sure you deserve him! Im dating a guy thats about an hour away from me, and its working out perfect! I hope i helped you some and if you still need advice im here for ya
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Kristi
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45 mins isn't THAT far away, and I'm sure you could probably make it work if you decided to stay with him. You could always find other ways to get there besides his brother and if you really like him it might work out. Even if his mum is unhappy with it... well, mum's can be easily outwitted and I'm sure you could make it work. The real question is how is Rachael gonna take it? If she really is the jealous type (and it sounds like she is, i think your hunch about her not liking Evan is probably correct) then she's likely to get more so, and your continuing relationship with Evan might become and issue between the two of you.
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