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My name is kristi, and i love giving advice, i have always been the trouble solver aslong as my brother. I like waking up knowing that i help people with their problems! I give advice about mainly anything, since im taking the time to actually write and help you on your problems, id like it if you would rate and leave comments. Im willing to give any advice to anyone! besides people who right me about stupid things, like playing jokes. Im always on here, so if theres anything you need to talk to me about, im here, so just leave something in the inbox (meaning write me, {top of the page it says Ask a Question }, so just hit that) So thats mainly it

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heyy, mmkay well i moved over the summer and now im trying to forget about this kid im totally in love with.. but anyyywayyssss.. so i like this kid at my new school, and he knew i liked him.. nd he'd flirt and flirt with me and now he asked this girl out on like tuesday and they are going out.. and im totally heartbroken
what shouldi do? =(

Ok now..First of all you shouldnt be heartbroken because there are going to be worse situations out there and if you keep allowing your self to get hurt, its going to be ten times worse next time you know? Second of all, did you tell him that you like him and how you feel ever since he started dating this girl? If you didnt because your afraid or your shy, then have a friend tell him because honestly you cant live your life afraid..right? I would try and talk to him and if it doesnt work and youve tried as much as you possibly could, i would just stay away from him for awhile so you can kind of calm down. I hope i helpd a bunch*

*kristi

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i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me?

First of all you shouldnt just sit around and wait for things to happen. I know your probley scared but you cant be afraid to do it. because you cant always wait for things to magically apear or jump in your lap. I would write him a note and ask him to hang out sometime, or have a friend as him if he likes you. Then maybe when you find out that he does, start getting to know him by his point of view and then let things happen from then. Hope i helped a tad bit.

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hey everyone. i was wondering if you can flush condoms downt he toilet? thanks

What ever you do, do not flush a condom down the toilet..It can cause a plugage in the toliet. Just rap it up in toilet paper and throw it out, its not like your friends or parents are going to be going through the trash! Hope i helped


*Kristi

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i got brown hair dye on my pink shirt and i need a way to get it out!!!!!!!! except i have no money to buy anything sooo if theres any home remedy miracles to help please tell me!! if i dont get it out my parents will kill me!!

THANKS

um well, hair dye is VERY hard almost impossible to get it out, i would mix a little bit of bleach and water, Mostly water, bc it will turn your shit white. put it on the little spot that you got your hair dye on, but i doubt that anything will get it out, im sorry hope i helped some

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Kristi

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Ok i went to Wal-Mart last week and i bought a straightener. (Havent opened it yet) It cost like $30 and its a Conair Ceramic Ultra Slim Straightener 1 5/8" plates. DOes anybody have this?? Its a really bright shiny red and its slim. I just wanted to know if it works or if anybody thinks it will work or whatever. I have thin/thick NOT thin but not think hair if that helps...

yeah it works, ushally any hair straightener would work, but even the wal- mart ones work too, i had one from wal-mart, same type actually but mine was purple, and it worked perfectly fine, but then my sisters fat dog layed on it and it broke haha, but yeah it works so theres no worries

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Kristi

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ok i wanna get my hair cut but i really dont have any ideas my hair is shoulder length and its kind of thin for good ideas and places to get my hair cut i will rate high
(btw im not cutting like all my hair off like a oh and if it helps im 13 f going to the 8th grade guys short cut so thats a no no)

Well you could go anywheres to get your hair cutt, for a 13 year old thats going into the 8th grade i would say get your hair trimed and get long layers, I have long layers and its extremly cute! or you could go with short layers but long layers would go better with shoulder length. Or your you get a little more fancy and get bangs well side bangs, its bangs at an angle, kind of like ciaras bangs. Hope i helped

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Kristi

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Hey.. okay I know that suicide isn't the answer... I've become so far away from it now. I mean... I promised a good friend of mine that's moving I would never attempt it again. So i'm not.Just I don't cut anymore... but I burn myself or take something sharp and like cut a hole in my skin. Yea it's bad I know... your advice did help. But not many of my good friend's live a walk away... they live like in different addtions.. some the other side of town...

so how am I supposed to tell then everything when i hardly get to see everyone... cause of all the sports I do?¿?

Lieben und love,
sam

Well sam, if you had aol, yahoo or msn, you could talk to them about it, or mail them, and tell them how your feeling and whats going on, and that your sorry that its happening but its just something that you cant stop doing. I understand how you feel about burning or taking sharp objects to yourself, because i used to do it all the time untill if ound the negitives. And the negitives is harming your self like getting skin problems, Infections could just be infections, just become a scar or something, or it could become a big problem and give you majorly skin problems. I had an infection and it was soooo nasty, after that, i stoped cutting myself and i just burned my self, my friends hated it, but i didnt care becuase to me it healed my problems, untill i realized that it only feels good because you THINK its healing your problems, but after your done cutting or burning your self, the pain is back and you want to do it again, and then its a repeat. Just mail or call your friends and let them know that you need someone to talk to about your problems because everything is bunlding up. If everything is kept in your system and you dont talk about your problems, your most likely going to hurt yourself more and more. If you need any more advice im here all you have to do is write me again. Love ya

♥ kristi

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hey guyss! i have this "beauty mark" on my face near my lip and i know people dont care about it and some think its "awsome" but i hate it with a passion and i will probably end up getting it removed if my mom lets me but is there any other way of convering it good ther than loads of foundation or bronzer?? thankssss

Girl, if nobody really hates it and actually likes it why dont you just keep it, Covering it up isnt going to really help it, it will make it 10 times worse. Just have some pacience untill your mom agrees to have it taken off perfessionally. Alot of people have a "beauty mark" of their face by their lip, and it doesnt even look bad. But yes, covering it up is going to make it worse, and nothing really can cover up something like that, unless you want a big heeping pile of foundation. Hope i helped

♥ kristi

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Me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he doesnt want me to hang out with Derrick even though ill have my best friend Ann with me.. My bf will be at the lakes. So he thinks i dont know what he thinks. He's asking me if i'd be wierded out if he and Scott hung out with Julie and i said no.. cuz theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its just a group of friends its a 1 on 1 type of thing. Am i wrong in this.. i mean im allowed to have friends.. arent I?

Hey girll, well im going to tell you something that i tell to almost everyone that has bf/gf problems. Men are not always the boss of the relationship. You cannot let someone tell you what you can and cannot do, talk to your man, and say that you dont get mad or jelous when he hangs out with julie, so you dont understand why hes getting all heated if your hanging out with Derrick, because your with your girl, and you wont do anything with him anyways because your loyal and you love your man. Just talk to him about it and yes girl, its wrong that hes sayin that, because men arent always going to get away with everything. If you think about it..its like this, this is an exampe "if a man fucks 20 girls, hes a pimp and hes SOOO cool, but if a girl fucks 4 guys, shes a whore and SOOO dirty" or "Girls are not aloud to have guy friends, but men are aloud to have Girl friends" or "its ok if a guy cheats, cuz uk hes SOOO cool cuz hes a pimp, but if a girl even looks at a man, shes a whore already" you understand what im saying??? I hope i helped you some and good luck, if you need more advice or someone to talk to, write me!!!

♥ kristi

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Okay well.. weird question to ask. I'm getting over SI. Like I'm still trying to stop. And I'm not suicidal anymore. Sometimes tho just my emotions come back from SI at the wrong time. I will be all like ya you don't care. And I know they do. And I know how it feels for that to be said to...

But does anyone have any idea to help me get away from being this way like I am?

ok hey..I really dont know what SI. is but..i want to tell you something. You dont have to rate me, because im not really answering your question. But i want to get something out of my system. I know exactly how you feel. I mean..i get those moods alot, and i do get suicidal alot. I get those emotions alot, from anger, friends, family stuff like that, and i happen to say to people that care things like "you dont care" or "ur just there for an excuse," yeah i get really emotional and then think suicide is the answer for every question. I just want to say, suicide isnt going to fix anything, and even if you think that people dont care, theres someone out there, maybe even more then someone, standing right infront of you that cares, if you if you went and killed yourself, you wouldnt just be killing your own self, but you will be killing a part of many people. I guess the best way to get over suicidal moments and emotions is talking to someone about your problems, get it out your system, take walks, stuff like that, im really not answering your question, but i hope i helped you a little about the suicide stuff. If you ever need ne one to talk to, im here..

♥ kristi ♥

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What does it mean when someone says "Yeah, he popped her cherry"?

It means that he had sex with a girl, and now shes not a virgin any more, he was her first..that type of thing

¤ Kristi ¤

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Why are there so many bitches and 2faced people? im sick of always being called this and that, and these 13 year old fucking skanks wont ever shut up, and this one girl omg i hate her so much and shes so imature. What do i do??


Signed:

Fucking whores and Sluts now days

Fuck them, who cares what they say or think, you cant let them get into your skin, because thats why their always talking shit, is because for 1 they know they can get under your skin, and 2 because their immature bitches. Trust me ik exactly what your saying and feeling like, because i got all these immature bitches do the same thing, but i dont care what they say about me, and i could care less if they love or hate me. They can call me what they want, they dont know me, im not a whore, slut,hoe, none of that shit, so they can keep talkin their shit because it aint harming me, its just making me stronger. And knowing that most of the 2faced bitches are going into high school and they are gaurenteed that their probley going to get their ass kicked. Dont sweat it, their just haters, your always going to have some haters in life, you just have to brush off your shoulder and think to your self, everything they say, is related to their life not mine, and their just made because i dont care what they say. Hope i helped

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Kristi

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I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.

What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.

How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?

Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?

Thanks guys. ♥

1st of all put on your flyer:

How old you are

your name

your number

what ages your wiling to babysit for

how much you would like to get payed

the days you can work

~thats all they need to know untill they call you

Decorations? Just maybe put it in color, nothing to big and nothing thats like over decorated, but something that will catch your attention. When you have your numbers put them at the side or bottom of the page, and cut on the sides of them so someone that is just walking by and sees the fly could rip of ONE of the numbers. hope that makes sence, um the donts:

Dont put your picture

dont put what you look like

dont tell them that you want alot of money

Hope i helped you some

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Kristi

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okay so heres the deal .. im 13/f nd ive never made out. the farthest ive done was grind while dancing (i dance really dirty and sexual), kiss, and ive been felt up once but we werent doing anything while he did it. And i dont even no how 2 make out. and i realllly need to now cuz im goin into a new school and i dont want to be known as a prude. thanks muchhos.. xox

ps no stupid answers or makeing fun of me

1: When about to kiss, move toward slowly, dont attack him lol

2: Breathe through your nose

3: DO NOT stick your tonge in too far

4: Kiss slowly, guys ushally like slow kissers, if he starts going a little faster..got a little faster

5: Practically follow his lead

6: try not to get your teeth in the way

7: oh yes..most important..keep your head tilted lol


Hope i helped

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Kristi

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ok there is this really long story about me fighting with my friends. so im not going to talk about it. but i want to know if there is an easy way to forget what happend between me and my friends

talk to your friends, and tell them that its a stupid fight, even if it isnt and tell them your sorry, even if your not. Tell them that what ever you did was wrong and that you didnt mean to do it, if you did anything, and even if you dont beleive its wrong. Its an easy way to get back friends with them. If that doesnt work, keep talking to them, bugg them till they give up haha, Good luck

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i need some theme ideas for my sweet sixteen...does anyone have any? i'll take anything! Thanks~!

You could have a big party, make a party at a hotel, like at the botom of it like a dance hall thing? the loby or something? idk ushally hotels have a room for parties and stuff, of if thats a little too much, have a party a dance place. Or just have a party at your house. Go to a game or something with one of your friends. You could do a lot of stuff, i hope i helped a little

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whats a really nice smelling prefume that i can get that smells really nice..isnt expendsive and i can find easliy ..

i rate high =]

Well, at victoria secreats there is a perfume called "love spell" or they have alot of different stuff, but i wear love spell and many many guys love it! Its great to wear and it spells really good

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Kristi

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how do i get a guy 2 like me im f/13 and i mean im not hideous nd i get lots of compliments on how i look but i am never the girlfriend type material .. jus the problem solver .. so how do i get the guyz 2 like notice me and like me??

THANKS A BUNDLE

ok, you can never make a guy like you, you just have to be yourself, and if he doesnt like you the way you are, he isnt worth your time. Its like the saying "im my self and nobody else" well your not listening to that rule, because by asking how to improve yourself, your practically trying to be someone else. And if people are giving you compliments on how you already look then apparentally you already look fine. Its just him that has a problem not you. I mean, if you really like someone, just flirt let him know you like him, dont go out of your way and try to fix yourself. Maybe wear a little make-up and do your hair ocactionally nothing big. Just remember fixing your self isnt always going to land you the guys that you want, that just proves they want you for your looks.

Hope i gave you something to think about

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Kristi

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-- this might be long so sorry im goin to try to put in all details.. wel my bf's birthday is 6 days away and it will also be our 17 months together.. for birthdays and stuff like this he always goes all out for me and i want to do the same for him.. its not easy planning stuff for a guy bc they rnt into the whole cutesy lovey dovey stuff like all the girls are.. well i know i already hve him cologne and i am PLANNING on gettin him a north carolina championship basketball also.. [bc he loves NC] well idk what to DO.. i mean ive thought of a few things but i dont want it to be too lovey dovey u know? well i think im goin to make a collage card with pix of us in it and right a note on the inside.. but i need ideas on things to DO.. like where to take him what to do and all that.. nothing sexual.. he is turning 15 and now im 14.. not tryin to be bragging but i hve money to spend on him.. i just want to make him feel special and hve a great birthday.. so if someone could PLEASE give me some good answers i would GREATLY appreciate it! if you need anymore info just ask

ok so your man is a big NC basketball fan hmm? well maybe you could have a serprise party for him and invite all of his friends. Decorations? have like basketball stuff, stuff he loves, even get a cake that says Nc basketball or w.e, if thats a little to much, get him a braclet, yeah that sounds girly but many men/boys have it now days, its like a plack thing and on the back you can have the company write whatever you want it to say, for example "love ___ or have his favorite team carved in. If you dont like that, maybe get him tickets to his favorite game, now that he would flip out!! The game doesnt even have to be on his birthday, it could be before or after!! That would be the perfect gift. And if you do plan to do that, giving him the basketball you said you got for him could be like..a clue you know? tell him he has to solve the puzzle haha. Well i hope i helped some!! And i hope your boyfriends birthday is fun and everything works out, if you want some more ideas just write me

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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!

xO* jAMiE

1: When about to kiss, move toward slowly, dont attack him lol

2: Breathe through your nose

3: DO NOT stick your tonge in too far

4: Kiss slowly, guys ushally like slow kissers, if he starts going a little faster..got a little faster

5: Practically follow his lead

6: try not to get your teeth in the way

7: oh yes..most important..keep your head tilted lol


Hope i helped

XoXo
Kristi

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