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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!
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Maybe he thinks that your kisses are too overwhelming. Just keep it to a minimum, and your boyfriend could do more if he wants to.
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write your name small in cursive with the tip of your tongue :P it works for me. try it out lemme know how it goes
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You will get better soon dont worry. Its not that hard! Just follow his lead,dont go too fast,tilt your head, and use just a little bit of tongue. If he starts going faster then you just follow his lead again. But I think that if you and him kept practicing then you will catch on faster and he would enjoy it!! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]
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ispeakspanish is right - kisses without toungue can definately be the best.
I am making no assumptions about what you do or don't do, so if any suggestion doesn't apply to you, ignore it. Or laugh. Just because you can. Also, these suggestions are not for every kiss, just when they fit the right mood.
Don't lead into a kiss by planting you face into his - lead in slowly, keep your mouth pretty much closed for the kiss, and kiss slowly. Full, open-mouthed, deep frenching right off the bat is more for orgasms, passionate "I want you so bad right now", and "I just wanna make a scene" moments. Kissing with toungue is still good, it just should be led into by something not quite as intense.
If you feel him guiding your kissing, let him. You will need to pay attention to how he's kissing you, and you won't pick up on all the signals, but you'll learn them eventually.
Relax a bit. An uneasy/squeamish/uncertain kisser is a bad kisser. You need to be comfortable when you kiss.
Try a multitude of shorter kisses (as much as around 1.5 seconds) rather than one or a few long kisses.
And here's probably the one that will help you the most (without cheating), and the most important one... ask your b/f what he thinks would help and to give you tips. If he's an experienced kisser, he'll be able to tell you. If not then you two will have to figure it out together. Which can be a LOT of fun, mind you.
Really, the best way to learn how to kiss well is to find someone who kisses well and learn "lips-on" how.
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Guys like nothing better than to teach their girl how to do something.Ask him in your own way to teach you how.I'm sure he will be more than happy to. Communication is the key.
Hope this helps
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someone says always use tongue. i am not really answering this question. i just needed to say that you don't always have to use tongue. no-tongue kisses can actually be the best kind.
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let the guy lead and you follow always use tounge of corse and act like your giving a massage with your tounge. if you can undo a starburst wrapper that proves it. hit my inbox if you have anymore questions
<33 Lexie
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1: When about to kiss, move toward slowly, dont attack him lol
2: Breathe through your nose
3: DO NOT stick your tonge in too far
4: Kiss slowly, guys ushally like slow kissers, if he starts going a little faster..got a little faster
5: Practically follow his lead
6: try not to get your teeth in the way
7: oh yes..most important..keep your head tilted lol
Hope i helped
XoXo
Kristi
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ok well when i hook up with guys and i hooked up with plenty. well first you always just want to turn your head right and then slowy place your tongue in their and you just keep moving it .. NEVER keep it still. make a circle with it..write your name..whatever and just make sure you do it slowy never go fast and then its a good idea to wait till he backs away. but if your not sure you guys r gonna hook up then its a good idea to do light kisses then if you feel its right and gently try and move into a hook up by moving your tongue on his lips. hope this helps!!
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lol ok...u need practice...i know this sounds very weird but this is what my friend told me and now i am a excelent kisser...prartice on your hand or if you are on a date just kiss him....i mean what can it hurt right? like they say practice makes purfect! hope i helped bye
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