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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina (link)
haha common mistake don't read too much into it


need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high (link)
laptop.


I told my friend how I serious loved this guy and the guy told me that he liekd me but he keeps playing mind games with me. So I told my friend I NEED to get over him somehow and he said "just get rid of everything that reminds you of him and just don't think about him." So I did that and I seriously didn't think about him at all and I got rid of everything that reminded me of him. Then that night, I had a freakin dream about him..just when I was startin to stop thinking about him.It seems like everytime I try to forget about him and I'm doin good I have a dream about him that night. What's going on and how can I stop this???? ILL RATE 5'S!! (link)
think about someone else. Find someone else to think about, you dream about things you go to sleep thinking about so you had to have been thinking about him a little bit.


Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!! (link)
explain that too him. but before you break it off talk to him about it like next time you have a stupid little fight just be like why are we fighting about this? it's stupid and we never did it before.


I want to get my lip pierced but idk if it'd look good on me, alot of people said it would but i just want some more advice uhhhhh..
here's a link to my picture o_O

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/9d7f9fd3.jpg

lol i drew one on once and it looked okay haha.
but ugh its body manipulating and i just wanna make sure o_o
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Yeah i think it'd look good. If not take it out


I saw my ex-boyfriend when we went back to school. He got way hotter over the summer (that's not it) he grew up a lot like matured. I was shocked and like "turned on" or attracted. So I started to become his friend again. We talk and flirt and laugh together with each other and people think we're going out. in a few classes hes in 5/8 classes of mine. We went out for 7 or 8 monthes and we mutally broke up. I think i like teen love him but hes in love with r and stuff. So today I was like K your madly in love with R arent you? but he wouldnt answer and just smiled. I like him so much and I dont know what to do and if he likes me or R. Should I go after him? If I do how do I do it without doing something stupid or slutty? (link)
Try to explain the fact that he's just using him to make you jelous. Then be like...and it's working.


i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high! (link)
Macaronie and Cheese! =D


There's this guy I really want to get to know. He's new to out school, he's cute, he's shy, and sits alone at lunch. He barely ever talks.

The bad thing is, that I'm shy, too. I'd love to get to know him, but my shyness is holding me back. How can I get over this? (link)
Well, you and your friends should go sit with him!! He might not be that shy. If he's new he probably is just nervous. Go over with your friends at lunch and just ask him casual questions and make conversation. Like, where'd you move from? ohh...neat i had a cousin that went there once. whats it like there? cool i heard that too =P just everday conversation. Have your friends with you at first so it's easier for you and not as ackward.

send me a message and lemme know how it goes.
Hope i helped =)


My boyfriend and I are having a debate about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits the air. Sometimes after we have sex (we use a condum) sperm will be on me or him and he worries that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've always heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. Who's right? (link)
uh...well i'm pretty sure sperm stay active for three days...if that helps any

--m


I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!

~Hopelessly Torn Apart (link)
i would first date the one with the clicky eyes..go with him first, cause with the other one, if your familie's are close you don't want it to be a bad break-up and it be okward for the rest of your life. they might feel played but..just let the other one know that you like them but...you think you can something better than a fling.
lemme know how it goes

all the best
--m


This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!! (link)
...go to a doctor!! =P


okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,

my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??

x0o

brok3n (link)
...target? =P


well i dont know what to do....ive liked this guy since 3rd grade and know im in 8th...i really wanna tell him that i like him but he has a girlfriend....im the type of person that doesnt like starting problems....i really wanna tell him but i dont want to just bring up the topic i want to talk 2 him about things that lead the topic....he lyked me in the middle of 6th grade and in da middle of 7th grade but now he has a girlfriend....im planning on talking to him tomorrow cause we always talk at night..so please respond before tomorrow night!! thank you soo much...what do i do?? (link)
if you guys are good friends them just ask him how him and his girlfriend are doing he'll tell you the truth,
if it's good then chances are he really likes her and has movied on from you sorry =(
if it's i dunno and changes the subject to you then he might still have feeling for you
if he says we're having a tough time or somthing like that ask him about it and relate to something you and him did together or bring back old memories..see what happens

lemme know how it goes
all the best
--m


Me and my friend have been best friends forever! She reccently had a sleepover and when we were there we prank phonecalled a boy who likes me at 2 in the morning, even though he didn't even care that we did. Well her mom found out and got really mad...now I'm afraid to ask my friend to hang out with me over the summer because I'm afraid that my mom will find out and I'm afraid of my friends mom. So what should I do? (link)
well at first just hang out in public places like the movies or something, start out slow then work up to spending the night again.

--m


Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
tell him what you want. but respect his decision.



I'm 14/f and I know I should be reading advanced books because I'm in 11th grade Honors english even though I'm a freshman. And, generally, I do. But a lot of the time I like to read books that are, well, sappy romance novels. Like the book version of soap operas. Big time guilty pleasure!!! I feel so guuuuuuuilty about it. It's like cheap candy, tasty to eat only not very nourishing, but it's a book. And since my family is big on reading "advanced literature" and my mom would freak out if she knew I was reading them, and I don't know whether it's ok for a person of my level of reading to be reading these!? I know it sounds like I'm being a snobby bitch that needs to be reassured of her own level but I'm not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks a lot!!!!!

x0x0

♥ Lulu (link)
Sure if you like it. Read what interests you, don't just read the important stuff, i only read magazines :P

all the best.
m


ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do? (link)
Just try talking to him casualy, like you would to one of you friends. Find something you two have in common and chat about that. Then after awhile when you know him better and he knows you, either you guys will become friends, you'll realize he's not the person you thought he was, or maybe he'll have the same feelings you have for him.

all the best

--m


is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster??? (link)
honestly..i'm an A..so...i'm probably in the same boat you are but hey, sounds good to me! =D


is it tru that if you never mmasturbate then u have a higher chance of your cherry getin popped when a guy fingers you (link)
no. rarely ever does your cherry pop when your fingered..normally you've already popped your cherry if you were a tampon...it doesnt mean you mastubate with a tampon, it just happens


This is the thing. my friend recently had a cold sore. I've heard that the only way you can have a cold sore (even once) is if you have herpes. Does this mean that she has herpes? Answers would be greatly apreciated. Thanks. Will rate high. (link)
No!! it doesn't. there are two kinds of herpes. herpes a is an std. herpes b is a ..i dunno but it's not an STD. chances are..she doesn't have herpes A...if thats what your worried about.




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