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Question Posted Monday August 29 2005, 1:30 am

Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina


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mooch789 answered Wednesday August 31 2005, 2:44 am:
You just made a common mistake. It happens. Hope I helped!

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XxTxX answered Monday August 29 2005, 11:38 pm:
..Just a common mistake..Dont worry you arent lesbian..Hope i helped`

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday August 29 2005, 8:58 pm:
it was just a mistake! if you thought it was a guy it was...if you liked the boobs on this "guy" then theres a problem. <3

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dancesnrain answered Monday August 29 2005, 7:10 pm:
No it doesn't make you a lesbian...

It happens all the time. There's been times when I've done the same thing... and just because you find a girl attractive, doesn't make you bi or lesbian. It just means you know what looks good and what doesn't... It's normal. Don't worry so much about it.

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XxWhiteLiesoO answered Monday August 29 2005, 7:22 am:
That isnt lesbian at all hun just because u mistaked girl for a guy and thought they were cute.. i dont think so. That is very sad for the girl though

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 29 2005, 6:55 am:
Aww, of course not. Everyone is entitled to a mistake. No harm done, and it's certainly not a crime. Don't even worrie about it. [:

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LongLostHeart answered Monday August 29 2005, 5:34 am:
Its a common mistake,dear...I've done it quite a few times,actually.
You are not a lesbian...that means you are attracted to other girls when you know they're actually girls.
Don't worry about it
~Long Lost Heart

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Igotamonopoly answered Monday August 29 2005, 5:00 am:
Very common mistake.

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azngemini answered Monday August 29 2005, 3:55 am:
it was totally a common mistake. like once i was in art class, and there was this "guy" that was staring at me, and i was thinking, "ok strange, but he's not all that bad..".. then i found out he was a she and i didnt know if i was a lesbian or if she was...

being a lesbian means that you like girls that you KNOW are girls. you thought it was a guy, a good looking guy. it's not your fault some girls tend to look a lot like men, lol

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karenR answered Monday August 29 2005, 3:26 am:
I think it was just a common mistake. Nothing to worry about. :)

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brOwnEyEdBabii08 answered Monday August 29 2005, 3:10 am:
omg I did the same thing once..I thought this girl was a guy because she looked like one..anyways No I don't think this means your a lezbian because I know im not..so don't worry..

much luv,
stephxx

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Azngangsta answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:54 am:
Just a mistake that's all. You know, I have a very feminin face (but I'm a dude) and now that my hair is in a perm (So now my hair is straight) I look exactly like a girl if you see me from behind. This one dude was checking me out, and I thought to myself "Oh God! I have to get hair braided soon!" Haha! Maybe that's why girls don't talk to me. I look like a girl from far away!

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x3brok3n answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:43 am:
haha common mistake don't read too much into it

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TrustMe answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:34 am:
its just a mistake. don't think to hard on it. u already said that you thought it was a boy. You were attracted to a "boy" Trust me, u'd know if you were a lesbo or bi.
good luck and keep me posted :)

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evilmonkey36 answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:25 am:
Don't worry about it. It is just a common mistake and it happens all the time. Even to me!
Don't sweat it, you're not a lesbian unless if you say "Wow that is one hot girl!"

Hope it helps

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MHScutie87 answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:17 am:
Don't worry about it, honestly. You thought it was a cute 'guy,' right? You weren't thinking, "Hey that's a cute girl." It was just a common mistake, don't think anything more of it.

hope this helps- :)

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Sexybabii9095 answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:14 am:
hah thinking someone is hot is just a girl thing. i explained this to my bf last night. girls look at men & women, not because were cheaking them out . just because were nosy. men just usally look because there checking them out. dont worry, just thinking someones hot is a common thing. its more like 'what you wanna do to them _ feel you get _ thoughts you think_ ' that kinda thing is completly different

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givingbackmonday answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:10 am:
no it doesnt mean youre a lesbian. the girl was far away, and you couldnt tell it was a girl, epecially since she was tomboyish

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