Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
dancesnrain answered Monday August 29 2005, 3:10 pm: No it doesn't make you a lesbian...
It happens all the time. There's been times when I've done the same thing... and just because you find a girl attractive, doesn't make you bi or lesbian. It just means you know what looks good and what doesn't... It's normal. Don't worry so much about it. [ dancesnrain's advice column | Ask dancesnrain A Question ]
azngemini answered Sunday August 28 2005, 11:55 pm: it was totally a common mistake. like once i was in art class, and there was this "guy" that was staring at me, and i was thinking, "ok strange, but he's not all that bad..".. then i found out he was a she and i didnt know if i was a lesbian or if she was...
brOwnEyEdBabii08 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 11:10 pm: omg I did the same thing once..I thought this girl was a guy because she looked like one..anyways No I don't think this means your a lezbian because I know im not..so don't worry..
Azngangsta answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:54 pm: Just a mistake that's all. You know, I have a very feminin face (but I'm a dude) and now that my hair is in a perm (So now my hair is straight) I look exactly like a girl if you see me from behind. This one dude was checking me out, and I thought to myself "Oh God! I have to get hair braided soon!" Haha! Maybe that's why girls don't talk to me. I look like a girl from far away! [ Azngangsta's advice column | Ask Azngangsta A Question ]
TrustMe answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:34 pm: its just a mistake. don't think to hard on it. u already said that you thought it was a boy. You were attracted to a "boy" Trust me, u'd know if you were a lesbo or bi.
good luck and keep me posted :) [ TrustMe's advice column | Ask TrustMe A Question ]
evilmonkey36 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:25 pm: Don't worry about it. It is just a common mistake and it happens all the time. Even to me!
Don't sweat it, you're not a lesbian unless if you say "Wow that is one hot girl!"
MHScutie87 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:17 pm: Don't worry about it, honestly. You thought it was a cute 'guy,' right? You weren't thinking, "Hey that's a cute girl." It was just a common mistake, don't think anything more of it.
Sexybabii9095 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:14 pm: hah thinking someone is hot is just a girl thing. i explained this to my bf last night. girls look at men & women, not because were cheaking them out . just because were nosy. men just usally look because there checking them out. dont worry, just thinking someones hot is a common thing. its more like 'what you wanna do to them _ feel you get _ thoughts you think_ ' that kinda thing is completly different [ Sexybabii9095's advice column | Ask Sexybabii9095 A Question ]
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