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well me and my friend lets call him fred... well me and him have been friends for a long long time... and well he's mad at me because well i dont really know why... but i dont know what to do about it... im feeling empty inside... and i want to talk to him but i havent been able to contact him.. he told me to fuck off.. because i was ignoring him but i didnt know that he had IMed me.. what should i do?
please help....
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if he told you to fuck off then don't worry about it. a guy talking to you like that is just disrespectful and immature. you need someone better than him. that empty feeling you have is just guilt. you feel as if its your fault when it's really not. Trust me, no matter what you think or feel there are better guys out there for you! lol go get em' tiger ;) :)
good luck and keep me posted.
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men are insecure. once you understand that, everythings alot easier. if you missed a couple IM's, specially if you werent even there or noticing, hes being way over insecure, it may suck, but wait it out. from what it sounds hes just being dumb, maybe he has a really good reason, but its his fault for no sharing it and just over reacting instead, not yours. wait it out and saee what happens, because if he cared about you, hell be back.
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Hey there! I suggest that when he has calmed down, tell him that you didn't mean to ignore him when he IMed you, and that you're sorry for it. Because you guys have been friends for a really long time, hopefully he will understand. If he doesn't listen, then you might have to reconsider the friendship because true friends will lend an ear to a friend. But if it is something you really don't know that he is mad at you about, then try to talk to him calmly and ask him what's wrong, and explain to him that you really don't know what's bothering him, and he should definently tell you. Take care...
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tell him the truth, and if he doesnt believe you tell him that you truly are sorry. and if he still doesnt then, he either will come around on his own time, or yall will just never talk to each other, im jk if he doesnt come around in a week he isnt worth it
hope it all works out for you and 'fred'
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