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I'm bi and I decided to tell my mom but now I really regret it because I think she thinks I am weird now. She acts really different around me. What should I do?
..Just talk to her about it..be like mom this isnt a thing that i wanted to tell u..But i have to your my family and i love you and this is whats going on in my life, and i want you to accept it..Hope i helped`
is there any way yu can make yur boobs look smaller?
..A sports bra, or a nonpadded bra
Ok well I'm 15/F and really shy. I mean when people hear me speak they're like, "ohmygawd I've never heard her speak before" and I've been at this school for like, a year and a half.
I've never had a boyfriend or anything and I can honestly say that more than half of my year at school are in a relationship and it makes me sad 'cos I'm not one of them. Not that I want a boyfriend just 'cos everyone else has one or anything. :|
I'm ugly but I know not all guys go for looks.. but I'm so shy that even boys who go for personality aren't gonna go for me 'cos I don't talk.. I CAN'T. I must have something wrong with me 'cos when people I don't know very well speak to me I feel physically sick and my mind goes blank and stuff, it's scary :S
Anyway, how can I kindof be more confident and stuff? 'Cos I'm probably gonna be single for like, ever, if I keep being all shy and stupid.
thanks
..You just have to try and be more outgoing, that is all that i can really think off.first try it on ur close friends..and then just be more outgoing in school..join groups clubs and met new friends and just have fun with your year and be outgoing, i hope i helped..i hope it works out for u
so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME!
..it is not rape..but yes he can get in a lot of trouble for that he was forcing something on u..i would tell ur mom about it..i hope i helped and i hope everything is ok
Now I have a comment to make and a question. Everyone will tell you how you shouldn't go for the sex and you shouldn't like the cuter guy. Now I know I live out the parts about the cuter guy being nice and all that. Everyone tells you not to do stuff, but in the end you end up not taking their advice at all. You end up doing the opposite. For instance I asked a question about should I like the boy who I've known since kindergarden or the hott one that goes to a diff school. Everyone says that the guy whos hott is a jerk but hes not. My point is it just cracks me up because you all waste your time writing how you shouldn't do things but in the end everyone always does the opposite. So whats with it? It's point less when people say follow your heart well you wouldn't be asking a question if you could!
So whats with all of this?
(I put it under sex cause people always answer the questions on sex)
..well first off your sayin y r you wastin your time answerin the question..no its why are they wastin the time askin the question if they arent gonna listen..this is a website that people ask questions so people cna answer and people cna listen..so if your gonna ask a question and not listen to what people say..dont ask the question..because people are just trying to be nice and answer the question
yea i no i spelt stuff wrong but i have a brokenn finggerrr`
annd thiss isnt to be rudee
I always try to go on a diet but I have a hard time staying commited so it never goes on past 3 days! Same with exercises too. How can I get over this and finally stick with it??
..There is nothing you can do but say you will
and stick to what you say..but if you put your mind to it you can do it..so if you really want to get in shape you have to do it you have to tell yourself you cannot give up..hope i helped`
I'm jsut wonder exacally what i should expect from my boyfriend. How much time he shoudl spend on me, what he should do and stuff like that. I've never gone to school with one of my boyfriends before so this is kind of a new thign for me. Also what so u deam "appropriate" for a 14 year old girl and a 15 year old guy to do?
..well if you are gonna try and expect something for your boyfriends its not good..you just have to see how things go..
like if he is never willin to spend time with you
than you know its not going good
but if you spend all the time together
and he tried to invite you everywhere its good
..but some things you can do are..hang out..go to the movies..go out for pizza..go to eachothers houses..and stuff like that hope i helped
hey i am 13 and i want to go to my grandmas church and i have to pay sumbody 10 dollars to take me and i dont have it and i waz wunderin if any body has an idea what to do?
cause i know if i do sumtin mabey the pursonn that usually takes me will take me but i dont know what to do so plz help i rate good!:)
..Clean the house for your parents
or cut the lawn
or do the dishes
help your mom with whatever she needs
do the laundry and clean it
just some ideas hope i helped
So there is this guy that I like, and I want to tell him I like him tomorrow. Problem is that I don't know how I should. Should I write a letter or tell him in person? What do you guys think is best? Also, I'm kinda shy, so how can I get over my shyness? 5's for helpful advice.
..Well the best way to tell him is to his face..He wont even think about it if its in a letter.Prolly just through it out..If you are shy to say straight out i like you..Just flirt with him a lot and he will get the picture..Maybe he will even flirt back..Hope i helped`
Are weed and pot the same thing?
..Yea they are just a term for marijuana..Hope i helped`
i feel like i have come upon a dead end in my life. a boy that i like doesn't seem to feel the same for me and i don't think that i could work up the courage to tell him that i like him...what should i do aobut it?
..Have one of your friends tell him or do it over text/aim but try really hard to find the courage..you will have a better chance if you ask him person..And dont think your life has to end over a boy..Its just a person..If he dont accept you will find someone out there for you..Hope I helped`
i was thinking of kinda having a party/get together for my birthday and i was thinking we'd play cards (great idea w/my kinda friends) eat, watch a movie, and then play man hunt (game outside when it's dark) now i have a guy friend and he has a girlfriend. she has a hate list of people she obviously hates... and i'm not sure if i'm on there, but i don't really want to invite her to my house... do you think she'd get mad if i had him over (with a bunch of people) and not her?
..If you are on her hate list she would prolly get mad and think your taking her boyfriend away.If you arent on her hate list and you invite him and not her you prolly will be..So your best bet is to invite her get to know her and then you will NEVER have to be on her hate list..As long as your nice to her..Good luck`
My Best Friend ( Katie ) just met this other girl. I totally don`t mind her hangin out with other people, but this girl does drugs and things like that. Katie is startign to hang out with Lauren more and more cause they both like the same "punk" music and they love doing goth-like things ( i dont like lables but thats just how they put it ) I`m more of the preppy, country music, shopping, french manicure type girl. Is it time for me and Katie to move on since were different? Or should I stay and watch her get herself into trouble and fight to keep her.
- need help please.
..Try and get her out of trouble dont just sit there and watch..But if you sit down with her and talk to her about stuff maybe it will change her mind..Hope i helped`
14/f.
Whenever my boyfriend comes over, we usually aren't allowed in the house (my parents are strict), and we usually end up hanging out at the park, but there's not much to do.. we can't drive anywhere yet, and my parents don't trust us with much.. It usually gets boring. What can I do to liven things up and make things less boring?
..Hang out outside..Try going to the movies..The mall and to your friends house..If you care about your boyfriend you can have fun with him doing anything.Hope i helped`
I put on my application that I was a stay at home mom, is that a good idea to put that on the application or not.
If you are a stay at home mom and yes it is a good thing to add..They will know you have responsibilty and that you can take care of a kid on your own and that is a lot of work..If you can do that you can do almost anything`
Are u able to buy diet pills if u are under the age of 18
..I dont think you can unless it is not perscription..But if you are under the age of 18 chances are you shouldnt be going on a diet..And the things in the pill arent good for you or wont help..But if you cant buy it your self and you really want it maybe you know someone over 18 that can buy it for you and you give them the money..Hope i helped`
My birthday is in a few days and I have no idea what I really want. I dont know whats in and whats new. Any ideas?
..Well you didnt say if you were a girl or a boy so this is kind of hard but ill try..
An Ipod Nano
Ipod Mini
Ipod Regular
Money
Cell Phone
Computer For Yourself
Clothes
Anythin like that..Hope I helped`
hey there's this guy i really like, and he keeps asking me who i like. i really want to tell him that it's him, but i just don't know how to. please help me! i really don't know what to say!
i rate high!
..Just blush and stuff when he asks and he will get the point..Hope i helped`
OK so my mom and me never really got along but she was okay to live with and everything
now a days shes getting unbearable!! And I cant live with her anymore she drives me crazy... ON WEEKENDS she gets drunk sometimes and yells like crazy and she told me last night
"if your grades dont improove im going to make your life a living hell" basically meaning no phone because I usually talk to my b/f since he kinda lives like 30 minuts away and we dont see eachother often.. if I loose him I dont know what I will do.. Im in love with him and loosing him to me is just not an option
what can I do??
..Well maybe you can try talking to your mom about her drinking and just try and get along with her..Also try and raise your grades because if you dont have good grades you shouldnt talk to your boyfriend because me might be putting you behind..So try to bring them up..Hope i helped`
My girlfriend and I have been in a very seriuos relationship for about a year and a half. She doesn't really have many other friends other than me and hesitates when turning to her parents. (I am 17 she is 16). This leads me to one problem. When she needs to turn to someone, I'm the only one left. I love when she turns to me with her problems. It makes me feel like I help her out, but a lot of the time I don't know how to give her advice. The latest thing is that she's been under a lot of stress. She baby sits a metaly disturbed child who threatens her and she is taking advanced placement classes in school. I want to help her manage her time but it's hard to give her advice on a situation I've never been in. Please help me help her.
P.S. Any general advice to give her in the future is much appriciated.
..Just tell her that you will always bee there for her..Try and help her do homework..Maybe even help babysit..Hope i helped`