Question Posted Wednesday November 23 2005, 6:44 pm
I'm bi and I decided to tell my mom but now I really regret it because I think she thinks I am weird now. She acts really different around me. What should I do?
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Thursday November 24 2005, 9:20 am: well tell her that you feel like shes been acting weird sence you told her and tell her your not weird its just how it turned out or somthin hope i helped !!
danerox answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:41 pm: hello ..........look ...........it doesnt matter, if you think that your mom is treating you dif. then that isnt your falt...........you are who you are and if your mom cant except that then thats her problem......just continue being who you are and doing what you do...trust me you will survive...........i know that you do love your mom and trust her .............but if she cant except you than thats her problem......like i said continue being who you truley are and doing what you would usually do ............dont ever change your ways because of somebody else.
ncblondie answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:33 pm: She's probably just unsure of how to act. Even adults get moments where they're unsure of theirselves. I would sit down with your mom and tell her that your sexuality doesn't change who you are. Tell her how much you value the relationship you have with her and that you don't want it to change. She'll respect your maturity at facing the issue and discussing it rathan avoiding it. Otherwise, just act normal (and I don't mean straight, I just mean like you normally would). I'm sure once she gets over her surprise and realizes that you're still the same person, things will be okay.
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:32 pm: Talk to her again about it.. Ask her why she seems so strange around you and stuff.. I mean this is probably normal since you just told her and she`s probably still bit surprised.. give it a couple weeks before askin her whats wrong.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
sillyrob answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:30 pm: She was probably weirded out because bisexuality isn't real.
malibubarbiie111 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:28 pm: talk to her. it was prolly just a shock. since she is your mom && OLDER.. that wasn`t the "way it was" "back then" ya know? she is prolly just confused && stuff.. she`ll love you no matter what. just ask her about everything. [ malibubarbiie111's advice column | Ask malibubarbiie111 A Question ]
cjAdvice answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:11 pm: Talk to her about it, its the best thing to do, after all, she is your mother! :)
hope this helps, and i just wanna say, you rock no matter what!
tasuki answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 7:49 pm: The same thing happened to me!
The same exact thing.
So I know how you feel.
But my way of dealing with it is not the best.
I just ignore her.
It works only sometimes.
*sigh*
Sorry I can't help, but sometimes it is good to know that other people understand how you feel. So I hope that comforts you a little. =) [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
brokenagain answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 7:40 pm: well you already told her the hardest part--the easiet part is talking toher to find out why she is acting different towards you. If you can talk to her about that ou can talk about anything..good luck [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
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