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Q: i heard this song and i dont know what the name is..

" if i could escape and recreate a place as my own world, and i could be your favorite girl, forever perfectly together." and then a guys voice is in it and it goes like wooohooo yeehooo


does anyone know what the song is called?
Sweet Escape Gwen Stefani featuring akon

Q: i am 13, and lets just say i gotta some extra junk in the trunk, or baggage in the belly... and i would like it lose some of it before bathing suit season? does anyone have some simple tips, that wont take too much time, but are effective?

anything would be much appreciated
for breakfast: stay away from like poptarts and sugary items try a bowl of cereal or like a piece of fruit stay away from alot of bread(pancakes waffles and so on) drink water or a type of juice apple or orange

for lunch; try a sandwhich stay away from fried food for lunch try either like pasta(carbohydrates) or wraps(totilla with like lettuce tomamato chargrilled chicken) are good or try a salad with a low fat dressing they make like low fat honey mustard...sometimes you think your doing goood with a salad but the dressing can kill you stick with water for lunch a gatorade is not bad either for a little energy aviod sodas at first it will be kinda tough and you may get headaches but stick to it...the less sodas you drink you will feel good and better about yourself

try to minimize snacking between lunch a dinner

for dinner try to avoid fried food as much as possible grilled chicken or steak is good along again with pasta or sometimes an all veg. dinner is good corn is not bad with like mash potatoes and like boiled shrimp

after dinner also aviod snacking because your not active much usually from the time you go to bed and the time you wake up
also exercise daily that is impotant eating healthy is only half of it...join a health club or go walking/running your prefrences do crunches also for flat abs!
Good luck
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Q: Do you believe in Palmistry?
no it is all made up and is just a waste of money

Q: i was wondering what i should wear to my date on v day..i don't know where he is taking me...oh and some ideas on makeup with my outfit...thanx
ok this is what i would do

i would wear a blue jean skirt and like a tank with like a shirt over it wear like pink or red

for makeup do a gold or light pink

Q: What are some good musicals like Rent and Wicked?

Q: okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me???
i would reccomend changing brands and also if your a girl try guys deodorantor get a no smell deodorant and double up with spray and a stick deodorant it works everytime

Q: every year our school's 7th graders throw a formal dance for the 8th graders. i am totally against going because i hate dresses and can't dance. all of my friends that were totally against it are suddenly going and renting a limo and everything. they are even having a sleepover and a whole day to get ready for it. i don't want to go but they are pressuring me so much to go. what should i do??? the guy i really like will be there but i am 100% against stuff like this. should i give in? can you give me some tips on how to stay strong under pressure?? thanks...i'll rate high!
i think you should go because you never know when you'll miss out..i knoe it isnt reall your thing but if your crush sees you there and you look gorgeous you never know :P anyway that is just my opinion when i talk to ppl that dont go to formals they usually regret it! have some fun dont let this oppritunity blow by you! you only live once!

Q: Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks
ok ye sthe will keep it confidential if you ask them to because they dont have the right by law to telll your mom if you dont want them to the other thing is you dont lose your virginity to tampons.

Q: i have extremely rough skin, especially between my eyebrows, on my forhead, on my nose, and on my chin. what can i do about this?
try a lotion or palmers cocoa butter at your local walgreens/rite aid/cvs pharmacy also bath and bodyworks has a reallly good line of lotion i thik it is calle dlike tru blue and tehy have stuff for rough skin!

Q: I'm going to NYC with my crush and his family this Friday. He's 15 im 13. I was wondering if my outfit sounds okay.

I'm wearing these comfy "yoga pants" from American Eagle. They're grey and have foldover waist. I'm wearing an American Eagle shirt that says Be Bright on it. Since we're going to NYC im wearing a white northface over it with a white knit hat that has a pom pom on it. Any other suggestions would be welcome!


that sounds cute in a sporty way !!!!
if you need something nice i would reccomend a pair of nice fitting jeans and like a tank top with like a sweater over (the half one or full length are cute) if you want something that will look cute for the winter try jeans and a long heavy coat and liek your hatthat you were wearing add scarfs and gloves for a fun look! have fun nyc is the greatest!

Q: ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..

so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
please help!
ok first off all i am aganist abortion.i am pro life
because it was the mother's mistake for being sexually active...and number 2 you wont have to have an abortion if you save sex for marriage. rape is not an excuse because they have something called the moring after pill which can prevent pregnancy if you hav ebeen raped.
i belive killing an innocent child is wrong and abortion is homocide!
www.silentscream.org has alot of reason to be pro life
and you cant be both fyi
hope i helped

Q: im doing a project and a need to find a roman invention...its a project so you know how it goes.

so anybody know any good/interesting/simple roman inventions?

anything about this topic will help! thanks!!
aqueduct, indoor plumbing, the arch

http://www.evsc.k12.in.us/schoolzone/schools/EMPOWER/harrison/nm/rome.htm

Q: alright heres the thing ill be 14 soon i weigh from 113 some days and 120 others i wanna loose weight and this summer i was down to 108 but my parents and everyone find out i was doing it the wrong way i love not eatting it makes me feel so much better is it wrong to do something i enjoy?
in this case yes it is the wrong way...not eating is very unhealthy and you can runinto serious problems down the road...one of my friends became anorexic and had to go to rehab over summer not eating is something should bother you not give you pleasure there are alternatives if you want to lose weight your not even 14 yet your body needs nutrients that food provides and if it doesnt get that you can say hello to eating disorders and more!you 14 your weight is on track...if you want to lose weight consult you physcian and do it properly
im me if u want to know more

Q: whats pros
and
cons??
pros_the good side of things
cons_bad side of things

Q: So BASICALLY Im going on a cruise in December to the Caribbean and Im really excited and all, but I dont have a lot of warm clothes! Ive outgrown my summery clothes and I live in MASSACHUSETTS so EVERY store only has cold weather clothes. And Ive tried! I mostly just need BATHING SUITS! Im thinking I probably need to order them online? That would be the best option. I leave December 23rd. Im a size 14 in bathing suits (in like kids lol) Does anyone know a website(s!) I could order bathing suits on. Ive tried obvious stores - Abercrombie, AE, etc! Please be POSITIVE they have bathing suits & in my size & Ill rate you a 5! thanks!

Thanks!
nordstroms.com

Q: HOW DO I GET SKINNY??????
im 200 pounds..
please help!
dont say exersize...
please just help
i need to loose 100 pounds fast!
DONT SAY EXERSIZE I CANT DO IT.
PLEASE!!
help!! fast!
i want to be pretty..
for breakfast: stay away from like poptarts and sugary items try a bowl of cereal or like a piece of fruit stay away from alot of bread(pancakes waffles and so on) drink water or a type of juice apple or orange

for lunch; try a sandwhich stay away from fried food for lunch try either like pasta(carbohydrates) or wraps(totilla with like lettuce tomamato chargrilled chicken) are good or try a salad with a low fat dressing they make like low fat honey mustard stick with water for lunch a gatorade is not bad either for a little energy aviod sodas at first it will be kinda tough and you may get headaches but stick to it...the less sodas you drink you will feel good and better about yourself

try to minimize snacking between lunch a dinner

for dinner try to avoid fried food as much as possible grilled chicken or steak is good alogn again with pasta or sometimes an all veg. diiner is good corn is not bad with like mash potatoes and like boiled shrimp

and your going have to exercise it is gonna take a while to lose a hundred pund right now trying aiming for like 20-30 it is not healthy to lose that much weight at once you body inst prepared for that..and you dont have to be skinny to be pretty!

Q: iimm like 125 pounds!!!!! i am only 14 and i am like 5 feet dont u think thats wicked fat!?!?!? well what should i do to get skiinny i feel like a fat cow and i dont like to wear athingsuites and stuff infront off people i need to get skinny by summer what hsould i do? i rate high!!
for breakfast: stay away from like poptarts and sugary items try a bowl of cereal or like a piece of fruit stay away from alot of bread(pancakes waffles and so on) drink water or a type of juice apple or orange

for lunch; try a sandwhich stay away from fried food for lunch try either like pasta(carbohydrates) or wraps(totilla with like lettuce tomamato chargrilled chicken) are good or try a salad with a low fat dressing they make like low fat honey mustard stick with water for lunch a gatorade is not bad either for a little energy aviod sodas at first it will be kinda tough and you may get headaches but stick to it...the less sodas you drink you will feel good and better about yourself

try to minimize snacking between lunch a dinner

for dinner try to avoid fried food as much as possible grilled chicken or steak is good alogn again with pasta or sometimes an all veg. diiner is good corn is not bad with like mash potatoes and like boiled shrimp

Q: I get mad when people just annoys me at school. They think I'm doing something that I'm not and I hate how they embarass me. I think that they are being racist to me. I'm a senior in highschool. I don't even have anyone to hang out with there they all just rejects me. they think I copy them or trying to be in their group that I don't like.And they also make a point that they are just so perfect and they act well and I'm not. People that I don't even know also avoids me when I'm not even going up to them to talk or whatever. I can't take it anymore. What do I do?
i would reccomend this..... when people give your crud dont take it tel them how you feel..i know that is difficult to do...the everyday challenges we face as teenagers are difficult and frusturating... maybe search for a new group of friends and branch out im sure your not the only people who are having problems...maybe join a sportsteam or a club that has the same intrest as you!!! im sorry i cant be more help

What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

some people jsut dont understand just go in with confiedence and know your not the only one

Q: Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..
i would also reccomend yahoo luancg..you can make yor own radio station and customize it with the bands you like.. and if you want to look up your favorite music just go to www.singingfish.com and look to the left to customize your search!

Q: I'm a christian, but I have only gone to church about like 5 times in my entire life. (I'm 15 by the way). I've never read the bible, and I know almost little to nothing about it at all. LAtely, I've been feeling awful because I never grew up with god in my life. My parents don't like to go to church. I don't want to make this a big thing. Are there safe resources online I can look up for information?
yes there are safe resources...and just because you dont go to church doesn't mean you cant have a personal relationship with God. you can't help it your parents don't go..maybe ask God to show you a resource you could possibly read... a few i woul suggest is revovle for girls and refuel for guys it is the new testament put into magazine form you can actually find parts of the bible online.....
od bless you

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hey it is KJ!!! I love fashion shopping music hanging out with my friends God is the most important thing in my life. i am not one of those adive columnist who put random junk..so feel free to ask anything...

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