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Hi,
Today a friend of mine invited a guy i sorta like over to her house. He always says he likes me. But he is sort of a sexual guy...he said hes had sex about 3 times...
ok so were watching a movie and he moved in for a kiss... i kissed him and it lasted for a while. But while he was kissing me he sorta went half way up my shirt and then he started kissing my neck...
i had no idea how to kiss him i kind of messed up and he moved away, and then came back.
ifelt really extremely unconfertible....
and now hes askin me to be his gf...and i dont know what to say because what if we do go out and he always wants to touch me? i dont want to break his heart because i like him...but i really do feel unconfertible when we kissed.
what should i do, should i go out with him?
-toubled 13 year old (link)
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You shouldn't go ut with him if you don't feel ocmfortable with m him.i know this sounds dumb but respect your feelings and your body.I hope I helped.Ask me anytime whatever you want
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This may be long, so brace yourself lol.
Ok, so I like my ex boyfriend and i have "I love you" in my profile.My other ex kept on wanting to know who it was and I didn't wanna tell him because he'd get extremely mad. So then after awhile he started calling me a bi*ch, as*hole, and prick n stuff.He said that I think I'm too good for everyone and that's why I won't tell him. He thinks it because I only told my cousin (my best friend) that I liked my ex so that made him think that I thought I was too good for everyone. He was a really good friend of mine, and since I won't tell him who I like because I wanna keep it to myself and my cousin,he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Was he being wrong or was I? please help! What should I say to him? (link)
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Well to me it osunds like he is being a real jerk to you and htat he is taking this way to far.You shouldn't say anything if he is like htat then you shoulnd't have him in your life.i hope things work out.
claire
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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You should buy him something really special and lke make him like a meal and like go to the movies or something something sweet and caring! I hope I helped and happy birthday to your ex1
claire
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Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother
Rachel (link)
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Well you should tell him that you don't want to loose him as a friend and that your over him in the romantic way.I hope everything works out.
Claire
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hello i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16...i really really care about him, let me just start off by saying that...but ok so my boyfriend and I have a cute relationship...or so everyone says...but I'm soooo prude!!!! oh my God!....he puts his arms around my waist and I get so nervouse, I start to back away and I don't want him to think that I don't like him, i just get nervouse....what should I do??....I like it...but I hate it....and then in church he does it...and its like church so your not supposed to do that....but i don't know what to say or do...I'm like afraid to talk to him about it becuase he likes holding me....how do i not become so prude??? I mean if i'm like this forever I'll never get my first kiss (link)
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Well you really just have to get used to the fact of it.You should talk to him because thats the best way but if not he shouldn't care if you back away just let him know you like him when you back away.I hope I helped.
claire
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uhhhh my mom and i fight like crazy all the time i can stand her sometimes...she acts so stupid!!!! and the worst part is...i sometimes don't even care when i'm being mean to her.....what should i do???
hope you can help...
a frustrated teen (link)
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Well I'm not getting along with my mom either so most of the time I just try to get away from her...you know to calm down after fights and maybe talk to my friends. If that doesn't work maybe you guys need to see some one to help your relationship with your mom. I hope I helped.You can always leave me anything.
claire
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i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany (link)
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You should tell someone that your friend was sexually abused because it could be rape and thats illegal. You friend should go see someone like a sychatrist(i dont know how to spell) I hope I helped.
~Claire~
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I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice. (link)
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I have many friends in the same situation.Well first you should make sure this guy isn't a online sex preditor or a old man or something..lol! Make sure someone else knows about this guy.I wouildn't give out numbers to people i don't know so i wouldn't.But I hope I helped
~Claire~
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ok well im 13/f and i like these two guys but they both like me back and i dont no which one to go with beczuse i like them both the same(if that makes sense) and one of them lets call him bob...well bob is hott and hes nice and has a good personality and everything and hes caring towards me. well the other guy lets call him larry. larry is cute or ok looking and is caring and everything...has a good personality too. so its really hard for me to choose. and if i go out with one of them it will probably ruin my chances with the other one...i really need help! (link)
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Well I know what people would tell me is like list all the stuff about both of them..like what u like about them.Whatever list is bigger choose that guy. But i know i hate that way so I wouldn't want to look mean but i would choose the hott guy!!..lol...Well I hope I helped
PS I was on vacation again so i couldn't answer!but i'm back so ask me questions anytime u want!
~Claire~
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ok wel im 13 and a girl and i dont know how to make out and i relle want to with this guy and hes experienced and i dont no how to...help me!! please (link)
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Well i know you probably heard this already but kissing and making out comes naturally you can't really have tips.I hope I helped1
i was on vacation so it took a while to answer i just got back!!
calire
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where are some good sites for quotes i can put on my buddyprofile??? (link)
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Well I go to http://firehotquotes.bolt.com/ those have a lot of cute qoutes!! I hope I helped.
claire
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i need some theme ideas for my sweet sixteen...does anyone have any? i'll take anything! Thanks~! (link)
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You could have like a hawiian theme or rent a room in a hotel with a huge dance floor!! or it could by the poool or like a place where you can do activities and things.Happy Birthday!!I hope I helped.
claire
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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do (link)
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You should break up with him if he doesn't like you anymore. I hope i helped.
claire
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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place (link)
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You should totally break up with him if you think its a mistake.I hope I helped!
claire
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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much (link)
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I think you should go out with John becasue its sounding like the other guy isn't really right for and John is!!I wouldn't call it cheating so you shouldn't feel bad.I hope I helped.
claire
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Where can i find a web site to help me look for an old doll i found. It is a Mattel doll made in 1964. has strawbreey blonde type of hair & is on red roller skates!!!! She takes batterys. Please give me a web site to see how much she is worth!& Please dont give me ebay!!!!!!! that site didnt work ! i tryed!!! thank for all the help !!!
I rate High!!!!!!! (link)
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You should google it...lol um put mattel dolls for sale.I hope I helped.
claire
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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help! (link)
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Well I think you should just tell her because if you don't really like her then you won't care if she gets hurt because she'll be back to her old self in no time!! Just be straight with her.I hope I helped>
claire
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does anyone know some good layout sites for xanga with cute qoutes or back rounds thanks sooo much
xoxoxoxo (link)
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Well the one I go to is http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=raiinydaylayouts__x3 I hope I helped.
claire
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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me (link)
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Well thats terrible!!! You should definitly tell someone maybe yourt parents.I know i would never tell my parents becasue i wouldn't but they could help out a lot!! I hope I helped.
claire
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i got a boyfriend and i think my best friend likes him cuz she gets mad when i talk about him. Should i talk to her about it or just let it go. Cuz my boyfriend hates her and she thinks that him and every boy likes her. Should i talk to her or what should i do?¿ (link)
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You shouold set her straight. If she gets mad at you then she isn't a great friend because i mean he is your bf!!! I think she is full of herself if she thinks every boy likes her!! Well I hope I helped out with your problem.If you need more advice you know you can lways ask me!!
claire
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