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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much
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no i do not think you cheated becuase you were just talking to him but i think you should leave your boyfriend because if he does not call you and stuff like that then you should break up with him because if hes your boyfriend then he should do all that stuff and you should see him like every day in stead of 2 weeks apart.
hope i helped
rkgurl13
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make a list of Pros and Cons for both guys and just go with the one that has more Pros.
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..I dont mean to be mean at all..but you really need to make your questions shorter..They take to much time to read..Well maybe yo0u should tell your boyfriend how you feel and just talk to him..Hope i helped..`
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well this john boy sounds like the boy for you..and your friends are right..you need to listen to your heart..and i hope your heart is saying john..because your boyfriend has not called you in a week and for all you no hes cheating..but maybe not..but you no i wouild dump my boyfirned and so go with john..he just sounds like a prince charming..and your boyfriend sounds like a jerk..and people like john only come around once in a life time dont give up the chance..you usually find people like john rare..people like your boyfriend!!"EVERYWHERE" but i honesrley in my opion dont think your cheating..becasue i dont think you slept with john or kissed john whle you were going with your boyfriend..because i think cheating is only kissing and sleeping with another guy..but you might take cheating in another defeanition..and you need to tell your boyfriend that you cant work every thing out in life..and leave him and so go with john..
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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well..mabie you should wait a while first and just see what happens..or if you know anything about johns past girlfriends nd see if he acts one way when your not going out w/ him nd if he acts totally different when you are..becasue thats happened to a lot of my friends nd you would hate to loose your other boyfriend if you liked him..if john gonna be a total freak!
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I think you should go out with John becasue its sounding like the other guy isn't really right for and John is!!I wouldn't call it cheating so you shouldn't feel bad.I hope I helped.
claire
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MMMM. This questoin was too long, and I am far too bored with it to read all of it. Anyways, follow your heart. Wherever it goes, if that is a patch full of bunnies. Go.
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you need to tell him is he doesnt start trying you arent going to wait for him. say i like you but i ant put myself on hold till youre ready. its not fair to eithr of us. i think john is the guy you should be with so just think as it of ur boyfriend will prolly get over it hes just saying that stuffto make u stay with him. you can o better and he'll get over it n move on.
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I don't think you cheated on your bf you just said you loved him that doesn't mean you still don't love your boyfriend! I do think you should do what your heart tells you and i think your heart is telling you to break up with your bf and go for john! John seems really really nice and your bf doesn't seem like the right guy for you and john does! Ditch your bf and go for John!!!!!!!!!! If you have any more problems send them to my inbox!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hope things work out!
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Tell your present b/f that u think the 2 of u need a break. then go out with johny!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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