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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?

okay if ur ugly get a loud of makeup and sluty clothes and stuff and breakout and show the bitches that call you ugly what now and change ur whole self image to what you like and youll show them up. not everyones pretty buttheyres many ways to make urself pretty.

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okay.. ive liked this kid nick now since the day i met him.. well he told me he liked me and then i became intrested in him. he asked me ou7t for the first time about a month ago, i said i dunno/ maybe. i like him alot.. but i have morals in my life.. and i wanted to get to know him more. after that he became somewhat depressed and figured that my maybe.. was considered a no.. which it wasnt. after that i regreted it. he asked me out again about 2 weeks ago, and i again said maybe, and i wanted to kno him more. im always afraid hes gunna loose intrest and just move on.. and i dont blame him. i like him so much, i just wanna get to know him more. we do act as a couple and we hold hands, cuddle and what not.. he kisses my head which is so cute. do you think he'll stay intrested? any adcice on what i should do?? pleaseee say yes!!!

okay. you need to stop making him wait if you like him say yes you usually like them more and get to know them more when you go ot so stop holding back and i know u have mrals and let him know but you can get to know him just as easy being him bf

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theres a song that goes like:

im like a bird, fly away, i dont know where my home is..

who sings this and what is the name of it?

im like a bird - nelly furtodeo

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okay, i have a group of 4 friends that have a blast when we're all together. its me and another girl and 3 guys. Well i found out that 2 of the guys liked me.. and the thing is i like both of them too.. but i like one more.. but dont wanna hurt the other one. and so i tell them that i just want to be friends with all of them. and then i get a texted from the one i like more asking if i'd ever want to hold his hand, i told him i'd let him kno when the time comes. but ugh.. its so fustrating.. hope you can help!

okay you need to be with the one you like and just be really good friends with the other one. let him know its okay cause not every guy ur gonna like he;ll get over it.

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sry for the length but i need help!

ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...

and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??


again sry for the length
i'll rate high!!!

well. maybe he has a crush on you too but hes afraid of ejection to or maybe . he doesnt want ur friendship to change just hint it. like i miss you and stuff and he'll start to get it and if he likes you yull know and he'll make the move!

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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well just be like i hope you had a good trip i miss yu and bring up hanging out. and stuff im sure he won't think its weird. if hes not shy hes prolly not thinking it about it.

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Im stuck on what I want. ok.. Theres these two guys that i really like. One of them is like the total oposite of me and I do things with him that i would never do before because im more of a shy person. Like not anything bad just more adventures things. But then there that other guys thats just like the one to cuddle with and he dresses nice and my parents like him and his parents like me so it sounds so perfect but then i also still have really strong feelings for the other guy? What should i do? How do i pick one?

oki had the same problem, and i liked loved them both you got to see which one makes you smile more and if its the same who fo you feel comfortable being dumb w/ n the guy that doesnt care if you get all ready thats the guy to pick im sure you like them both but theyres somthing about one of the 2 guys you need . i know its like wo good to be true but youll end up hurting one so you got to decide which is better making a list sometime works i know it sounds stupid lol but you got to be w/ the guy that most makes you happy by just saying somthing dumb good luck love and im here if you need anything else!

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im not quite sure what is wrong with me. ive been crying all night because i have been thinking about stuff like just random stuff. I have had a crapy summer. well it had its hilights but overal its been so boring and i hate it. i cant wait till school starts so i can get away from home. im tired of my house so much! But idk if what im saying it tru because im in a weird mood and yeh i dont even know. what should i do to try to think positive because im always sad. and how can i make my summer better?..

well. if it was me id like get my ass up get all pretty take one of my best friends and go to the most randm place like walmart or somthing and just leave all your worrys behind you just got to learn to have fun doing dumb things im sad alotto i eat and listen to hell ofmusic and music makes all my problems go away so you need to find like a passion or somthing. that makes you motivated that life is a gift im sure theres always somthing do somthing dumb like learn to skate or somthing if my ideas arent enough then ill give you more suggestons !!

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All my friends are so much prettier and skinnier than me, and it lowers my self esteem. They are always the ones that get all the guys attention, and I hardly get any. I know it shouldnt matter at all, but it still bothers me. My friends dont treat me badly or anything, but im always worried that they are secretly thinking lower of me. Any suggestions on how to quit becoming so jealous and to stop thinking Im not good enough for my friends?

well do you feel nasty looking cause if so try to help that and if you don't then just think of all the things that are good in you n look they might be pretty but guys just want a peice of ass n with you they want to be your friend so you win in the long run if a guy likes you he just wants some its proven fact dont waste your time until highschool it fuking sucks. youre prolly beautful your just hiding and they arent worth it if they dont see you that way dear. find someone who does and youll love them for it.

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ok this might be long but people PLEASE bare with me i need your advice. ok now.

im a kinda girl that gos thru boyfriends alot like jumps from one to one (no im not a slut) ok well last year in school i started going out with a kid i really liked him not only was he my first kiss but he was kinda perfect. he was shy tho but it was kinda good since he wasnt annoying you kno? and sometimes he couldnt hang out and all. and we were on and off for like ever. and it seemed i was always the one to dump him and he was always the one to ask me back out after all the times i dumped him. i guess i kinda got selfish and i heard some other kid liked me that i went out with before. he was also hot and called you alot. so i dumped my old boyfriend for him and went out with him. everything was alright until like i dont kno i heard he didnt liek me anymore and all. and he just is such a jerk now! and i really want my old boyfriend back but i dont kno if i should ask him back out and how to do it. just please help i need advice.

ps. please dont just tell me to talk to him and all. i need help weather to ask him out again and how to stuff like that


thanks

dnt't ask him out just give him hints that you liek hi mcall him up andtell him you miss us and everything n ur other bf was a sitae ad just bring up fun times w/ him n he'' most liekly startl iking you agai nn will ask you out

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(15/f) Ok when ever I like a guy, I always want to spend time with him and talk on the phone and stuff like that but when I end up dating them all I want them to do is leave me alone and I never want to spend time with them. Am I just tired of them or what?

im the excact same way this is youre problem you want them but when they want you u loose interest its a big problem ur going to have to work with. i think you just like the challange of it all and maybe you need to stay single until you find the guy you like all the time

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Hi. My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months. Before we started dating we were best friends for 3 years. I don't feel like he is making enough of a effort to display his feelings for me. He never really says that much stuff to me. I know he likes me, though. What does this mean?

jusy say yiou feel like he doesnt like you as much as he says n try to be cute with him n he'll eventually get the picture and do it back . it shouldnt matter as long as you really care for him .

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hey theres this girl and she likes me and i like her, wat should i do,haha, lol

ask her out lol silly head! or hit on her ad stuff try to make things happen w/ you to dear

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i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers

well i think you can easily tell them gently and stuff dear theyre not gonna like hate you but theyll be upset at first but if they love you theyll understand .

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im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!

well dear maybe you need to step in and hint that you want it or dump one till you find one . and ur a lil young wen you are older youll get way more guys

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Ok.. well i have this friend and we where friends all last year and we where always together and hanging out and stuff but then this year everything changed well in the beginning of the year we were tiight n all but then we drifted apart and i dont know wut happend? we were ok but not too great after that. Its almost like she got too good for me or sumthin but i dont know? what should i do because i still want to be friends with her i just dont want her to treat me like shit because i dont deserve that.??......

well i think if shes acting like that you shouldnt bother shes a total waste n you could get a way better friend but if u really truely want her as friend then confront her and say you feel like we are drifting apart and you all our old together. she'll most likely understand shes prolly just caugh up in everyone else shes friends with im sure she hasnt noticed or maybe feels the same way

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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much

you need to tell him is he doesnt start trying you arent going to wait for him. say i like you but i ant put myself on hold till youre ready. its not fair to eithr of us. i think john is the guy you should be with so just think as it of ur boyfriend will prolly get over it hes just saying that stuffto make u stay with him. you can o better and he'll get over it n move on.

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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5

with the guy i had to come over we watched a movie. went swimming. you could easly do anything like cake somthing like a cake haha. its not really hard just bring up conversation and ask him random questions they could go on forever .

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ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer

well i think guys are expecting you to call cause theyre to good 4 it or somthing or maybe theyre just not calling cause they dont want you to think theyre despreate for you and there tryin to play hard to get or somthing. in sme cases they dont call because they thnk you are probably to busy to talk atleast thats what they say i think theyre gay and should call lol haha

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