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WiLL HE WAiT FOR ME??


Question Posted Sunday July 17 2005, 10:04 pm

okay.. ive liked this kid nick now since the day i met him.. well he told me he liked me and then i became intrested in him. he asked me ou7t for the first time about a month ago, i said i dunno/ maybe. i like him alot.. but i have morals in my life.. and i wanted to get to know him more. after that he became somewhat depressed and figured that my maybe.. was considered a no.. which it wasnt. after that i regreted it. he asked me out again about 2 weeks ago, and i again said maybe, and i wanted to kno him more. im always afraid hes gunna loose intrest and just move on.. and i dont blame him. i like him so much, i just wanna get to know him more. we do act as a couple and we hold hands, cuddle and what not.. he kisses my head which is so cute. do you think he'll stay intrested? any adcice on what i should do?? pleaseee say yes!!!
<3 bailey


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Nevaeh314 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:07 pm:
If he really likes you, he'll stay interested. (And sometimes playing hard to get makes a guy even more interested.) Just tell him that you'd like to go out with him, but you'd like to slow things down until you get to know him. Tell him that you don't want to go out as a "status symbol," but because you're truly interested in who he is as a person. Tell him that you really do like him, and you don't want him to move on, but you really just want to know him first. Good luck, hope this helps :)

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MD_Girl101 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 2:56 pm:
Well if he really like you he will think it is worth the wait.
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Girl2GirlbM answered Monday July 18 2005, 6:07 pm:
Aww, definatley cute. But i found a few problems one he became depressed when you said maybe? If you two were to go out, there will be fights, and maybe even a break up or two. And when it comes to guys who act depressed to get what they want, they will act insane when you break up with them. Happened to me. And what happens is.. they make themself seem all depressed which makes you feel bad, and worse about you'reself. But maybe im wrong, he may not really be like that. Also, if he really likes you as much as he says, he will definatley wait. And getting to know someone before you go out with them is definatly a GREAT moral. So that was a good choice. =) dont ever do anything if you're not ready for it, especially setp into a relationship. Hope i helped. =)

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beatingheartsbabyx3 answered Monday July 18 2005, 2:55 am:
okay. you need to stop making him wait if you like him say yes you usually like them more and get to know them more when you go ot so stop holding back and i know u have mrals and let him know but you can get to know him just as easy being him bf
<3 loves

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craZlilchelC152 answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:40 am:
well all that*s really up to you. But i think if you*re all acting like that then maybe you*ve gotten to know him pretty well (not trying to sound bitchy) so maybe you could give him a shot, tell him you really like him (cuz it sounds like you never expressed your feelings) you just wanted to get to know him better and now you feel you have and if he still wants the relationship. That*s how i would go about it and i hope you try this and it works, bc a boy is more likely to stick around if there*s a title. xoxo <3chelsea

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dancinqueen08 answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:34 am:
Eventually, he'll move on. I think for now he'll stay interested since you two are acting as a couple and what not, but what are you afraid of? Why not go out with him? You've known him for almost 2 months, so I'd think you'd be prepared to say yes or no. I do respect that you have morals, so all in all I think he will stay interested for now. Hope I helped.

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cynicalladvice answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:04 am:
Hang out with him as just friends and get to know him better. If you just aviod him an be confused you'll never get to know him, he will, eventually, move on. Take a chance! You never know what'll happen ;)

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vickiooos answered Sunday July 17 2005, 11:48 pm:
it's scary but you have to tell him that you honetsly want to get to know him better, and it's not some line you're feeding him to get him off your back. tell him that you really are interested and you'd understand if he wants to move on. (harsh to say but yeah). tell him that you do like him alot and you do and want a future with him but you just need a little more time. if he's really that into you then he'll stick around

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