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Friends again?
okay, i have a group of 4 friends that have a blast when we're all together. its me and another girl and 3 guys. Well i found out that 2 of the guys liked me.. and the thing is i like both of them too.. but i like one more.. but dont wanna hurt the other one. and so i tell them that i just want to be friends with all of them. and then i get a texted from the one i like more asking if i'd ever want to hold his hand, i told him i'd let him kno when the time comes. but ugh.. its so fustrating.. hope you can help!
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happened to me... I CHOOSE THE SWEETEST and the one i liked.. hmmmm choose one! lol <3 good luck~
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It's not your fault you like one guy more than the other. You shouldn't feel bad about going out with the boy you like more. Because if you feel guilty about going out with one guy while another guy likes you, then you'll feel guilty about dating people your whole life. If you like the other guy more, then that guy just has to deal with it and move on. Tell him you still want to be friends, but it's not gonna work out in a relationship. You can't help how you feel and you shouldn't put how you feel on hold.
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Well it sounds to me that you just have to stay friends with all of them. The boy will understand you don't want to hurt the feelings of the other guy.
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he asked you before the other guy that liked you did...so maybe he likes you more than the other one does. just hold his friggin hand.
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It's not your fault you like one guy more than the other. You shouldn't feel bad about going out with the boy you like more. Because if you feel guilty about going out with one guy while another guy likes you, then you'll feel guilty about dating people your whole life. If you like the other guy more, then that guy just has to deal with it and move on. Tell him you still want to be friends, but it's not gonna work out in a relationship. You can't help how you feel and you shouldn't put how you feel on hold.
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This is going to sound insanely hippy-ish, but just go wherever life takes you. You can still have a great time with the five of you all together, and if I were you, I would go out with the guy who you really liked. As for the other guy, try and express it to him in the nicest way possible, with something like "I'm just not ready for you yet."
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you should just listen to your heart and do what seens best to you and choose the one you think will make you happy and will understand you hope i helped rate please
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Talk to the other two friends about it (the girl and the boy who doesn't like you)! Ask their opinions. Since they are also a part of the group, they will know the guys well, and be able to give you good ideas.
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okay you need to be with the one you like and just be really good friends with the other one. let him know its okay cause not every guy ur gonna like he;ll get over it.
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[1]just tell the guys that you dont want to put your friendship at stake. and you like them both equally and you don't want to hurt there feelings. ask them to stop pressuring you if you dont like it they will understand if they really your friend.
[2]choose one. look at all the good things in each boy and deicide which one you would be more compatible with. you must like one of the boys a little more than the other..just go with your heart hun
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honestly..this is something we can guide you with..but you need to think it through and come to a final desision : Do you want to date this boy or remain friends?
first..think of all the good stuff...being with the boy you like..all the good stuff about being in a relationship
now..think about the bad stuff..putting a friendship at risk is always a concern..awkwardness is usually a concern..the other boys feelings is also..but thats something he can get over..and he should be fine with just being your friend and enjoying your friendship
this is just me...but with me its hard for me to deny my feelings so i would probably go for it..im not saying this is the right choice or the wrong choice..its just what i would do based on me
make a list if you want..think it through for a little while..but once you come to your choice, make sure its your final choice because playing games with people and feelings isnt good..(im sure you know that)
well i hope i helped..good luck with everything!
-melissa-
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