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Age: 17
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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Last Update: July 20, 2005
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I am 13 and I'm a female. A few of my guy friends seem to act real nice around me, but when they're around each other, they say bad things about me. I'd like to know if I can trust them.
I asked that question earlier and I forgot to mention that one guy is an ex-boyfriend, one likes me and I think the other likes me too. My ex and the guy who likes me are very good friends and the guy who likes me is good friends with the guy who I think likes me. I hope this will give me more help. (link)
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When guys are together, they are IDIOTS. Tell them one on one that they need to stop acting cool around their friends because it's hurting your feelings. And if they're hurting your feelings, and they're really your friend, they'll stop. If they don't stop, well, you need someone who respects you as a friend.
Also, sometimes when guys like you they're too immature to tell you so they make fun of you. That might be the reason. Either way, they need to cut the crap and you need to tell them that.
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okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do? (link)
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You should just keep everyone's names OUT of your profile. When people ask why, say "I don't have enough space for all my friends and I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings." That way, you're not mentioning anyone's name and it's a perfectly logical explanation.
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is it normal for a girl to have an upset stomach during her period? Because my stomach feels naseaus(sp?)and i feel like i wanna puke and my stomach is all bubbly feeling..this is my 3rd time having my period so any suggestions what i can do. i dont have any medicine so that wont help. 14/f....thanks for neone who tries to help. (link)
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That's normal....same thing happens with me!
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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It's really hard to decide. I think only time will tell. I think you should be with him a lot longer before you even think about doing that stuff with him. Then, when you two know eachother really well, and he asks you, and you say no and he's still with you, and he doesn't pressure you, that's when you know he likes you for you. You can't know if he's using you if you've only known him for a couple days! You really can't tell but if he saw that you were uncomfortable with it and he stopped, that's a good sign. You just have to pay attention to little signs before you make any decisions. If he tries it again and you say no, see if he respects it. You just have to wait and see if he respects you. Only time will tell.
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I was just wondering if anyone has used the Remington Straightner, the one that straightens wet hair. If so,does it actually work? Is there mcuh damage? Is 25-30 dollars a good price for it? I think I'll be getting the 2 inch one since my hair is longer & it is only 5 dollars more. And how straight does your hair get? Thanks in advance! i rate (link)
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Oh I used this! I loved it but I lost it. It works GREAT my hair was always hard to straighten and it seriously works really well. It is pinstraight and you can straighten it right when you get out of the shower. I used it all the time and my hair never got damaged. However I did use good conditioner every day so if you're gonna use this I would recommend using some good conditioner every single day.
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okay, i have a group of 4 friends that have a blast when we're all together. its me and another girl and 3 guys. Well i found out that 2 of the guys liked me.. and the thing is i like both of them too.. but i like one more.. but dont wanna hurt the other one. and so i tell them that i just want to be friends with all of them. and then i get a texted from the one i like more asking if i'd ever want to hold his hand, i told him i'd let him kno when the time comes. but ugh.. its so fustrating.. hope you can help! (link)
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It's not your fault you like one guy more than the other. You shouldn't feel bad about going out with the boy you like more. Because if you feel guilty about going out with one guy while another guy likes you, then you'll feel guilty about dating people your whole life. If you like the other guy more, then that guy just has to deal with it and move on. Tell him you still want to be friends, but it's not gonna work out in a relationship. You can't help how you feel and you shouldn't put how you feel on hold.
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Tomorrow I am going to a late audition for Cinderella. It's a musical. I have no fear of being onstage at all. The only thing that is scaring me is that I'm sick. My throat has crap all down that back of it so I have to constantly clear my throat. It was generous of Mrs.Jane to let me have a second chance to audition but my voice is far from it's best. I have been told that I can sing well, but I'm worried I will sound really bad tomorrow. Does anybody know of any way/remedy for my throat/voice? I know it's kind of stupid to ask, but I really want a part. Should I just tell Mrs.Jane that I'm sick or what? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated! (link)
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Drink NOTHING but water until you audition.
Take a medicine that clears your throught.
Run your scales before you audition
I know this part sounds gross....but when you cough it up, NEVER swallow always spit it out.
That's pretty much all you can do. Hope I helped.
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ok...here's the thing. I'm 17 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 7 months. Things were going great, until he's been given the chance to get his son from a previous relationship back. Well, I am not ready for a kid in my life or in this relationship. I want to tell him, but i also want to support him. If i say it the wrong way, it might turn out to be "well, you don't want my kid" (which i don't but he doesn't have to know that). I tried to tell him some of my fears, but he told me he can't live without his son. Yet he can't live without me either (so he says). He's planning on moving to get a better chance at getting his son. I don't want him to do that, but of course i won't tell him. This whole thing is making me really think. Should I stay, should i go? Should i speak, should i remain silent? I don't know what to do. It's getting so bad it's making me physically ill. My mind tells me to just break it off with him and let him have his son, but my heart says no, that there is still a chance he won't get him. What should i do? (link)
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Wow that's a toughie. I'm sorry to say this, but there's really nothing you can do about this. If you're ready to get engaged, you should be ready to take on whatever obstacles there are, including a little boy. It comes with the many obstacles in a relationship. I am really sorry this is not the best advice I've ever given but unfortunately there's really no answer to this situation. Just follow your heart. You don't have to be a mother to this child...atleast not yet. Anyway I'm really sorry that this isn't good advice compared to my other advice.
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okay i keep haveing the smae problem with my friends. This one girl always takes the other ones side because she is like obesessed wiuth her and she doesnt want the girl to get mad at her and then i am left with no friends what do i do.
p.s. this happens about every week (link)
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Either this girl is overly obsessed with caring what others think, or you guys are in middle school or younger, where people actually do care. It's probably the latter, and if it is, well that'll blow over. First talk to your friend telling her she's hurting you, and if she's really your friend, she'll stop. If that doesn't work, maybe you should think of making some new friends. Join clubs-they're an excellent way to make friends. Then, hang out with them. If your other friend comes up to you asking why you left her, just tell her why.
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ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them?? (link)
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Awww it's ok if you're embarrassed....bring it up during dinner or something!! That'll be good!!!
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ok i have this friend lets call him j and i he is not like my best friend and we are pretty good friends. but ne ways he is going out with this girl lets call her c well i dont like c but i like j and i want them to breake up but i am not good enough friends with j to just go tell him to breake up with c and he would do it so wut can i do? (link)
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Ok I am guessing you're in high school? Well, in high school, people break up, go out, break up, and go out. There is probably a VERY GOOD chance they're not going to stay boyfriend and girlfriend forever. If you like "j" I would suggest not going up to him and saying "Please break up with C!" Or that would defenitely ruin things, and could just get him slightly annoyed! LOL But you weren't going to do that anyway! All I can say is have some patience. That's the only thing you can do, and I'm sure if you two were meant to go out, you will!!
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Hey, i was wondering if you guys coulg give me your own opion on this...
what do u think about big age differences between people? like what is the highest age difference you can go out with. Hope i make sence here. you kno like auston ketcher and that peoson hes dating how shes way older then him.
thanks
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Well, I would never go out with a guy more than 2 years older than me, and I prefer guys older, not younger. I would say if you're older, age difference is not as big of a deal as if you're a teenager. If you're a teen, stay within your age range. Well, that's my opinion!
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hi im gunna be a freshman next year and im thinkin of goin to either an all girls school, a private school or the public school in my small town. i've never had a bf and the private school has the guys outnumbering the girls in a 1-3 ratio. haha neways has neone ever switched schools and what wud u reccomend? (link)
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I don't know how old you are and if you're gonna regret it, but when I was a freshman, I moved to a school with 1 guy. 1 guy! Now that I am a junior, I regret it soooo much it is so hard for me to get a boyfriend since all my friends go to that school, which is kind of far away from my house. I would say DO NOT go to the all girls' school. Either stay where you are or go to the school where guys outnumber the girls! You will have a lot of fun going to a school with a lot of guys!
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ok, heres the deal, ive been 18 for a month or 2, and heres the deal, im kinda sexually advanced, except ive never actually gone all the way. and ive always been proud of this...untill now, and its freaking driving me nuts, like i all of a sudden have to have it. and this is unbelievably unlike me cuz ive always been the upright goody goody that everyone can always depend on. so for the love of god, somebody give me some advice!!!!!! plz ladies, i need some advice (link)
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Your hormones are RAGING girl!! Just take a long time to think about mthis. Ask yourself these questions:
Am I going to regret this?
Is this the first person I want to have sex with?
Am I going to stay with this person for a very long time?
Am I ready for this?
Do I feel comfortable doing it?
Is it going to be on my conciounce?
If you answered yes to most of these, then think about those questions when you're ready to consider it. Like, when you're with him, and you're ready to do it, ask those questions to yourself, which may give you second thoughts.
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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight? (link)
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Go to
http://www.am-i-fat.com/body_mass_index.html
It will tell you if you are over or under weight. I would say No! You're not overweight! Not at 135 pounds. You probably look fine just the way you are!
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I'm at a new school where i dont know many people... i made this one friend, lets just call her anna. So anna and i have been hanging out on the weekends and stuff for the past 3 weeks and im starting to realize that she is really conceited. I don't want to have a friend like this, but i don't really have any other options because i don't want to be friendless. I don't know if you can help very much, just give me your thoughts on this, or maybe if you can relate we can talk about your experience. thanks. (link)
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Join lots of clubs!! Clubs are a great way to meet people! Drama club, where everyone is fun is great too!! I am sorry, this is the only advice I can give but trust me, join clubs and say hi to people! You'll have friends!! You shouldn't just have 1 friend! You deserve more!
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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
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www.dictionary.com Click on translator
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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!
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All you have to do is type the lyrics in a search engine and it will probably bring up the song. As for what to play, listen to a popular radio station maybe on the bus or something and try to pick out what music people seem to enjoy and what they seem to hate. If you can't listen to music in a group of people then just listen to a radio station a lot of people like and see what songs you think are fun and upbeat. Ask your friends what they think of the song. You can also ask your friends to help you. Friends usually know what to listen to.
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I like this guy and Last year we got pretty close as friends and I've found myself almost in love w/ him. Now, this year- new classes and I barely ever see him anymore. I really wanna talk to him but I'm too shy to work up the nerve to do so. When should I talk to him and what should I say to get the conversation going? (link)
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Casually walk into him in the hallway! lol, no lie it works! Have your friend help you set it up. Walk down the hall talking to her, looking at her, and "accidently' bump right into him! (But just don't hurt the boy!) When you bump into him, say "Oh! [his name] I'm so sorry are you ok?" When he says yes say "Wow, I haven't seen you in a LONG time! What have you been up to?" That'll help you "casually" start a conversation!!! Hope I helped!!
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okay sorry this is so long. Well this boy in my homeroom sits at my lunch table and he said i know 2 people who like you, i was like who? he was like well you know brent still likes you ( brents my ex ) and i was like yeah whos the other one? he was like i cant tell! i was like well tell me and ill tell you who likes you! he was like ok well brb! i was like okay. well he went in the lunch line and was talking to this boy Jose who is in my family and consumer sciences class and i knew he liked me. and shane came back and was like ok i cant tell. i was like i seen u talking to Jose and i know its him! he was like no! i was talking to the boy infront of him! i was like there wasnt a boy infront of Jose ! ( i dont knowif there was or not lol ) and he was like FINE! it is Jose! well that nite Shane and Jose ( shane is the one who told me Jose liked me) called me and Jose asked me to the dance coming up and i said yes, well then he was like will u go out w/ me? i was like yeah! (hehe) and then the next day in fam con sciences every1 was asking Jose " you like kasey? ( my names kasey) " and he was like NO SHES UGLY! well they were like but arent yall goin out? he was like NO! i like this girl Samantha in my music class. well he kept talking about he wanted to hook up with this girl samantha! so this boy brian asked me out during lunch and i had to say no bc i thought i was going out w/ Jose. well so i was like hey Ali! ( one of brians bestfriends ) whats brians #? bc ima call em and ask em out! and so i kept talking about brian while jose kept talking about this Samantha girl. well we were watien for the bell to ring and Jose was sitten down in his seat w/ his arms crossed and a mad/sad look on his face. well then that nite Shane called me and told me Jose was upset after school bc he wanted me back. then i had to go to the store and later that nite i was looking on my caller ID and seen that Jose called so i called him back and we really didnt say that much. then he was like hey i g2g call me tomorrow. i was like ill try. bye. - so if Jose askes me out *again* should i say no?
thnx! kLg*
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Ok, if he asks you out again, just say "First I'd like to know why you denied going out with me and called me ugly. Because that's not really the kind of boyfriend I want." If he gives you a good, honest answer, then you can decide based on that answer if you want to go out with him or not. But if you do say yes, say "I never EVER want to hear you call me ugly again, ok?" Make him say ok, then by all means date the boy! (If you think you still want to) lol.
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