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how do i keep my vagina clean?...not smelly

the thing is most doctors recomend not using the feminine products to make yourself smell better down there. The best thing is to just use water and make sure you shower daily. I wouldn't advise using soap because that could end up giving you a rash. If it was safe then none of us would have to use lube when we have sex, we could just use liquid soap. But it really bad for you. (I read this in cosmopolitian i'm not making it up) plus the smell doesn't bother most guys if thats why you're asking.

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how can a thirteen year old (me) about 5 feet get a modeling job in something like abercrombie in the tampa area? (locally).thanks!

It'd be hard, because usually they like taller models and a little bit older people

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I had REALLY WAVY HAIR. Theres got to be at least 7 waves in each strand of hair. I hate the way it looks and I really want it straight but I'm wondering..how do I get regular waves with only like 2 waves in it? I think it would look really good on me and I saw it on t.v. and some people said J.Lo and Beyonce had this hair style. How do I transform my have from ultra wavy... to only a few waves here and there?

if you had straight hair you'd want curly hair too... everybody wants what they don't have

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Does anyone know of some cool places to buy reallly cute bathing suits?

PacSun has awesome swimsuits!!

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when snowmobiling do u need a license like do you have to have a license for snowmobiling

It depends on where you live... In michigan you don't have to have one (I'm pretty sure) except sometiems you're required to take a snowmobile safety course. Me and my boyfriend go riding all the time and I don't have a license and all he has is a paper that says he took the course. ONE thing I know for sure is that you have to have your snowmobile registered. You could try searching Yahoo! for example if you live in Indiana... you could type in Snowmobile laws Indiana or w/e Good luck! hope I helped!

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have been trying for 7 mths and still nothing need advice

Well i've read in health magazines that you're most fertile right after your period. Try then... It could also be your boyfriend/husband/significant other... maybe you could suggest them going to get a sperm count or something to make sure they can even fertilize an egg.

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I was wondering, where do your wisdom teeth come from? Are they on both top and bottom, or only on the top.. or the bottom?

Well they come in very far back in your mouth, they can be very painful... sometimes people have to get them removed, but that depends on whether or not they have room in their mouth for them. The come in on both the top and bottom.

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any one that goes shopping at hollister, how much are the jeans and sweaters. how much are the clothes at hollister. if you dont no please dont answer. thanks!

It all depends on the style and if they're girls or guyy... you can typically get a shirt for anywhere from $20-$50 and jeans can run from $40-$60. Go to their website or something for more specific prices. They're not too bad, especially if you get sale stuff!

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How do I tell this guy I love him? I know exactly what to say but I cant do it in front of his friends and theres never more than 5 minutes to talk to him. What should I do at this point because I feel as if I dont get it out soon Im going to pop!
Please help! Thanks!
Jacki

If you really loved him, you wouldn't be scared to tell him that you loved him in front of his friends or your friends!
~macy

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I have this bump on my lip, it has been there for a year nor my doctor, dentist, or othodontist know what it is. I never hooked up with anyone so it can't be anything like that. Please help me find out what this is.

it could be a mole or something like that.

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how do u become popular and have alot of friends

I disagree with JadedinNowhere.... at most the schools I've been to.. (I'm moved quite a bit) usually the popular people are athletic and get good grades. For example my boyfriend is very popular... he plays football and baseball and gets basically all A's. It's the same with all my other friends. And in at my other schools it was the same way, all the "popular" kids were in sports and the more advanced classes at school like English 10 honors, Pysics, and alebra 2.

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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out?

well.. guys can get an erection from a lot of things. Guys can get them for no reason sometimes too. & It's very noticable!!!

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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help!

34 inches... wow I wear a 34 A and I'm a 34 inches at my bust so you're not really that small. AND also you just turned 13 my boobs didn't start growing till i was in like 8th grade
and even then they were really little... last year and this summer they've grown the most and I'll be 17 in July

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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?

-Jasmine

I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think you might be a little confused obeying what your parents says is the RIGHT thing, to do... whether it's something you feel is right or wrong at this moment in time. Your parents are just trying to protect you, that's all.

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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)

I'm glad you asked. Here's my answer and I hope I help you... It's not wrong unless when he does it, it makes you feel weird or uncomfortable. Every person is different... and some people feel uncomfortable just holding hands while it might not make someone uncomfortable until they move on to having sex or they might be comfortable with doing all of that and maybe even more. So truly it just depends on how it makes you feel and whether or not you like being touched like this by him.

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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333

well if you have any doubts in your mind telling you that it's too early... then it is! it's as simple as that, and I hope I helped

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Does anyone know of any free picture sites (I mean for sharing photos)? NOT picture trail, I don't want a free trial, I want something that won't get rid of me after 30 days, lol...Thanks in advance. I'll rate.

A good website I use is www.piczo.com I have two webpages there... www.mjean.piczo.com and www.mmmkay.piczo.com

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okay RANDOM question
does anyone know those jelly braclet thingies?
well what do the certin colors mean..
Red- ?
Black- ?
Blue- ?
Green- ?
etc? please?

The only color I know of is black... my boyfriends cousin said that if you break it, it means that you've had sex...

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I am having my 17th birthday party in like a week or so and I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for games, thing to do, etc. Here are something that might help I want the party theme to be pink and silver and the guys can wear red and grey, I have a pool table, big living room. Any ideas will help or you can tell me something about one of your good partys and I can get an idea from that? thanks and there is another problem how can I tell my mom to stay upstairs since guys are going to be there I don't know if she will trust me and I don't want her to be there cause I mean I am going to be 17 she should be able to trust me and I know that everyone will feel really uncomfortable if my mom keeps watching or checking up on us so what can I say to her ? Help and if u have any other idea, anything for a good party tell me please thanks again.

ok well... i don't think you should have the guys wear red and grey because that totally clashes with pink and silver... you should have them wear like blue and grey or black and grey.

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I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

ok... I find it odd how all these middle schoolers (which I'm guessing you're in middle school) go out with people for a week or two and they're already "in love" with that person. SO first of all... it's only lust, if that. And second of all, I'd dump him if I were you. He's obviously a player, and players never change. Even if they say they will, they never do. So good luck and I hope I helped you atleast a little! .:.macy.:.

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