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Question Posted Monday December 13 2004, 5:48 pm

I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333

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DrummeR4LifE answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 12:52 am:
Well i know alot of boys want to have sex and all but yes i to think that its to early. I would wait... If he understands he will wait too.

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vickiooos answered Monday December 13 2004, 10:28 pm:
if you feel like it's too early then go tell him! lol.. and yeah in my opinion 3 days is a lil early.. maybe he doesnt realize that you guys are going way too fast so just talk to him about it and say it made you feel uncomfortable and that it's going a little faster than you intended.

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Beccers_boo answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:49 pm:
basicaly he would be um........ well i ate saying this becuase it is dsigusting... but umm fingering you. eww sorry. lol. But yea ummm from my point of view it is early but you need to set your own boundaries.

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sweetcatastroffi answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:08 pm:
Guys want what they can't have, right? so let him wait if he really cares about you. Any guy who wants to get down your pants that early probably will only want to get down your pants. take it slow if you want it to last!

unless all youre looking for is some ass also, then go for it!!! (hopefully hes good :)

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NEVERLETG00 answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:53 pm:
do what you feel comforable doing, usually 3 days is wayyyy too early for anything, but its all up to you. but keep it to yourselves behind locked doors, its not good to do that when you guys are in the same room as other people. x0

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iluvchrisyohn131 answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:50 pm:
follow your heart it will tell you if you wont to go any further but if it was only 3 dayz you should wait and tell him tht your not ready if he cant exept that than what kind of bf is he

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Berri answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:35 pm:
It would definitely be too early for me, but it's up to you. Do only what you feel comfortable doing.

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sweetcakes answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:41 pm:
yeah that is really early. but i think u should be like no i think we should whait and stuff like that because yah so dont do it. its better not to.

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xShOrTiEx answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:14 pm:
way too early.

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Talkboy2004 answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:12 pm:
E-maill me at Tim990HCM@aol.com to tell me how old u r

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Dixie_Priss_789 answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:07 pm:
I do kind of think it is early but I mean he ask I think that is good but I wouldnt every ley any one do that if we where only going out for even 2 weeks

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blondebtqueen answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:05 pm:
well if you have any doubts in your mind telling you that it's too early... then it is! it's as simple as that, and I hope I helped

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frenchfries21 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:57 pm:
well he asked you so i think thats very respectful of him. if you dont feel comfortable with him going down your pants then tell him your not ready. i think it is to early for that. i would wait at least a month or two min. if i were you.
hope i helped
~stef~

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Scribble answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:56 pm:
3 days? Too early. Wrap him round yer finger first, and make sure he's not a knob.

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jamziix16 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:54 pm:
if he was going to go down your pants, i'm sure he would finger you. it's early if you think it is. if you think it's too early, then don't go with it. dont be forced into anything. because thats a bad situation to be in. if you think it's okay, then go for it. good luck :o)

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