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Further than kissing


Question Posted Monday December 13 2004, 5:37 pm

Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it!

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xoxbellabebexox answered Monday December 20 2004, 2:10 pm:
well it depends if your in love him but if you belive in abstinence than make sure you dont go to far and make sure when you no to much is enough
hope it works out stay safe.

luve Britt

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chaos answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 9:00 am:
There are a bunch of words for it: dry sex, dry humping, and grudge sex. Anyway, it's perfectly all right, and is the only pure form of safe sex. You are still virgins, and it feels good. Your parents may not think its real cool, but sheesh at least you aren't having sex.

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Beccers_boo answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:52 pm:
THis is called dry sex... basicaly sex with the cloths on and there is nothing but... ummm grinding.

-beccers_boo

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vickiooos answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:09 pm:
nahhh it's indimate but overall innocent.. as long as there's no belts being undone and fluids goin where they shoudln't be then it's pure innocence.

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lollypopgurl769 answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:54 pm:
hey there! no, there's nothing wrong with that, lol, not bad at all. its dry humping. i think thats really smart that you guys believe in abstinence, lots of people now a days are just stupid, lol. =) well have fun! goodluck with everything! =) *xox-angie*

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Hunnibunni23 answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:43 pm:
I think that is very responsible and very "mature" lol I guess you can say that you both believe in abstinence I think it is called dry sex..lol have fun and be safe! lol haha
Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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theblondeone989 answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:12 pm:
It's good you both believe in abstinence, and as long as you both have set boundries it should be fine. I believe the term you're looking for is dry sex?

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oXISaBeLXo answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:00 pm:
I'm sorry i can't tell you what it's called.But the worst that i think could happen would be herpes which doesnt happen in most cases.As long as you don't go to far it's ok.And if you really like each other that much then go for it.Also you could talk to him and ask him what he thinks.
<3Best wishes

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LiiPSTiiX answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:53 pm:
I don't think that it's really anything besides a "steamy makeout session," like you called it. If you both believe in abstinence, that proves my point even more.

I don't consider it bad at all. If your intentions are both towards abstinence, then...it isn't really sex. You might want to talk to your boyfriend; however, to see what he thinks.

Good luck.

xx LiiPSTiiX

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LiLAnGeLDeViL4659 answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:07 pm:
Well, me and my friends say.. If a guy is on top of you and you guys are like technically *Humping* its called dry humping. And no its not a bad things actually its pretty much a good thing because your not actually doing anything bad. Let me just say I went further so yeah it's not considered bad in my opinion. Hope I Helped Out! :) And answered some of your questions you had. If you want more advice just ask me and I will be able to give you more. :)
Shann

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Scribble answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:49 pm:
Are you really worried that what you're doing is that bad? If you both believe in abstinence (which is a good standpoint) and you don't think you've done anything inappropriate then expressing your feelings this way can only be a good thing. I think this situation would be considered as 'cute' and nothing more. Enjoy having someone to care about and who cares about you without having to worry about all that sex stuff.

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frenchfries21 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:46 pm:
i dont think theres anything wrong with that, if its not sex then your pretty much safe. its great that your both virgins and believe in abstinence. it seems like a normal situation to me.
hope i helped
~stef~

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xoxhayley answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:45 pm:
I know exactly what you mean! Don't worry... this is just a set futher or more intimet with kissing and stuff. I did this with my boyfriend and it was just fun! I understand totally what you mean, and you could consider it as dry sex, or just more intimate makingout sessions lol. Its healthy and basically its just somthing to maybe spice it up more! ;) but remember- if your not comfortable with that and it feels weird, then i would sugest not doing that, but if its okay with the both of you then its totally normall and fun :)

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Dixie_Priss_789 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:44 pm:
No its not bad its good that yall are virgins hope you and your boyfriend have fun lol

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jamziix16 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:39 pm:
haha i think u guys are like.. feeling eachother up? it's nothing bad, don't worry. a lot of teen couples do this. it's good that you guys are virgins and you believe in abstinence.. good job :o)

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