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i cut myself and the scars won't go away


Question Posted Monday December 13 2004, 5:31 pm

i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and i felt really low and i slit my wrists with exes on one arm and i really regret doing it now, i mean nobody would ever guess that i would be cutting myself. in gym class some of my friends asked what happened and i told them it was nothing but i think they are going to tell someone. i really don't want to talk to anyone about it because i stopped and it's not a problem anymore. i know now that it wasn't the best way to deal with things but now everytime i need to wear a t-shirt people notice my arm, and theres scars that won't go away. i tried putting coverup and stuff on it [yea i know im a retard lol] but they are really noticeable and i'm scared that if my parents find out they'll get really mad and not trust me anymore. i'm just really confused. what should i do??

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pinayprodigy answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:28 pm:
I have been hurt also nut I deal with it just like you should I'm not saying it was stupid I'm just saying let your feelings out in a healthy way.Look you've probably heard the saying time heals all well your arms will heal eventually but for now be faithful and if you're gonna hide it with makeup hopefully your good at it lolz!!!!!!!!!!Hope your arms heal

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Scribble answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:57 pm:
The scars may go away in time depending on the position and depth of the wound. In the mean time if you find them embarrasing then you'll have to cover up. Coverup is good but if someone spots you are wearing it you may be in an even more awkward situation. Try jewellery instead.

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frenchfries21 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:39 pm:
ok i did the same thing, dont feel stupid. i would just try wearing some bracelets or putting some cover-up on it (i know it seems silly to put cover-up on your wrist but it works) you need to make sure your friends understand whats going on with you and tell them you stopped and you promise it will never happen again. and do not do it again. if they still make you go see a councler then you need to tell the councler you will never do it again and you dont need to see him/her anymore. just make sure they know theres nothing they can do because theres nothing to tell them. hopefully your friends will be loyal and not tell anyone.
hope i helped
~stef~

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