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hey there!
is the age for a girl to be in playboy 18 or 21? i am unsure because i have heard both. thankyou! (link)
Pretty sure it's 18.


There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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It's so obvious he likes you!!!!!!I was in a similar situation b4 and I liked him and he didn't like me that way...He never talked to me anymore and he didn't look at me often.So, I'm pretty sure he likes you!If ur old enough to go out on dates ask him out in a note.If you can't just try to talk to him.If you can't just wait a while and just try to become brave enough to talk to him!!!!It's the only way!Tell all on AIM!My sn is cAnDiCh1c!

pinayprodigy


hi. i have a cold sore ..well sort of, thats kinda the story. i was scratching at it and i accidentally like..picked it off and now its just all pink. i really dont want it to scar! last time this happened i had a scar for a year and im really not sure what i should do. i dont really thing theres anything i can do about it but if anyone has any ideas please answer this!!!! i really dont want a scar when i go to our school dance next wk., and i really just..dont..want one someone help me please! (link)
do the obvious cold sore cream,make up...don't stress too much!If it's there long just ask me again!I'm sorry if it isn't good enough because I'm really stressed outif it's bad just say so and I'll give you better advice when I'm not so(what's the word?)exhausted and busy!SORRY!!!


pinayprodigy


I like this guy, but whenever i talk to him i get shy n think mmore bout what i say. I always do this around guys i like but he is also pretty popular. I am usually loud n talkative but it just doesnt work round him. Please give me advice on what i can do so we can talk more!
I will rate go0od if u try ur best to answer this.

x0x Thankz,
In Love & Lost (link)
if you really have problems talkin to him then I've gone through with it.so,just try to over come it that's the only way unless you IM him or give him a note.That's what I did and now I have no problem speaking to him.If you figure out something else to do I need advice just like you!Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??

signed,


MaD LoVe (link)
Maybe he wants to wait til he is ready to have a relationship.So,just spend more time with him and when you think time is right hint that you like him.This is what I did with my bfJoey we were in the same problem as you and it worked.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Im a 16/f and my best friend iss a 18/m. Well, my best friend had a gf for 2-3 years and they were in love. he was madley in love with her and her back. Someting happened and now they broke up. that was 3 months ago. ONE month ago, my friend moved to Texas. He met this girl and they started dating, yesterday was theyre 1 month anniversary and they already had sex. I got mad at him because he met her a MONTH ago and already had SEX! I mean, I expected SO MUCH MORE from him. and He tells me its none of my buisiness, and yeah its not, but im his best friend also, and I just dont get it I tol dhim its rebound and he told me its not because he rebounded on me for a week . So he liked me for a week . and stopped. got a gf, and had sex with her. He tells me he has strong feelings for her and they applied to the same colleges So why the heck am I so pissed at him for having sex a MONTH into a relationship...? am i wrong for being pissed? and i cant figure out weather im jealous or not... i dont think i am. but just THINKING about him having sex with some girl he just met makes me upset. help :(

He moved to Texas and I live in AZ.

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Maybe it's cuz you exspected if he did have sex he would have it with the other girl.hey you're just tryin to keep him safe,but there's nothin you can do 'bout the sex part they already had it.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodgy-


ok theres this guy i dont like him but hes going out with this girl.This guy does not like this girl.And this girl doesnt like this guy. I guess they are just provin they can get some. But anyways they think im jealous and our conversastions lead to more. I even thought about suicide. Im a normal american girl. Im a cheerleader and very smart. I have NEVER even considered suicide. Im so scared i dont know whats happening!! PLEASE HELP!
Signed,
Not Suicidal (link)
if they are doin it just so they can get some it's their problem just let it go.If you commit suicide then think of what they'll think of you(just jokin srry).So don't think about it at all I don't want anyone gettin hurt.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!

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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m (link)
If she doesn't trust you talk to her it might be that she doesn't want things happenin to your relationship with her.So,talk to her ask her what's botherin her and if she still doesn't trust you then it's not meant to be.When in a relationship you have to have love,trust,and honesty.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing? (link)
Don't listen to him you did the right thing.It's his fault he didn't tell you he was smokin weed.He's not good enough for you if he lies to you.So,just ignore him and you'll be fine.Merry Christams!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help? (link)
my best friend is now hanging with my other friend Victoria just cuz Victoria and Abby had a big fight.Now there as close as ever so I started hangin out with Abby and everything is fine.So,maybe still hang around them and find a new friend in advance.it'll make you feel great to have a new friend!Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


does getting your tongue pierced hurt? How much worse is it than an ear piercing? Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
Ehhh...it's not that bad just as long as you do everything the piercer says cuz before my cousin she was movin her tongue a lot so it turned out wrong and painful.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't. (link)
Talk to him just try to make up if he really loves you he'll come back and you'll have a Merry Christmas.Hopefully we'll both get what we want cuz all i want is for Joey to like me this Christmas.So,what I am sayin is try to make up with him and tell him that you are menat to be.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I have liked this guy for a LONG time now but not too much has happened between us. I want to be with him romantically and we've fooled around a few times but we act like it never happened the next time we're together. He does things that make me believe he likes me back but I can never be sure. What should I do? I really want to be with him.

16 years old
Female
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Talk to him, tell him how you feel.If you ask him there's a better chance you'll know sooner.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!

pinayprodigy


Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do! (link)
well you have to tell someone czu rape is illegal and if you get with him what if he does it to you?I don't want anyone gettin hurt so tell a teacher any trusted adult.Even if you like him you have to tell someone else besides the internet.I know you may not like this advice but it's the right advice, after watchin lifetime with my mom all these years I know.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

pinayprodigy


Hey you play DDR? Me too! What's your favorite game? And what level difficulty are you on?
My favorite is Extreme and I'm on Heavy. =)
-xluvinux (link)
me too I play heavy I always spend like $2-3 every time I'm there!!!!!I remember when my brother got it I was like another video game and he's like it isn't a regular one you'll see how much fun it is!!!!!!!!!!1I love DDR!!!!

pinayprodigy


ok so i have this friend john and i like him. there was a dance on friday and since alexia (my friend and his ex girlfriend) couldn't go she asked erin (another friend) to see if i danced with john. And i did just 1 little slow dance. And then l8ter at the dance erin was talking to him while i was dancing and then for the rest of the dance he was like avoiding me. i am wondering was he just trying to protect me from alexia getting mad at me, (she would get mad even if we talked) or was he avoiding me because he didn't want to be around me? (link)
maybe it was somethin Erin said to him ask him what she said and if it's somethin not true confront Erin and Alexia.Straighten it out with John and he'll understand.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!


my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her (link)
I'd tell her she is straight up crazy but you're not gonna tell her that.Ask her what she likes about him...and if it's looks tell her that it's not love.I used to judge guys by looks and if i still did I'd never have met the love of my life.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!


I'm fifteen years old, and I'm about 5'3. I'm not overweight, but I'm on the verge of it, and it most definitely wouldn't hurt if I shed a few pounds. When I'm home alone or just out with friends, I'm fine as far as resisting bad food goes. The problem is...my mom- and the rest of my family. My mom is ALWAYS buying junk food and tempting me with it. When we go to McDonalds and I say that I just want a bottled water and a salad, she'll order an extra thing of fries because she knows I'll eat it. My question is...How can I resist this with out my family thinking I'm anorexic? They won't understand if I simply explain that I want to lose a few pounds because like I said, I'm not overweight yet. Any ideas would be great. Thanks. (link)
dude excercise.and... here's the sneaky part I play this game Dance Dance Revolution aka DDR well you will always see it at the arcades in malls and other places.If you have a game console then buy a DDR for that along witha pad.I've been playin for 3 years and I've lost about 15 pounds off of it every tear.It's fun,healthy, and it helps you lose weight.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!

-pinayprodigy-


Hi Jasmine!
Here you were the best there is! Just came to ask you a question. Would it be okay if you are moving and have a boyfriend? How is J**y going?
Guess who it is!

Love
A**y (link)
it's fine just keep in touch k???? and Joey isn't movin...Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!


today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better? (link)
I take the same things so, they work fine.with the nose if it's scratchy from blowing it then but lotion or any body cream that'll help.if it's runny then tissues are all you got and if they're congested take nasal spray.Hope it works!!!!Merry Christmas!!


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