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getting used
my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her
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The blunt truth always gets straight to the point. True, she'll be mad at you, but a real friend tells the truth, even if it hurts. Think on this, whats better, a lie that will draw a smile or a truth that will draw a tear?
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I think that it is a problem. It is ok if she goes over sarah's house to see sarah. Basically it sounds like she is using sarah to get closer to her brother, and doint stuff with older guys is against the law. Now you can call police on the guys if things get way out of hand, this is going to hurt her in the end. The guys are usuing her for things and she doesn't know it. Being open and vulnerable like this is bad, and something terrible can happen is this continues. Defidently make it stop by telling her that you care about her. xoJacxo
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tell her dhe is being stupid
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tell her not to get too attached because she doesnt even know these guys that shes falling in "love" with, but your friend is probably just looking for a good time anyways, but if she is serious, you need to tell her that you're her best friend and she should trust you on this, it's hard to do and she may get mad at you for it, but at least in the end of it all, she wont be hurt from these guys, good luck keep me posted -Angel
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i know it feels bad that your friend isnt giving you attention but maybe there is something at home making her be closer to Julies brother because she wants some1 to love and care for her. She thinks this boy likes her but if he doesnt talk to her she is getting used. Simply sit and talk to her about your feelings and tell her why you care. At first she may be mad but look at her in a positive serious attitude and tell her the truth. Who knows maybe you'll uncover her feelings to.
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You have to tell her you're worried about her and you think she's gonna' end up doing something she'll regret and end up ruining her future.
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I'd tell her she is straight up crazy but you're not gonna tell her that.Ask her what she likes about him...and if it's looks tell her that it's not love.I used to judge guys by looks and if i still did I'd never have met the love of my life.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!
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