can you french kiss with braces? and do 13 year old boys expect closed or opened mouth kisses?
Yes, you can french kiss with braces. And most 13-year-old boys are ready to begin experimenting with it. Just be careful that you don't let them experiment with anything you're not ready to do yet. Because trust me, they're ready for that too.
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I am really thin. I am 5'7, and only 98 lbs. I do NOT have an eating disorder, I just am naturally very thin.
But for some reason, even though I am basically like a stick as my friends say, I have a fat stomach. I have to suck in so much, and it still looks very out of proportion to my body.
*I would like to know why is this, and is there anything I could do to minimalize this stomach?
Sidebends, laterals, sit-ups, crunches, and running are all great things to do for your stomache.
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well, a couple nights ago i was at my best friends house, and her brother was there and we both really like eachother! well when my friend fell asleep so he came into his sisters room where i was and he started making out with me. So we were just making out for a while and then he fingered me and i gave him a hand job! well then he had to go cause his mom didnt know that we were making out and everything so he left and then on monday he had a g/f. so i do not know what to do cause i really love him and i thought he loved me to! so do i talk to him about it or do i just let it go??? please help!
Um, that guy is a complete jack-off. That was reallyreally lame of him to use you like that. Don't make yourself think you love a guy like that. There's so much better than that, and you'll find it when you're meant to.
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I've never been too aggressive or outspoken when it comes to boys I like but what is considered to be overagressive behavior when you like a guy?
Overaggressive behavior is anything that makes the guy feel uncomfortable, like throwing yourself at him and flirting way too much when he doesn't flirt back. If he's not interested, he's just not interested.
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in middle i checked out this book from my school library ireally liked. it was a poetry book and one of the poems was called "Dust" and another was something like "Why Nobody Pets the Lion at the Zoo". anyway, now i have to memorize a poem for one of my classes and i want to do one of htose ones since i liked those poems but i can't remember the name of the book. it had a really long name that ended with "a note to (or from) a friend" or something like that. i really wish i could remember the name so i could find it. i think it also had one called "Valentine" and one about superman in it. if you can help, please do.
You could try going to Google.com and typing in the names of some of the poems. Maybe that will pull up the name of the book.
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I'm starting to get really pale again because summer is over : (. So i was wondering which way is the better way to get tan? Indoor or Outdoor tanning. Which one is the safest and will do the least harm to your skin? Thank-you!
Tanning isn't good for your skin no matter what you do. But if you're going to tan, I'd suggest doing it indoor and maybe using a light sunscreen to make sure you don't get burnt. Eventually, it'll get too cold to tan outside. Also, there's this stuff called Vaseline Intensive Care Healthy Body Glow. It works really, really well and helps you preserve your tan a lot longer and makes your skin look really healthy. You can get it at Wal*Greens or any other drug store.
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I don't even know where to start... I'm a high school senior and I'm so damn busy with schoolwork. We're doing this film for our class project and deadline's already next week. The problem is, we're not even finished shooting all the scenes! I've been putting so much time and effort into this film(I got terribly sick last week and I lost 6-8 pounds from the time we started filming which was 3 weeks ago) but my actors don't seem to realize that we don't have all the time in the world, like, they're just lazing around sometimes and stuff...
I'm also an editor of the school paper and we're also rushing to finish the lay-outs because the deadline to the printer is also next week!
That's not all. I have to do my Investigatory project and I also have two research papers to finish! Actually I still don't have a topic for the other one and my English teacher hasn't given us our topic yet so for sure I'm gonna be cramming like crazy....
Sometimes I just feel restless...I can't concentrate in class becasue my mind is constantly focused on other things ALL the time... I've been losing weight and I don't want that to continue because other people have been telling me that I'm so skinny(I now only weigh 95lbs and my normal weight is around 100lbs.).
I also have DARK eyebags and I have a lot of pimples now...Plus, my cough just won't go away...
What can I do to reduce the stress?
I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. I'm a senior too, and I know it's a really stressful time. Tell the people you're working with on the video that they need to help you out because you can't do everything all by yourself. And about everything else, just take a deep breath and RELAX. You'll get everything done. Make sure you manage your time wisely. That will help reduce a lot of stress being put on you at the last minute. Just keep in mind that you're not the only person having to deal with all this crap, and just remember that it's all almost over. Just get this last little bit of crap over with, and you're home free from the stresses of high school FOREVER!
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15/f
hey
i did the hole bf/gf thing and i didnt really get along with it. now i just kindof feel like messing around and having fun instead of trying to figure out everything. meaning, i dont want to have a boyfriend, but i dont want to miss out on all the sexy-licious fun things having a highschool bf gives you. the only problum is, the rumors are spreading, and im starting to sound like a slut, and thats really not it at all. i have my limits, and if someone cant respect that i ditch them. besides that, i dont know what to do to keep the respect of other peoples. can someone help me out? just because i have fun doesnt make me a slut, and i dont know how to make other people understand that.
You're going through a phase that a lot of people, most people actually, go through. The main thing to keep in mind is...as long as you have respect for yourself, don't worry about what other people think or say. Nothing people say about you in high school matters. They just talk because they have nothing better to do. If you want to have fun, I think you should. I do advise you to be careful, though. Don't do ANYTHING you're not comfortable with doing yet, and always protect yourself from anything that could mess up your future. Eventually, you'll probably get tired of just having fun, and you'll want to find that one person to be completely serious about and committed to. If you think you might want to find someone like that later on in highschool, make sure he knows that you're not just using him for fun, because chances are, he'll know your past record with guys through all the high school gossip. Right now though, don't worry about what others say, but remember to STAY SAFE!
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I am very confused about religion. My family is Christian and believe in God, but aren't too religious. I was never told to believe in anything.
I believe in God. BUT I also believe in Karma. Is there any sort of name or religion for that? they are two different beliefs and religions, but I believe in both.
In order to be religious or spiritual, you don't have to follow one specific religion and all of the rules that go along with it. Believe what you feel is right. Some people are agnostic, meaning that they are a person who holds that the existence of the ultimate cause, as God, and the essential nature of things are unknown and unknowable, or that human knowledge is limited to experience. This also refers to people who hold mixed beliefs, or believe in theories of several different religions. There's nothing wrong with it.
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this friend of mine all of a sudden stopped talking to me and gave me attitude and went to another one of the girls in my class and now doent talk to me anymore. what should i do????? please answer soon.
If she's doing things like that, she wasn't a very good friend to begin with. I'd suggest not worrying about it. Move on, and make new friends too. Do the things that you like to do, and don't worry about her.
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13/f
ok well my parents must still think that i am 5 or something b/c they never let me do anything by myself or with friends (in other words, without them around). like go to the mall or movies. how can i get them to let me do things on my own. i am not lying about things to them. when i say i want to go to the mall i am telling the truth. anyways, thanks in advance!
You've got to tell them that you're growing up, and you need some freedom. It's an important part of growing up to begin having a little bit of independence and social interaction. Tell them that you're being honest about where you say you're going, and promise to keep in touch and call to keep them updated on where you are and who you're with. Your parents love and care about you more than anything, and that's why they're having a hard time letting you go and grow up. They want you to stay their little girl forever. So tell them that you'll always be their daughter, and tell them how much you love them. But let them know that it's time for you to start becoming your own person now, and that's something they just have to understand. Don't worry, as you get older, it gets easier. The beginning is the hardest part.
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Okay, so homecoming is coming up and I know that there will be slow dancing. The problem is that I can NEVER slow dance. The last time I've slowdanced with guys I ended up just stopping and just stand there and talk..=/
It's just really awkward that you move around like a foot and not talk...erm so yeah.
1-What are good tips for slow dancing
2-Should I talk to get rid of the awkward silence ness or should i just keep quiet
3-Where the heck am I suppose to look cuz looking into their eyes sounds corny and is WEIRD.
Erm, anything you can give me advice on, I'll love oyu for it..literally
haha I used to think about all that too. Um, if you know the guy on a friendly level or if you just met him at the dance, it's good to talk, because he's usually feeling pretty awkward too. If you just met him, ask him his name and basic questions like that to get to know him. If he's a friend, talk about whatever you two normally talk about or whatever you have in common.
If you're with a date or a guy you like, it's good to stay quiet and just enjoy the dance, especially if you both have feelings for each other.
And eye contact is good in all situations, whether you're talking or not. If you're dancing with a boyfriend though, you can lay your head on his shoulder while you dance. That can make the dance really special for the both of you. ..But it's even more romantic if you look into his eyes!!!
And don't feel awkward just shuffling your feet back and forth to the music. I know it feels weird and lame, but that's how they do it nowadays. So don't worry, you don't look any goofier than the rest of them.
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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...=( please help!!
You very well may be a rebound girl. He might be trying to make your friend jealous. If there's every any doubt about something in a relationship, the two people need to have a talk ASAP. Tell him exactly what you're worried about and what's been bothering you. Tell him that you really like him, but if he isn't really in it for you, then you don't want to be his girlfriend. And if he says he really does like you, and you believe that he's telling the truth, then the two of you can try to work things out and make the relationship go smoothly. Maybe he's trying not to make any of the mistakes he made with your friend because he doesn't want to get dumped again. Just tell him you'd like him to act the way he did around your friend.
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hi. this is my first time using this..but...i was neading some advise. im living with my dad right now.and its going great.but i grew up near the beach and i really want to live there again.all my friends live there too.my mom lives in l.a with her boyfriend.in about 6t months his contract will end with his business and will be able to move towards the beach. my dad has a girlfriend. but i really dont want to stay out there with him becasue its in the middle of no where. and i lovemy dad and my mom. im happy in both places. i want to go to high school with where my mom lives. but i dont want to break my dads heart. what should i do?
You need to do what makes you happy, and it sounds like you really want to live with your mom. Talk to your dad and tell him that you love him and he means the world to you, but that you would be happiest growing up by the beach and being where all your friends are. Parents know, or at least they should know, that friends are a very important aspect of a teenagers life, and they really are a necessity to growing up happily. And the most important thing in a parent's life is making their child happy and doing what's best for them. Your dad may miss you, but he should understand. And be sure to come back and visit him frequently and show him some love.
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My Golden Retriever named Katie is 13 going on 14, i havent gone through a pet dieing experince my question is there any way to prepare myself in case my dog dies anytime soon? Katie's my First Dog and i love her sooooooo Much i would hate it if she died this Year Month Week Day
Can You Please Help Me Prepare for the Sadest Day of my Life???!?!??!?!?!?
HELP i'll RATE HIGH
Don't dwell on her dying. Enjoy her and have fun with her. Just because she's old doesn't mean she's gonna' die soon. The most I would maybe think about is what you want to do with her when she dies. Like maybe you want to have her creamated or something. But even that can be thought about when something does actually happen to her. Just don't worry or think about this too much. I know it crosses your mind as your pet gets older, but just make as many wonderful memories with her as you can, and keep on loving her like you do.
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i feel horrible. i feel like i have a hangover, but i didn't drink anything. last night i couldn't sleep and watched tv till 4:30 am. then woke up at 6 am cuz i was on my living room couch and the rest of my family woke up. i really need a quick-fix so i can move on with my day. i think i'm gonna go take walk, that could help, but i would REALLY appreciate any suggestions. thankyou!
Well...one quick fix is to drink coffee or tea, if you like either one of those. Or eating an apple supposedly gives you quick energy too, and it's supposed to last even longer than if you drink a cup of coffee.
Or you could go take a shower (cold or hot). Showers always wake me up.
And um...I think that's all I've got.
Hope one of those suggestions can help ya' out.
♥Berri
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what are a few good brands of powder or concealers? my skin is somewhat greasy, but only in the T zone... also i have a scar on my cheeck from surgery, so what are some sort of makeup things i can put on to mkae the scar less noticable?(like face makeup stuff) thanks!!
Hey, wow, I think we might have the same face, lol. I get greasy in my t-zone, and I have a scar on my cheek too. I use Clinique liquid foundation. It's really good for keeping you from being greasy/shiny. And for the scar, you can use Clinique on that too, and it covers it up pretty well, but there's this stuff called Merderma (I think that's spelled right) that is really good for getting rid of scars completely. That might be something you'd want to check out. Hope I helped!
-Berri
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i love my X but he has a gf now.. we were together for 8 months and i broke up with him and left for vacations. after i came back he asked me back but for some reasons we never hooked up again and fought. he started dating this girl and now they are together. when he was with her he used to call me but i never answer my cel because i was angry at him. about a month ago we saw each other at a party and he was with my best friend the whole party taking about me, he said "i would leave my gf just to be with her, i still love her." and more.. we talked but not much because i was too nervous to face him. we chatted and i asked him if what he had said was true and he said yes after that we didn't speak again, he didn't do anything neither did i. about 3 days ago he saw my best friend in tennis and they talked. she said "i always believed that you and alex would end up together" and he said "me too".. he always has in his nicks about past love and first love quotes like "i would never love the way i loved you" "it's so hard to forget about you" .. in his profile (wich he updates every week" he has "single" in his status. my parents were getting divorced, i was dealing with bulimia and my mom found out and gave me a hard time, i was feeling very low about me at that time but now i want him back. i think i'm losing him because he has on his nickname "now a love story is coming to an end" ..PLEASE advice me because i DO love him but put yourself in my position and tell me exactly what would you do!! remember that putting myself out there IS REALLY HARD.. PLEASE..advice me!!
You've got to talk to him if you don't want to lose him!!! And be more aggressive. Don't just find out that he still loves you and then leave it at that. You should say, "I keep hearing that you still like me, and I definitely still like you and don't want to lose you." Then if he says he still likes you too, make a plan to hang out sometime soon. And then hopefully you two can start dating again and straighten things out!!! I know it's hard putting yourself out there like that, but won't it be worth it if you get the love of your life back???
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I have a dance comming up friday. Its a Carribean dance so i have the beach theam plotted out. I am goign to wear my pink/orange skirt and a pink/orange spaggeti straps. Then wear a light white jacket over it because i cant where spaggetie straps at the dance. Then i was thinking to wear my pink laie around my neck and maybe my hair up with a flower in it.Girls is there anything nice to wear with this offit that will just look nice?
Heres when the guys come in. What are some places guys like girls to have stand out. Like eyes, lips, and other places lol. Well please let me know i want to look nice. I have some what of a figure it that helps im 13 too so dont say anything sluttish and i weigh 120 pounds and i am 5'3!!!!!!
Sounds like a cute outfit and hairdo. You could wear some cute light or hot pink kitten heels with it and paint your toenails a hot orange color..That might look cute.
And yeah, accentuate the eyes to catch guys' attention. Maybe use mascara with a curved brush to make your lashes extra long. And then you could wear light pink lip gloss and eyeshadow to match your outfit.
Just look classy (and it sounds like you're going to), and have an amazing time!!!!!!!!
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Where do all you advicenators get all your answers?
I put myself in the other person's shoes and think, "What would I do in that situation?" And then I tell the person what I would do and hope that it helps them out.
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