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hi. this is my first time using this..but...i was neading some advise. im living with my dad right now.and its going great.but i grew up near the beach and i really want to live there again.all my friends live there too.my mom lives in l.a with her boyfriend.in about 6t months his contract will end with his business and will be able to move towards the beach. my dad has a girlfriend. but i really dont want to stay out there with him becasue its in the middle of no where. and i lovemy dad and my mom. im happy in both places. i want to go to high school with where my mom lives. but i dont want to break my dads heart. what should i do?
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you should tell both how your feeling. they should understand. of course your mom will be thrilled and your dad has his girlfriend for company too. tell your dad tho, that they could try to find ways for you to visit him a lot. maybe that could help too. just be honest about it. XO0X -- Kelsey
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Tell you dad what you just told us. Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt his feelings but you want to live with your mom. Tell him that all your friends are there and you really want to live near the beach. Let him know that even if you move, you'll still visit him as often as possible.
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just tell your mom how u fell
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explore our options, pros and cons and stuff like that,then decided which one you really want to live with. ITs about you, not them, so do YOU want to do. Good Luck! <3 Lana
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tell you dad that you are happy there and you love him a lot, but you really want to live by the beach and with all your friends, tell him that this doesn't make anything different, just where you live. Maybe you could stay with him every weekend, every other weekend, live with him for the summer, or not move. Bt if you move it could make you a lot happier. Just go wherever you are happier, tey are your parents, they will love you no matter what you do or choose. Well i hope i could help you to make the right decision. :-)
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You need to do what makes you happy, and it sounds like you really want to live with your mom. Talk to your dad and tell him that you love him and he means the world to you, but that you would be happiest growing up by the beach and being where all your friends are. Parents know, or at least they should know, that friends are a very important aspect of a teenagers life, and they really are a necessity to growing up happily. And the most important thing in a parent's life is making their child happy and doing what's best for them. Your dad may miss you, but he should understand. And be sure to come back and visit him frequently and show him some love.
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