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Hey everybody. I've love giving advice so I'll answer every question I can. If you need any advice on anything, just ask me! A little about me- I play tennis and I love to shop and hang out at my pool with friends. I'll be a sophomore in high school this year so I've had plenty of experience on friendship and relationships. I always try to take my time and answer every question thoughtfully. I don't care about ratings or any of that, I just want to help people out. :-)

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anyone have good song ideas for a warm up cd for volleyball??... it has to get the team pumped!!!!

Here's a few good ones that I could think of:

"Run It"- Chris Brown
"My Humps"- Black Eyed Peas
"Play"- David Banner
"Get it Poppin"- Fat Joe
"Hollaback Girl"- Gwen Stefani
"Operate"- Peaches (featured on the Mean Girls soundtrack)
"We Used to Be Friends"- The Dandy Warhols

Those are some good ones! Just use anything that has a fast beat and fun lyrics.

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I'm planning on buying movies next weekend because I have none! I love scary movies and chick flicks and comedy's. What do you recommand.

p.s. no rated R's

Some of my favorite movies are: Mean Girls, Clueless, Big Daddy, The Stepford Wives, Stepmom, How to Deal, and Superstar. Check out some of those cause they are all really good!

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what do you think of meeting people off the internet...

im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..

bad or good idea?

HELP ASAP

BAD IDEA! Just don't do it. I'm sure you've heard of all the horror stories of girls meeting up with a guy she met online, who turns out to be a rapist or something. Sure he might be the guy he says he is, but what if he's not? Its super easy to lie over the internet. And plus there are plenty of cool and sweet guys that you can meet at school or whatever.

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alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun?

If you're really nervous and it's your first time making out, you might just freeze and not know what to do. But the best thing to do is just go with the flow. Just follow the guy's lead and eventually you'll figure out what you're doing. I don't think making out is gross at all. It's pretty fun once you're comfortable with it. Everyone makes a big deal of kissing and making out but once your first time comes, it will just happen naturally. Just have fun with it!

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ok i have a myspace and i wanna change my music but i don't want a music video i just want a bar thing without the video. please give me some sites asap

Just go to the music section of myspace. Search for bands and singers and go to their websites. When you find a song you want click "Add."

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Does anyone know where I can find free ringtones for a Verizon Wireless cell phone? The make of the phone is Motorola V276.

You can't get free ringtones for Verizon. You'll have to go to the Get It Now section of your phone and buy them. Thats the only way to get them for Verizon. Most cost around $2-4.

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My best friends parents just told her that they are getting a divorce. I don't know what to say to her. I basically said "I am soooo sorry" and "this should be happening to you" I also toldh er tha ti am always there for her she can call me anytime, it doesn't matter if its 12 midnight, and she can come over whenever, she doesn't hav eto call or nothin' i don't know what else to say. HELP!!!!

I think you are doing a pretty good job. All you can do is let her know you are there for her. It's not like you can fix her parents' marriage so you have to comfort her and try to make her feel a little better about the situation. This is a really hard time for her so just letting her know that she has a good friend will probably help her out a lot.

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Okay, my friend (we'll call her mary) and I are about the same size, except i'm a bit leaner because i'm tall and stuff. But she ALWAYS wants to borrow my clothes. I didn't mind at first but now it's coming to every day -- she sees what i'm wearing and says "I'm borrowing that." Also, our other friend is like 2 sizes smaller than us but "mary" has even borrowed clothes from her. "Mary" has worn my petite friend's favorite hoodie more times than she has!
Its really starting to get on both of our nerves. During the summer I let her borrow one of my coolest skirts and she got a stain on it. Yeah, it's tiny. But I mean, come on. Also, she always says I can borrow any of her clothes whenever I want when she borrows mine. But the truth is, her fashion sense sucks. All she does is buy brand names and the clothes are usually the wrong size for her because shes in denial about being a size xlarge. So, she gives the clothes to our small friend who could practically wear them as nightshirts their so big on her. Anyway, so should I just keep kinda ignoring her requests to borrow my clothes or just let her borrow them once in awhile to keep her sated? Or just outright tell her that she stretches out my clothes? WHAT?

Yeah that would be really annoying. Next time she asks to borrow something of yours just be like, "My mom doesn't want me to lend out any of my clothes anymore because she's worried they'll get stained and stuff." Then your friend won't be mad at you. She probably wants to borrow all your stuff because she realizes that you have cuter clothes. Maybe you guys could go shopping sometime and you could help her pick a bunch of cute things. If she knows you think they are cute then she'll be more likely to want to wear them and stop borrowing your clothes. Good luck!

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Myy Msn won't sign in! I clicked on trouble shoot and everything is fine but it won't sign in! Whats wrong with it??!?!?! All 5s 4 a decent answer!!!

Sometimes the server is too busy and it's unable to retrieve your contact list. Just wait an hour or so and try again.

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I need some good songs to dance to..
Prefably women singing.

Things that are similar to..
Christina Milian - AM to PM
Beyonce - Crazy in Love

etc.

"Pon de Replay" by Rihanna
"Lose Control" by Missy Elliot
"Toxic" by Britney Spears
"Operate" by Peaches

Those are a few good ones. :-)

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what does it mean " boys like you are a dime a dozen" and yes i know its from a song

That's a good song. Anyways, it basically means that boys like you come around a lot or boys like you aren't that special.

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On Lugana Beach, when Talan is about to suprise Kristin by asking her to prom, and the garage is opening, what song is playing? If you know, much thanks.

Easy 5.

If I watched the episode again and heard which one it is I could tell you, but I can't remember it right now. I have a list of all the songs from each episode on my blog but just go to mtv.com and go to the Laguna Beach section, click episodes and then click Laguna Music.

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dOes anyone have any gOod laguna beach or OC quotes that deal with relationship && also ones that deal with friendship? .. i rate high =) .. thankss!

Here's a few from Laguna!

"Keep your friends close, your boys even closer, and your enemies as far away as possible."
-2 Promo

"I don't love you...I l-u-v you"
-Talan

"You are the best thing and the worst thing that ever happened to me, all rolled up into one."
-Five Years by Jaime Paxton, featured on Season 1

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well for halloween this year i was gonna put together cute little accesories and stuff for halloween together to wear to school but nothing drastic i was thinking beads and halloween socks and like a strand hair with temporary hair color dye stuff in it if you have any more ideas please help thanks!!

Go to Claire's! They alway have cute holiday accessories.

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OK,well. I am 13/f and i recently moved into my sisters old room. I am going to redo it. I can't repaint it tho. Two walls are red, two walls are white. I really love the old hollywood look like marilyn monroe, the coca-cola stuff... that type of stuff. Well, I'm having a really hard time thinking of ideas and finding stuff to do. If anyone has any ideas, or even links of things i could put in my room, that would be great! thanks a bunch! i rate! ♥

You should get a big black and white poster of Marilyn Monroe and frame it. Just think 50's. That would be really cool. :-)

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Ok guys I need to do a science fair experiment for school. Im 13/f in 8th grade and I wanna do sumthing with make up like how long lipstick stays on or something like that. I was thinking of testing like nail polish or maskara or shampoo or something. Please help! i'll rate good n no stupid answers or ill rate bad.

Once I did a project that tests nailpolishes. I used 3 different brands and recorded how long each one lasted. You can take notes on them everyday.

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can i please have a list on winter sports please. like options for me to play at my school..

7th grader, girl

xox

Volleyball is about the only one I can think of for girls. Or cheerleading for boys basketball. But then again it varies from school to school. You could ask someone who plays a lot of sports at your school about it.

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i'm going to buy a straightener soo, so does anyone know a really good chi hair straightener? and where can i buy it?

thankss sooo much

Yep. I got mine from the hair salon at JCPenney. The brand is Global Beauty and I think it's called a ceramic chi straightener or something like that. I love it, it makes my hair so soft and straight and it lasts all day. I think it was about $120.

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my homecoming dress is strapless and I am a size A in bra but I am going to wear a pretty good push up bra. My concern is my dress slipping while I'm dancing. I just want to know if anyone has been in this type of situation before and has some advice to keep the dress from slipping. thanks in advance

I wore a strapless dress this year so I know what you're going through. Just get some heavy duty double stick tape (sticky on both sides) and put it on the top of the inside of your dress. I did this and it worked really well. Even after 4 hours of dancing it didn't move around at all.

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should i carry a purse to a homecoming dance tonight?

Yeah you should bring a small one. I just put my cell phone, camera and some gum in there. That way you don't have to carry everything seperately.

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