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Q: my sister has been going out with this guy mike for longer thn a year and my whole family has loved him like a son/brother ect. but my stupid sister broke up with him for this druggie that our whole family despises. I know mike still loves her. I really don't want this Chris guy over at my house everyday. i was happy with mike. what should i do? i'll rate 5's for anyone who doesn't say it's your sisters life and let her do whatever she wants cuz i kno this guy is so wrong for her or anybody else. please help.
Sit your sister and your family down and talk to her about the 2 guys and let her know that she's not doing the best thing for herself.

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Q: ok im sorry this is long: my dad makes fun of EVERYONE!!!!! my friends, my teachers. ok, so if i come to him for help, with like friendship and say some negative stuff about people for example: "dad, _______ has been doing some rude things lately blah blah blah" and then hes like "oh is _______ the one with the monkey face/really fat/rat hair" and he can go on forever!!!!!! even when im not asking for help!!! like sometime he says stuff like "oh do u know that girl teresa in your class? she has the most annoying voice" I BEG HIM TO STOP THISS BUT WHEN I DO HE JUST DOES IT MORE!!!!! JUST BECAUSE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH SOME PEOPLE DOESNT MEAN HE HAS TO BE SO MEAN ABOUT IT! I mean i come to my father for advice. not critisism.please dont say ask your mom cause she doesnt help. please what can i do to stop this!
My dad was like that too. I got SO pissed off at him. I suggest that you write him a letter/note that explains how you feel and tell him if he really cares about his son/daughter then he would appreciate what you have to say and take in consideration that youre in need of advice and hes there for you but every time you talk to him he makes fun of the people and you cant get anything into his head. Tell him what you just told me- that fathers are for advice. theyre supposed to be there for their kids and to protect them.

[lol sorry its long]
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Q: Ok I just found out that one of my cousins does weed. I love her to death, but my moms freaks out when I'm hang out with her cuz she thinks that she is a bad influence on me.(My mom doesn't know that she does weed.) I'm not stupid and I would never do weed cuz it's retarded, but my question is how can I get my mom to stop freaking out everytime I am alone with my cousin and so she will trust me??

P.S. My cousin is not an addict and she doesn't do it a lot.
Just let your mom know that you wont do anything stupid when youre around her and that she doesnt influence you to do anything bad. Ask your mom why she thinks your cousin is a bad influence and ask her if she really thinks you'd do that kind of stuff. Get her to trust you...and DONT BLOW IT!!

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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right
Well mabye you should talk to her about it and tell her how you and her other friends feel about her and her boyfriend's relationship and how she acts when shes around him. Let her know about how y'all feel. I dont think you should tell her mom about it cause then your friend will be mad at you and that would cause a bigger problem. just talk to her and sort it out.

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Q: ok what do you do when you like this kid and your so called best friend sayd that she likes him also and then you fight over him and your best friend is starting to like all the same people you are and when you want to talk about them to her she complains an whines she likes them too and then he asked me out and i told her and shes didnt believe me an now shes all jelous i mean whats her problem all i know is she dont have a personality of her own and she thinks she better than me.... i nmean is that a friend what should i do????
well ive been through this same sort of thing, what you should do if you think she likes everyone you like...is just stop telling your friend who you like and start likeing different people, mabye people she doesnt know or people she doesnt talk to. Find someone you know she wouldnt like that you like.

shes not a very good friend if shes gonna choose the guy she likes over you and thats why you guys are getting in fights.

hope this helps!


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My name's Gabby, I love listening to music and hanging out with my friends like any normal teen...ya know how it goes. I also like helping people out with their problems and learning about others. I have an obsession with candy. If you wanna ask me something go ahead, I'll try to help you out the best I can! And my friend on here's name is lacey and her advice column name is lovelylacey! So check hers out too!

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