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my dad- the critisizer
ok im sorry this is long: my dad makes fun of EVERYONE!!!!! my friends, my teachers. ok, so if i come to him for help, with like friendship and say some negative stuff about people for example: "dad, _______ has been doing some rude things lately blah blah blah" and then hes like "oh is _______ the one with the monkey face/really fat/rat hair" and he can go on forever!!!!!! even when im not asking for help!!! like sometime he says stuff like "oh do u know that girl teresa in your class? she has the most annoying voice" I BEG HIM TO STOP THISS BUT WHEN I DO HE JUST DOES IT MORE!!!!! JUST BECAUSE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH SOME PEOPLE DOESNT MEAN HE HAS TO BE SO MEAN ABOUT IT! I mean i come to my father for advice. not critisism.please dont say ask your mom cause she doesnt help. please what can i do to stop this!
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You must must must talk to your dad. You deff should be able to go to your dad for advice when you need. You need to be respectful of course. Your dad is not a mind reader so speak up. He's your dad and he will understand how you are feeling!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
I hope I helped!
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Well you can try to sit down with him and talk to him about his problem and if that doesnt work then I would suggest that you play a reversle game on him and start talking about his co-workers and or friends and see where that leads, if he tries to punish you then let him know that he is just teaching you that he is right and your wrong even though your both doing the same exact thing. And remember to keep your head up!
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okay you spelt thiss wrong it is this now what is your question
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well, when you dad does that, ignore him, and finally he will stop.
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My dad was like that too. I got SO pissed off at him. I suggest that you write him a letter/note that explains how you feel and tell him if he really cares about his son/daughter then he would appreciate what you have to say and take in consideration that youre in need of advice and hes there for you but every time you talk to him he makes fun of the people and you cant get anything into his head. Tell him what you just told me- that fathers are for advice. theyre supposed to be there for their kids and to protect them.
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hope this helps!
<3 Gabby
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My dad was the same way for the longest time. He'd call my problems idoitic or meaningless. It was the most annoying thing in the world.
Anyways, you need to tell your dad just what you told us "Dad, I come to my father for advice. not critisism." Tell him he is not helping, tell him is making you feel worse and you don't apperciate him talking like that, and then STOP asking for his help.
I know that sounds harsh but if he wont stop it is the only way to make it clear how much you hate him talking like that. Leave it for a little while, and the next time you ask for help if he starts insulting agian, just walk away from him. Don't get angry, just don't take it anymore.
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