ok, first thing i will say is: yes, i am goth. but i am NOT a freak. i swear that im not. i have been giving advice for 9 years. so, i will answer ANY question!! dont be afraid to ask me, i swear i'll answer anything anyone ask me.
Gender: Female Location: alabama Age: 19 Member Since: June 25, 2005 Answers: 21 Last Update: July 7, 2005 Visitors: 2958
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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks (link)
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"getting away wtih murder"-papa roach
"before i forget"-slipknot
"cold"-crossfade
"remedy"-seether
"im not ok"-my chemical romance
that is some of my favorite songs, hope u like them too.
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What does it mean to "cum"? And what kind of "mess" do girls make when given oral. (link)
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well to a girl "cum" is clear stuff that helps lubericate. and to a guy "cum" is white stuff(it has sperm in it).
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okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.
i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.
another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?
thanks alot. (link)
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well, take the marijuana and flush it down the toilet, and anytime you find anymore flush it too. that way your mom wont find out about it, and also your dad will not be able to smoke it, well atleast not the house he wont be able to.
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so what do you do when you break up with your girlfriend, who was also your best friend before that, and now you've been replaced completely by some other guy....well ya that happened to me....she doesn't even talk to me anymore, but she's not visibly mad at me or anything...i've just been replaced entirely by this kid...any suggestions on 1) how to win her back atleast to best friend level or if not 2) how to deal with the fact that you've been replaced entirely.....any help would be great, thanks guys. (link)
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umm...well 1. tell her that you stillw ant to be friends with her, call her or something. 2. try to find someone else to love, yeah i know easier said then done. but, you get what i mean.
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okay well lately alot has been sucky. we had to move to another town and now i go to an up-tight sucky school. i hate the people there are judgmental and all that crap. they lable people and stuff and the friends i do have my parents do know their parents so i cant do anything with them. my parents are stucky. the only thing i have that is good right now is soccer. i might even have to quit though because my knee cap, it is shifting over the more i use it the worse it gets and another peoson on my team has the exact same thing and she just got sugury done on it and she is out all summer. well lately i have been writing lyrics and i dont want to show them to anyone because im afriad they will get scared that im depressed and put me in a rubber room. but anyways i guess all i need is some help. i was talking to my bf's cousin today (because my bf is on vacation)and i think that i give her the wrong impresstion because at that time is was really thinking about runaway and just i dont know dying but now not as much but now im afriad she is going to tell my bf that im going to break his heart because i told her i was going away for awhile i didnt know if would come back. i guess i just need comforting.
thanks thoose who help (link)
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1. you need to get your parents to meet your friends parents. 2. talk to your bf's cousin, and tell her that you was sorry for the way that you acted, and that you would never brake your bf's heart. 3. about not showing anybody them lyrics. trust me they wont throw you in a rubber room. i promise. for a long time i went through a dupressed moment, and i didnt get throwed in into a rubber room or nothing. bye.
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ok so the past school year i was a freshman in high school. most of my teachers were disorganized and really mean. does it stay like that all throughout high school or does that change when you get older?
MizzNiceGirl (link)
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well, whatever grade you are in, you will always have a teacher that is strict and mean. and all teachers are disorganized, even though pretend that they know everything. lol.
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ok im sorry this is long: my dad makes fun of EVERYONE!!!!! my friends, my teachers. ok, so if i come to him for help, with like friendship and say some negative stuff about people for example: "dad, _______ has been doing some rude things lately blah blah blah" and then hes like "oh is _______ the one with the monkey face/really fat/rat hair" and he can go on forever!!!!!! even when im not asking for help!!! like sometime he says stuff like "oh do u know that girl teresa in your class? she has the most annoying voice" I BEG HIM TO STOP THISS BUT WHEN I DO HE JUST DOES IT MORE!!!!! JUST BECAUSE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH SOME PEOPLE DOESNT MEAN HE HAS TO BE SO MEAN ABOUT IT! I mean i come to my father for advice. not critisism.please dont say ask your mom cause she doesnt help. please what can i do to stop this! (link)
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well, when you dad does that, ignore him, and finally he will stop.
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OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do? (link)
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no, that does not make you a bad friend, its just common jealousy. and you should give her the phone number. not giving her the phone number would make you a bad friend.
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If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test? (link)
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not usually.
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you sed you will answer any questions to...do you know and positions that i can masterbate in like dont say doggy style or legsaprts...umncommon!! ya no? and if you recomend someone please tell me !!!=D (link)
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well, umm, lets see. there is one where you put your left leg down, and your right leg pulled up close to your chest. or, you can put each leg on each side of the bed, and lean foward(just depends how flexible you are). also, if you want to find out some awesome positions go to Cosmopolitan.com, they have some awesome positions on there. hope i helped.
i am trying to get my own advice column started, so tell your friends about me! bye.
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my mom doesn't let me have a life. i only saw my boyfriend in the morning for like 4 minutes in school. now that its summer, i really want to do something with him. how could i make my mom.......easier? i dunno. help. (link)
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tell her, well actually, promise her that you and him will do 'nothing'. i think that she is scared that her baby is growing up to fast. i hate when moms do that.
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i no this sounds stupid but what does a viberator do? (link)
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it makes you CUM.
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I RATE 5s!!!
okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah
and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!! (link)
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well, i dont know to much about volleyball. but with the chick that is teasing you, next time she tells you to do something tell her to shove her fist up her ass!
hope i help. lol.
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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?
16/f (link)
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well if he liked already then you would not be asking this question. you need to find out for sure if he likes you or not.
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O.K. I have been on my period since the middle of sixth grade and I'm now in eighth grade. I have skipped a lot of periods in the past and I was wondering if that has anything to do with having kids. Will I still be able to have kids and is this serious? Now, my period has been going for a MONTH! Is that normal for a 13 year old girl, even if I started almost three years ago?
Signed,
Kayla (link)
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no, you will still be able to have kids. and yes, it is normal for it to last that long every once in a while. one of my best friends had a period that lasted for a month and a half.
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Ok, so Im sopussed to go on this vacation to this rented house on a beach with my moms side of the family and Im not really close to them like yeah I never talk to anyone of them but no matter how much I begged not to go my mom still said I had to; but then when my brother asked not to go she didnt care. So Im kinda already mad at my mom for that. Then my friend could go to help me not be so miserable but my mom wont help pay for her with the money that she was gonna use for my brother. Im inbetween going and not going because #1 there is a SLIGHT chance it could be fun, but #2 it could be really boring, #3 my mom would be miserable without one of us kids around with her, and #4 Id get a grand tan. So if you were me would you go? (link)
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well, dont go unless you wanna go. i mean, like, what is the point of going if you are going to be miserable?
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Does anyone know a website that lets you download MIDI files of music for free? i will rate fives. (link)
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aolmusic.com or go to yahoo music....
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Does anyone know all the techniques for straightening hair? (both temporarily and permanently) Please either give me a list with prices, or websites with descriptions. I rate 5's! Thanks so much (link)
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well, all i know is, is when you take a hair straightener and staighten your hair. but moose in it afterwords.
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I have a question..
what is better to use when going horseback riding
tampons or pads
thanks
i rate 5's for good answers (link)
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tamp.
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is it normal to have cramps after youve masterbated? i get them after ive had my fingers..up there..is this normal? if not, whats wrong? (link)
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yes its normal, a lot of women cramp like that. i even do that. haha.
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