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this is a family and love life question.
my mom doesn't let me have a life. i only saw my boyfriend in the morning for like 4 minutes in school. now that its summer, i really want to do something with him. how could i make my mom.......easier? i dunno. help.
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well, i would really like to know your age to help but if im assuming that you are already in high skool or are going in to high school then she is most likely just afraid of losing her little girl or maybe she thinks you are just too young and that that would be innapropriate for a girl your age. She does it b/c she loves you. Try talking to her and telling her that you don't intend to do anything "bad" with him. But that you would really like to have a relationship with a boy your age and as perhaps more than friends. Always keep the trust with your parents. Trust equals Freedom.
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well, i think that you should do just this. convince your mom that you can be resposable and trust worthy. i know your not gonna wanna do this but, clean up the house without being told, or do the dishes when its not your turn. it will show her that you can take care of yourself and you can be trusted to do things with your boyfriend.
then when the time is right, ask her if you can do something with him. make sure you tell her what time you will be home to seem responsable.
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tell her, well actually, promise her that you and him will do 'nothing'. i think that she is scared that her baby is growing up to fast. i hate when moms do that.
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just sit down with your mom and tell her be like mon it is summer and really want to hang out with my friends dont say your going with a guy or your boyfrind tell her your going out with a few friends and i she askes who name a few but not him and you will do fine and tell her that you need her to trust you and to let you do things if you do it in a nice tone then most likely she will understand.
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no don't telL her u'r gettin older and you need a life .. it doesnt work trust me i know .. but you have 2 prove 2 her that u'r old enough 2 be trusted
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Just tell her that your getting older and she needs to let you have your own life!
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