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Gender: Female
Location: Cow Town Canada.
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: To Help.
Member Since: June 26, 2005
Answers: 21
Last Update: November 21, 2005
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Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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kay.
i am only in grade 9 but i am in love & i can relate to thing very well.
she need the so called "big gessture"
do something so extreame knock her off her feet.
& if in the end she dosent feel the same way there is just nothing you can do you may be broken but in the end you will realize that if it dosent feel right to her then i wasnt meant to be
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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ok...well i think that no affence but he has no right to say stuff like that to you if he dosent want to go out...
cause i am haveing the same kinda problem right now.
but yeah i think that is a great idea to get a card and make a cake...you sould plan for the two of you to just sit around all day and talk and just hang out together it think that would be really cute...and in the card write a poem or a letter saying how you feel and how much you care about him..you have to let it out in the open and tell him how you feel and then who knows?
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i heard that theres something you can use to help acne scars and acne itself. what is it called ? and if you tried it, does it actually work ? (link)
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I Am accaully really lucky i dont have any sits but i go to a dermatoligist and Vitamin K Cream is what they use for that and i have asked so many people
Vitamin K Cream will totally clear it up??
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i like this girl but she is one year younger than me and she is just my friend what should i do (link)
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tell her the only way you guys can become more then friends is if you tell her how you feel and she may just feel the same way in the end.
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alright..well i like this kid jimmy (link)
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ok well get up and hang out with him alought this summer and who knows if you hang out out enough maybee he will see how cool you are and forget other people.......
and by the way you souldnt judge people by the way they look
Thanks and have a nice day
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This is gonna be long but I need help..
So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !! (link)
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in any relationshit without trust you have NOTHING. he did the worst thing you can do to someone he cheated if you just let him get away with it no matter how much you love him then he will do it again you are better then that and derserve bettter so tell him that you can't trust him anymore and its not going to work cause thats is not fair to you you dont deserve to be treated that way sure you will be broken hearted for a while so just sit down with ice cream and corney movies and let it all out dont keep it inside just cry belive me it will help and after all that you will see that you made the right desition.
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my mom doesn't let me have a life. i only saw my boyfriend in the morning for like 4 minutes in school. now that its summer, i really want to do something with him. how could i make my mom.......easier? i dunno. help. (link)
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just sit down with your mom and tell her be like mon it is summer and really want to hang out with my friends dont say your going with a guy or your boyfrind tell her your going out with a few friends and i she askes who name a few but not him and you will do fine and tell her that you need her to trust you and to let you do things if you do it in a nice tone then most likely she will understand.
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well theres this guy i like, but my EX-bff likes him too! i asked him who he likes better me or her! he said me~how do i get him to ask me out or how do i ask him out (link)
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well it is pretty simple you can't just sit around and expect things to come to you you have to get out there and show him whos boss show him you are not ashamed of likeing him or being who you are just ask him.....call him or do it in person talk about something else for a bit then bring it be like hey do you think we would be a good couple and work your way from there.......and if you guys go out and that chick has a problem with it well forget about her cause you got him in the end and she didnt so show him off and be true to yourself
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HEy I am 13/f & There is this boy i like & i asked him out & he said no because he didnt want to mess up our friendship! It really hurts & i cant get over him. IS there anyway to change his mind about me or anyway we can become more than friends!!!!!!!!
I rate 5s
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well telll him that you don't know if you can be more then friend and just hang out with him more make him see what a great person you are and tell him that you dont want it to be so awkwerd i know this is hard to hear but in the end if he dose not like you then it is his loss move on and fid a better guy cause yeah once this all blows over he will see what he is missing and totally want you
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what do you do when a girl who you truly like chooses a different guy over you for the 3 time and still wants to talk
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ok sit down with her slone and tell her how you feel tel her that she has to choose she may get mad but if she is your true friend she will realize that she was wrong and tell her how you feel because when a friend chooses a guy over a girl somthing is really wrong
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wat do u do if u r heart broken? please help im so sad!:'( ill rate high (link)
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i know it hurt but just sit down and cry let it all out and eat ice cream it will make you feel better belive me if you hold it in side then it will get worse just cry when you feel like crying and write down how you feel i know it hurts know and it feels like it will never go away but over time it will i promise you that
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i've just gotten a modeling audition for a prestigious program. I'm average looking with brown hair,brown eyes,and skin. I'm 13 and i'm 5'1. Should I do the program or should I turn it down? (link)
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difinitly go for it it would be a great experience even if you dont get it belive me i am in modeling and i wouldnt trade it for the world
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i really really like this guy we went to homecoming together and he was going to ask me out but i chickend out and now he likes my bestfriend i dont want to tell her how if feel she thinks i like another guy and he doesnt know what should i do
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ok well if she is your bestfriend them you should tell her everything and if she is a true friend she will understand so just tell her and she will probubly help you to.
talk to him more thats the only way to get him to see the real you again and it may take a while but after he will probubly be totally interested.
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Well I'm not really getting invited to too many parties. A girl named Katee had a huge party and I wasnt invited...I feel like a loser and left out....any ways on how to have more friends or something like that? (link)
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ok get out there rtalk to whoever whenever the only way to get people to like you and see who you are is to socailize you cant just expecpt that they know you or that you want to be firneds just start talking to them go to socail events meet new people and try new things and befor you know it you will be popular
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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger? (link)
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no there is nothing wrong woiht it do you know any merried couples that are the same ago...no most are 3 or 4 years apart so it really dosent matter if its a year. dont worry about them saying something if they do just tell them to grow up its not a big deal and dont worry about it untill the time comes
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I was wondering what lap dancing is? I read it in one of the questions but I didn't know what it meant. (link)
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ok there are special shoes called tap danceing shoes they have medal plates underneath them that make a clicking noise and when you dance it makes a really cool sound
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ok so i just started using tampons and like when i put on in it feels like it falling out does that mean its not in all the way or is that just how it feels??
plz help ill rate high to anything thats not ignorant (link)
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It Just means you are not putting it in properly one day just kepp trying untill it feels confortable and dose not fall out
i know this from experience
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hi, i remarried 10 years ago.i had 3 children when we met.he's been a great father and husband.about 2-3 years ago my(our) eldest son (15) and my husband tarted to argue all the time.i suggested that we all og to councelling,my husband said he didn't have a problem.it was all my sons fault.about a month ago he moved out.we didn't have a problem when he moved out ,then all the sudden he 's acting like he hates me. he says it's all my fault for not doing anything about my son.he says he'll move back ion when my son is out of the house.could be 1-4-6 months,or longer.he's blaming me for all of it.he wanted me to kick him out or put him in foster carte.now were on the verge of a divorce. i love him very much but i can't go on like this much longer.help please. (link)
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hey i know i am only 14 but i think the answer may be to sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel and tell him that you love your son very much and if he expects you to kick out YOU SON then he is not the man for you i know you love him but he is trying to make you sacrifice you failly everything you have worked for i know it seems hard and unfair but you just need to talk to him about it and if you do i think that he will understand if he loves you. i hope that helps a bit
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first of all i rate high. also i no i always ask the same question but i never get a good enough answer. no makeup suggustions please. ok so the thing is that i have a big nose brown eyes a long face light brown hair a tan and a really really small upper lip. i always keep my hair down. but my question is how do i make my lip look bigger nose smaller hair better face prettier. thanx and i rate HIGH (link)
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ok first of all light tons totally work with longer faces so try that you sould also try to put your hair up more it would give more attraction to your face. it is a known face that if you but a really light lip liner it will help make you lip look bigger with a glosy shape.
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There's a guy friend of mine that I like ... alot. Some people say he likes me but I know we're just friends. He has a girlfriend who's really nice but sometimes she rubs it in my face that they're dating even though she doesn't know I like him. Is there any way I could ever end up with him? How could I without getting her mad at me? Basically, what should I do? (link)
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i know how you feel it is so hard. but you need to be up front woith him tell him how you feel and if you and his girlfriend are good friends then she sould understand tell her and if she gets mad then she is not a true friend anyways so just forget about her and if he can't see after you tell him what a great person you are then he is not worth it.
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