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Her & Him ... & Me
There's a guy friend of mine that I like ... alot. Some people say he likes me but I know we're just friends. He has a girlfriend who's really nice but sometimes she rubs it in my face that they're dating even though she doesn't know I like him. Is there any way I could ever end up with him? How could I without getting her mad at me? Basically, what should I do?
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I went exactly through this same thing..I liked this guy since 9th grade and a couple of months before he and his girlfriend broke up he told me that he liked me since the 8th grade. and then we told his girlfriend and she was a little upset but she wasnt mad because me and him were just friends and then me and him talked about it alot and then we started flirting way more then a couple of days later they broke up and. I asked if it would be alright if i dated him and she said ok. then a wek later we started dating and she hates me know but still talks to him. Dont worry about it. If that ever happen and your trully happy dont let it get to you.. I hoped that I helped
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You could wind up with him one day if you remain good friends. Your boyfriend should be your best friend after all. There isn't much you can do about it so long as he has a girlfriend but when he doesn't there is nothing wrong with it if you should want to ask him his opinion of the whole thing. You could ask him now really if you wanted to.
Next time she rubs it in your face, ask her if she is that threatened by you that she just can't stop talking about it. I'm sure that's what it is. He probably talks about you to her and she is jealous. :)
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if they break up i think it's safe for you to make your move on this guy. then his girlfriend couldn't say anything about it b/c they are over and he is fair game again. but don't come on to him too strong, remember he might still think of you as a friend and it might feel akward to him.
hope I helped! xXannaXx
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First, tell her you don't like her rubbing it in your face like that. She sounds like the jealous type to me, and if that's the case, they won't last long.
You may want to tell him now, you may want to not tell him until he's single again. It really depends on him, and if he will tell her, on her.
Either way, DO NOT make any moves on him while he is with her - not only is it rude and gonna piss her off, but it's insulting to him. He's your friend, and if he's happy, then you should support him. If you make moves on him, then you are completely disregarding him and his wishes. The only move you should make would be to let him know. Telling the truth (without intent to manipulate) does no harm in and of itself, it's just how they react (which is why I say you may want to tell now, or wait).
If they have a bad break up, be there for him, and WAIT for him, and make sure he knows you like him and will wait. If they have a good break up, same thing, but you'll also want to wait for her sake if you don't want to upset her, and you'll want to talk to her about it (again, if you want to not upset her).
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i wouldnt do annything intill they break up. i wonder why she feels she should rub it in your face? maby he does like you and she sensed the chemistry. if he does like you something will lead to them breaking up. in the mean time, i would look and try to find other single guys to start liking. that way, you can get your mind off him and he will realise that you cant just wait around. hope i helped!
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i know how you feel it is so hard. but you need to be up front woith him tell him how you feel and if you and his girlfriend are good friends then she sould understand tell her and if she gets mad then she is not a true friend anyways so just forget about her and if he can't see after you tell him what a great person you are then he is not worth it.
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um well is she your friend or just another person in your way of being happy? lol. that sounds really mean. but anyways you can get one of your guyfriends to talk to him about you by like say so hey who do you like other than your girlfirend? and stuff like that
hope i helped!
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