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She won't understand
Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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if she isn't interested. than it prolly isn't meant to be hun. cool off, give her space. either you'll find someone totally new and more suited to you, or she'll come to her senses.
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you can tell her until your blue in the face that it is meant to be--she is the one qho has to see it for herself-you cant make her see something she doesnt want to--i know this b/c i have been trying to get my ex-fiance back and i cant do it no more--if she says she cant see it as anything more than that means she is not interested in you. its a shame but im being honest you may feel it is right but it takes 2 to make a relationship and it seems only you want to....good luck
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kay.
i am only in grade 9 but i am in love & i can relate to thing very well.
she need the so called "big gessture"
do something so extreame knock her off her feet.
& if in the end she dosent feel the same way there is just nothing you can do you may be broken but in the end you will realize that if it dosent feel right to her then i wasnt meant to be
Reality.
Hope i helped
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try and do sweet things for her like trying 2 see her in the halls, talking to her, maybe just become better friends frist then try it agian.
hope i helped
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just by the way it sounded like you typed this, i can tell the connection between you too, even if that sounds crazy, just do something to show her you care, flirt, say happy birthday, or happy w/e holiday it is, get her a rose, a card , a ring, put it in her locker, and say it is from her secret admirer, without stlking her, just tlk to her as much as possible, and if you are good at it or not, flirt, she'll notice, if she dont her friends will and they will bring it to her attention, hope i could help, e mail me and let me know how everything works out if you would like,
Jasmine,
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Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm going to be more honest than I'm sure anyone here is going to be.
You like her alot, you tell her all the time that you are meant to be together. Did you ever think that maybe she doesn't like you that way? You keep going on and on about how you two are meant to be.. If I were in her position I would honest to God be freaked out by your actions and your persistance for a relationship with her.
By her saying "Not now" or "I can't see you anymore" take it as her way of saying "No, we shouldn't be together" or "No, I don't want to be with you, not now or ever."
You've told her, so your problem isn't how to tell her that you are meant to be together. She already knows that you think that.
You need to let her go. If you've been telling her numerous times that you should be together and she isn't giving into any of it, then you really should let her go and TRY to move on. If she hasn't realized it now, then honestly she may NEVER realize it.
Let her go, find someone that is going to give you the time of day, someone who is WORTH your time, your love, your dedication... She doesn't seem to be it. If she is truely right for you, and she felt it too she would be with you by now.
Maybe in time in a few months, years maybe she might realize that you are the one for her. But she isn't right now. Give her time.
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There isn't anything you can do. You tried telling her and she tells you she's not interested. Give her some time. If you guys are meant to be, God will find a way for you two to be together.
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It sounds to me as if you may be being a little too full on. You've told her several times you want to be with her and she keeps giving you the same response? It might be best to leave it for a while as it doesn't sound as if you're really getting anywhere. You don't want to make a fool of yourself. Maybe you should lay off for a while and give her some space- the old playing hard to get thing works a lot better than people think! See how it goes! Good luck
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well sometimes people think how much they love someone and think they belong together but how do you no you belong together when you never actually been w/ her. it'll take some time ... just wait alittle while..
x3val
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Sounds like she doesn`t like you in the same way. just give it time.* if it`s truely meant to be. then she will be yours eventually. && if you think she is THE ONE.. then you`ll be willing to wait.
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if its meant to be..someeeehow you will end up together. Fate always works out ..i know how you feel though, you feel so strongly about someone and you just want to make them see...but you cant do that : make someone like you. im sorry and i know it sux..trust me though,if your meant to be together you wil get together.
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If your ment to be, she would like you. Im sorry she doesnt like you but thats just hoe it is. I like alot of boys and they hate me. I get over it. I think we would be the best couple but im not right. If your ment to be, she will tell you/
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sorry dude, but if she doesnt want to be with you, you arent meant to be. just wait it out and maybe something good will happen
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