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heyy whats uhp my names val and im 14 years old .. i live in a city and i go to high school.. ii love singing . dancing . and hanging out with my friends . im on the computer ALOT lol and i have a myspace too ... well thats all for now aim me : broken l heart X : or just catch me on myspace http://www.myspace.com/26981095





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okay ive been like hooking up with this guy he has a girlfriend and told me he was gonna break up with her because he wanted to be with me he doesnt call me anymore , we havent talked in 3 days and he is still going out with the girlfriend he told me he was breaking up with.
Is he losing interest in me? and what can i do to get it back? (link)
dont bother there has 2 be another boy that you like so go 4 him or have your friends set you up on a blind dat ecause no boy is worth fighting over......and if you cant live without him have a boy he is close with talk 2 him about it cause you dont want a pimp.......


Me and my b/f have been dating almost 3 months...I have NO clue what to get him for Christmas. I plan on talking to his mom about it eventually too, but he likes jazz and country music, we're both in band at school, and he's a big gamer. I don't have a whole lot of money, but any guys got any ideas or girls that have been in this position before...ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thx! (link)
well you should go 2 his family ask wjut he likes and then buy that or you could ask him 4 some ideas and pick the 1 you think is best after all you r a gurl and gurls have FABULOUS TASTE......LOL....or go 2 the mall and wait 4 him 2 see somethin and say oh'my'god! that is so cool......you chose whut ever you feel is right


k well.. ive been talking to this guy for almost 3 months.. and we never hung out once, and its just weird. and he would make excuses.. but he says its the truth, but idk.. and now he hasnt called me in 8 days, but hes IMed me online.. and he left this comment on myspace to this one girl saying that she and her friend should go over and theyd have a good time.. and he hasnt talked to her in like a couple weeks.. idk what to do is he using me for ass or what.. pleaseeeeeeee help!! (link)
well i kno how you feel but guys r soooooooo stupid when it comes 2 gurlz the only main thing they kno is the body parts..lol....but dont worrie eventualy he will realise hes being so stupid and feel like an ass so you should just take a day sit down with him and talk or see other people.........


Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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well sometimes people think how much they love someone and think they belong together but how do you no you belong together when you never actually been w/ her. it'll take some time ... just wait alittle while..

x3val


hey everyone. my formal is on FRIDAY and i have 3 really noticable pimples on my chin! im so freaking out so how how how can i get rid of them quickly?! everynight i use Stridex and i wash my face so any other ideas? pleaase help (link)
well you could try something new to use on your face like proactive,acnefree,or just some face wash soap bar ) they all work good ! you can also wear coverup on ur face if they DONT go away ! or you could always just pop them ! but i suggest you dont only b/c its gonna hurt ALOT haha! !

! HO-0PE ii HElPED
EHX OH EHX
-VAll


I cut myself and i want to stop!! How can i make myself stop??
Will rate (link)
awww... that horrible ! ! ! usually when people cut them selves is b/c ur depressed or yourr not expressing ur feelings enough .. has something happened recently that has gotten you really upset .. ? well if sooo then you can see somebody ( a doctor , your mom , or a close friend ) and they'll help youu out !!


! HO-0PE ii HElPED
EHX OH EHX
-VAll


Im 15 female
A lot of my friends like to drink and smoke pot. I don't like it. I had my fun with that already, I smoked pot when i was in 6th grade and stoped when i saw my brother get locked up for it. Yeah and i had my experience with alcohol i drank and i puked my guts up and now i wont ever drink again. well at least not til im old enough. But anyway my friends are always drink like on the weekends and they always ask me to go but i just go to my boyfriends house and hang out and what not. I always find my self thinking that im better than that and i don't want to ruin my life with that stuff.
Is this normal because i always thought that teenagers will like to drink and get in trouble and just do bad stuff just to make a laugh? Am i abnormal? (link)
not at all ! your doing the right thing ... if you dont want to do any of that stuff then thats finee! you can probably find other friends who dont want to do any of that stuff either !

! HO-0PE ii HElPED
EHX OH EHX
-VAll


ok, my period has been weird. i am 18 and these past 2 times it has been dark brown, spotty, and lasts only a few days. I know im not pregnant b/c im a virgin. What is going on? Also it has come unexpectadly both times...like early...like this tiem it was 2 weeks early and last time it was a week and a half early...what could be going on? (link)
U MiiGHt WANNA SEE A DO0CtO0R TO0 BEE SUURE UHR HEAlTHy .. SO0 tHAt tHiiS DSNt GEHT ANYY WORSE

! HO-0PE ii HElPED
EHX OH EHX
-VAll


I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!! (link)
WEll hE CO0UlDV'E MaDE A MiiStAKE OHN WAt HE WASZ sAYiiN ... liiKE HE MiiGHtV'E MEANt TO0 SAY "UR GRANDMA" OHR HE3 miGHtV'E WANtED tO0 SHO0W A WAii tHAt CARED ABO0Ut UU AND UHR GRANDMA CAUSE iiHtS FAMiilY TO0 UU

HOPE ii HELPEd!
x3val


my boyfriend asked me if he could touch me in 'places'. what exactly could that mean?
i'm 13/f in the 8th grade.. HELP (link)
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hO0PEE ii HElPED


ok ....so ill be like rubbing myself down there and ill get really really wet and then ill have to stop because its like i cant explain but it feels good but weird and then when i try to rub myself again i cant because it hurts i would have to wait for like 2 mins...is this an orgasam??if not then is it normal and what is it? (link)
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