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Ok I usedto have this girl and we were liike best friends since like 1st grade but not she hates my freeking guts and because now shes popular shes turned the whole skewl against me i feel like i cant even talk to any 1 !!! please help

Okay, This same thing happened to me last year and I thought the world was going to end because I had nobody to talk too. First of all I promise that the whole school isn't against you, it just seems like that now. Second, the only thing you can do right now is lay low, just focus on something else like homework for now, after awhile somebody will find a new victim and they will be distracted torturing them instead of you. The best thing to do now is just focus on something other than them..like maybe a school play or start a sport or horseback riding or anything..it will make you feel so0o much better! Oh, and forget your friend, she might be going through a horrible phase, but dont be quick to forgive her..if she does come back dont trust her rite away and become close again..you dont know if the same thing will happen again..I really hope it works out! If you ever need anymore advice you know where to come!

ps: email me soon and tell me how it works out!

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hey katey im 14 years old. i just got back from this away camp. while i was there i met this boy and we toatally hit it off. right from the time we met we flirted and hung out the whole week. when it was time to say goodbye it was so hard for the both of us. i talk to him online and the phone but its not the same. he lives 5 and a half hours away in virgina and i live in pennsylvania..we like eachother alot alot.how do we keep a great strong realationship if we never get to see eachother?

This is a really hard one. Honestly though I have been through tons of long distance relationships and they just end up making you feel bad. My advice would be to just try and get over him. Your going to start missing him and wishing he lived closer and your going to make yourself crazy. Just try really hard to meet other people that live near you, and tell him to do the same thing, its extremely hard to keep a good strong relationship online...

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ok so I just got my hair cut and I have bangs now. But I dont like how they look with all my hair down w/o anything else... it just looks boring ya know??? ok well I was thinking of buying a bunch of headbands but I know theyre expensive so I was wondering if anyone knew some tips on MAKING their own? Cuz thats what I'm doing today!!! plz help

I had the same problem, i tried headbands but i thought they looked really bad..so instead I got a bunch of really cute clips at the dollar store, not only did they get rid of my bangs, they were adorable! I would suggest looking at http://www.accessorybiz.com/shop/index.php? cPath=21 they have all kinds of hair things!
good luck!

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i've been friends with this girl since 6th grade. she used to live across the road from me, but then she moved away. Not far, only about 30 minutes. We used to talk on AIM but then we ran out of things to talk about. I mean, we don't have the same group of friends and we don't know who each of us is talking about. Now, I don't talk to her at all and I feel horrible. What am I supposed to do?? I want to be friends with her again but it's like we're complete strangers.

Losing a friend like that is hard on the both of you, you should invite her over one day...2 hang out..kinda like re-unite, this way you can update her on things that are going on and she can tell you about the new interesting people she has met!
-good luck!

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Do you know where I could get a Crocheted poncho. Like all the ones the celebs wear?

Ponchos are becoming the new thing, so soon they should be extremely easy to find. My advice would be to go to www.ardenb.com where I saw a bunch of adorable ponchos (for about $60). Or you can even learn to crochet yourself! Go to your grandma for tips or your local sewing shop and see if they give lessons! Think of all the possiblities! If both of these arent helping, try Ebay, just type in "ponchos" and they've got tons of awsome styles and colors! Good luck!

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Hey, I am constantly bullied in school by the popular girls, so one day one of the girls stole a bracelet my mom gave me for my birthday, i was so fed up that I punch her right in the nose, I got my bracelet back and ran, for the past couple of days I've been avoiding them, but I cant hide forever and they'll eventually find me, and then ill be in HUGE trouble. What can I do?

There is always safety in numbers, Whenever you see them near you start talking to a group of buddies and completely ignore them. Dont walk around your school alone. They might not even bother you anymore. After you punched that one girl that either told them that your tough and your done being messed with, our it just gave them another reason to pound you. But that is besides the point. The best thing to do is to stay with your friends until your sure theyre going to lay off.

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I can never concentrate in school or anywhere actually, everything distracts me and i can never stay on one subject very long, could I have ADD?

ADD or Attention Deficit Disorder can only be diagnosed by a qualified mental health professional who is knowledgeable about the disorder. But there are 3 questions you have to ask yourself before you get worried: Do you hate sitting still? Do you have trouble paying attention in school? Are you impulsive? If you answered yes to any of these questions there is a possibilty that you may have ADD. For more advice and ways to get help go to: http://www.add.org/..they have a link that has a bunch of ADD professionals near you and it can be very helpful. Good luck!

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