Last year I dyed my hair black and i've kept it black since then. I am now trying to get my hair back to a more natural color: dark brown-light brown. I tried Herbal Essences Dye.. It was called Iced Bronze or something like that.
It just dyed my roots brown and make the black in my hair a really odd color.
If anyone knows a good brand and/or color of dye that will completely cover black, let me know!!
Thanks a BUNCH!
if you wanna get it a light brown from black, pick a shade thats like light light light light brown cuz black is hard to mess with.
i dyed my hair black..and i couldnt get it back.
i put highlights into my hair instead.
but my black faded into dark brown after a month but it was still dark, than like 2 months after i dyed it black i put a bunch of blonde highlights in it for the summer time.
if your curious i used:
clairol-natural instincts:medium brown 20 HAZELNUT
than it fades in about a month, *&* it'll be like...dark brown-medium brown.
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Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f
p.s. i really really like him!
hMmMm...
listen here.
why would you like someone thats asking someone to do stuff behind your back? what if they actually have and you just dont know it yet?
it seems like your more in love with the competition instead of the guy. who seems like a little punk ass any way trying to play two girls at once.
now think of this...
whats more important
the guy OR your friendship with your BEST friend?
hmmmm?
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ok i liked this guy for the longest time i have 3 more days of school left after that i have no way of seeing him over the summer i dont want to directly ask him out or have a friend to i want him to come to me cause i dont want to get crushed if i do. we have one class together and our lockers are by eachother. we talk to eachother like once a month but on friday i gave him a sucker so those are the things that give us a little conection. how do i get him to like me?
ok i had this EXACT thing happen to me a few months ago. sometimes you gotta be immature.have your a friend get his cell number or give him yours and have him text you, i/m you, email you, or whatev. what i did was get my friend to get his number ...
do whatever.
but watch it little missy. you may not want what you know you can get in the end. thats what happen to me. lol...
until then-
strut your s h i t
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This may be long and I will try and not confuse you. My parent got a divorce like 2 years ago and are still going to court and everything for money cause my dad didnt pay for awhile ( he got caught up in drugs and had a lot of crack whores at his house, friend married one and also his friends son almost got shot cause a bunch of blacks *not offense but these people should be dead* wanted drug money or something) anyways i wanted them to get a divorce cause how i see it i dont have a dad. A dad isnt a person your scared when he comes home and u have packed extra clothes for when you get sick of it and run away again. *wow this sounds like a sob story* well we didnt talk for almost two years until i stupidly bought him and christmas gift and had a friend bring me over to his house he bought. He wanted me to blow off my friend and stay with him (he is an alcoholic and was on the verge of getting abusive again) so finally as politly as i could i told him that i already had plans and had to leave. we traded numbers (i hate being rude) and he called a few times i really didnt answere them. then after about 6 months he calls up to tell me he is dying 6 months to a year he has left to live. yeah i know i should be spending every moment with him. that night we went out i had an ok time he made me drive :( then while eating he tells me i need to lose about 20 pounds (im 145 but really athletic and used to be anorexic when i was little) did i also mention i start smoking ciggerates and cutting myself at 8 and drinking around 9. ive stop smoking i cant allow myself to be addicted to something and i dont drink as much. ok maybe i added stuff that dont belong but im trying to show what all im going through. Nows my question *finally* should i start talking to my dad again since he's dying but when we talk all i heard is whats your mother saying about me, why wont you come over im dying, let do this cause im dying. now i sound cold hearted. Any thoughts would really help im so freaking confused. sorry its so long.
ok i can feel ya, totally on this. but it's not my story i'm sharing here. this is about YOU. and thats what you need to realize. its not about your dad, its about you and your hapiness. if you have a gut feeling about your dad than dont go. spend a little time with him just so you dont regret it later, think about your feelings when you grow up, will you feel good about the time you spent with him? dont go any where privite with him where u might feel scared. have your mom drive you to a resturant meet him tehre than have a time for her to pick you up. keep your cell phone or something on you at all times to make you feel safer and like you have a back-up. when i was little, and i had this sort of problem, in my bag, i'd take something that made me feel safe, and warm and pack it in there and just reemember its with me to make me feel not so alone. if you have anymore questions. i'm here for you, message me anytime...
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well one of my really good friends has this notebook that she writes all her feelings in I guess its a way to get rid of her stress..but anywayz i read it last night and it talked about getting raped and why did it have to happen to her and stuff..well i asked her if it was true and she didn't answer me i kept asking her but she said she didn't want to talk she cuts and I can't get her to stop..how can I get her to open up so I can help her? i dont want her to hurt herself more than she already has! Plz help! Sincerely, *Concerned*
well obviously if she wrote about it.
face it... it's true.
get her help in a nice way.
dont go tattle to her parents right away.
smooth into things...make it calm.
write her a letter or something, showing your concerned.
she'll come around when she's ready for you.
dont bug into her space to much...it'll push you out of her space even faster than getting in.
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i sorta got into an accident with my garage so now theres a couple of dents in the side of the doors, and lots of paint all over it... does anybody know how to get these out?? thanks!
uhh i think nail polish remover does about anything. hah. sorry if it doesnt work.
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MY AUNT married this boys DAD so I guess you could say we are cousins? But not full blood? Well its the weirdest thing because I sorta do like him, and it's just a different feeling, and I know or like can tell that he sorta likes me too, but its sorta weird so we haven't said anything to each other, but does that make us cousins? If his dad married my aunt ??/ thanks!!!
ya you guys are kind of like cousins i guess, its not really bad or your fault to have feelings for him, but personally i think it'd be weird to make more out of it. just keep it cool and things will be okay
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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx
Keep it clean, your new in highschool. You could possiably get a bad rep...just watch what you do, and where your at. You don't want to get caught ether...
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how can you tell if you have a yeast infection and what do you do to treat it with out going to the doctors.. like what are the symptomns.. ill rate!!
theres alot of signs...it sounds sick but you have cottage cheese stuff come out your crotch and you have alot more discharge, and sometimes your pee can smell bad like it does when you have a bladder infection
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There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable.
hmm..hes trying to ether win u back, bcuz he hates this guy..or he still has feelings, or hes just a guy wants some..i dunno. tell him to back off, i dont think hanging out with him is a good idea anyways..
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i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?
wow 5 months and no kissing!? well i dunno, i havent ever had that problem. but if you guys talk online, ask him when u get ur kiss from him. or somethign around those lines, its shy to talk about i kno! but u'll eventully get ur kiss when the time is right!!!
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hey ya'll ..i just turned 15 and i was just wonderin..when does your chest usually become fully developed?..like i'm a 34B & iduno i think that's small..but i'm already 15..is that guna b my chest size? or am i yound enough that i'm still developing?..=/..thanx xOx
your boobs are fulla devoloped when your about 18, 19 years old, then they'll change again before and after pregancy also, or if you have weight gains.
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Okay, I have a problem with sweaty armpits. I'm sorry if this seems gross, but it's becoming a big issue. I always have to wear black shirts to hide it, but school is starting on Monday, and we have a uniform (a baby blue t-shirt) I don't want to wear a jacket, because I'll get really overheated! I even tried switching to men's deodorant and nothing changes! I'm really embarrassed about this... I don't know what else to do! Someone, please help me! Thanks sooo much, in advance!!
you've switched to mens deoderent but have you tried non presprint or whatever its called, i have a friend whos like that and shes fine she wears guy deoderent that makes it so u dont sweat, u just gotta read the dedorent, and she wears all kinds of bright shirts! its fine, and very comman.
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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx
* a curious george *
eh, this is your decision, 13 is a young age to have sex..you might end up regreting it later on. you should be able to be comphy doing other things with him before you make the move of having sex. its shows how ready you are going to be able to be. and if you do decide to have sex, be careful, and be smart.
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Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.
No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.
This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.
Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?
Thank you, in advance, for your help.
yeah, its totally normal for you to have tenderness on your boobs, it could be a sign of your period comming or that your boobs are growing, dont worry about it! its nothing bad :)
xo andrea
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how do i lose 20 pounds in 4 weeks??
you probably wont be able too but RUN RUN RUN! like 20 minutes STRAIGHT dont stop a day maybe even twice a day! work ur lil booty off!!!!
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i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.
ouch! sounds kinda playerish of this guy..talk to him about it online or one on one or on the phone or something. if u guys have known eachother that long it shouldnt be that hard to talk to him about it..tell ur friend u like him and she should push away his flirtyness and not let it continue. if he wants to just be friends then u might needa understand that also and think of it bein in his shoes, but if hes an ass and says he likes u but keeps up the flirting FORGET HIM! move on! hope whatever works out for the best!! :) xo andrea
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I am a 15 year old girl who is confused because my best friend today asked me if I would be mad if she went out with my x boyfriend i went out with all year. I'm not all that sure if I am over him completely i think i tiny part of me has feeling for him again not sure. I told my friend that would be really happy if she went out with him but yet im not. Can u give me some advice what to do?
sincerely,
BabieGurl33
whoa whoa whoa...tell ur friend to calm down!! she should understand if you still have feelings for someone you went out with all year..tell her that it would bother you if they were more than just friends and if she doesnt understand, shes not a true friend. theres plenty of other fish in the sea for her, she doesnt need to take a sloopy 2nd of her bestfriends!
xo andrea
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my mom and 2 brothers and 1 moved in with my grandma and aunt. they treat us like crap! my mom is so depressed i try to stop the fight i do but then 4 sec. laster my grandma will open her mouth again and its non stop fighting and i stick up 4 my mom and shes is always upset and it bothers me .. my life my mom and my 2 brothers life r not right here and were tryin our best to move but we cant yet cuz we dont have enough money.. but my mom is soo upset here.. im tried of all the fighting but i cant stop it my grandma thinks she does nothin worng and its all my mom and that also makes my mom upset.. what should i do to help? what should my mom do? and what can we do to stop the fighting? p/s we tell them to leave our stuff alone but they dont and thet ruein our clothes in the laundry cu the ammonia and we say were gonna wash our clothes but they wash ours neway... what can i do??
Ashley
13
female
aww hun, i'm sorry your in this situation. dont yell @ anyone though because its pointless and it isnt going to help in anyway to make things better. your grandma understood why your mom and you guys needed to move in there, she should understand how shes hurting your feelings. no matter how hard it is, you need to talk to her, and maybe your aunt too. catch them when there in a good mood, and ask if you can talk to them. i know this is harder than it sounds and a little on the cheesy side, but im sure it'll make things better. if it gets worse..ask for advice to me again because im sure the situation will change after you talk to them. give it a try, it wont hurt you!! xo andrea
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So my BF iz gunna b back from camp on Saturday cant fuckin wait!! but n e wayz when he gets back he iz gunna be comin to my house most likey and should i give him a "present" if u kno wat i mean not like do it or n e thing but like maybe suntin else?!?!?!?!?!
.*.>> Naughty Girl
i'd think so! show him how much your happy he's home!!! get him somethin he likes..like video game or whatever hes into..and im sure he wouldnt mind lots of hugs and kisses to show how much you missed him also hehe!
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