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a triangle situation
i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.
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you should ask him how he feels about your best friend, and if he doesnt really like her, GOOD FOR YOU!! as for your friend, you might need to rethink if your really friends or not.
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ouch! sounds kinda playerish of this guy..talk to him about it online or one on one or on the phone or something. if u guys have known eachother that long it shouldnt be that hard to talk to him about it..tell ur friend u like him and she should push away his flirtyness and not let it continue. if he wants to just be friends then u might needa understand that also and think of it bein in his shoes, but if hes an ass and says he likes u but keeps up the flirting FORGET HIM! move on! hope whatever works out for the best!! :) xo andrea
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yOu should try and talk to him bout wutz going on and share your feelingz with him..ask him hoo he really wants to be with...hoo he thinkz hed make it with?..tell him you really wanna continue you seeing him and u have strong feelingz for him..but it hurtz you wen ur own best friend flirtz with him and he actz like you and him had nothing...tell him u dont want to hurt nemore..and u need to sort this out with him b4 u get in too deep and get a broken heart..
AND also..id talk to your best friend bout how much he meenz to you...and that you were with him furrst and it iznt best friend material to steal a boyfriend from your OWN best friend:/
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Ask him his feelings and if he would rather be with you or your friend. Also tell your friend what you feel.
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It's rare if someone only feels for one person. How did you respond to him telling you? If you didn't tell him you liked him to, he definitely thinks you don't. How ever it ended, the point is it sounds like he thinks you don't like him. He brought up the fact that he likes you so he doesn't have to ask you out. He wants you to. He may be flirting with your flirtatious best friend to make you jealous, or he's already trying to get over you. You need to talk to him about how you feel, and do it soon.
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wow thass a tought position!..umm..well uRe fRiend doesnt even know you like him so0o u cant blame it on heR..its moRe on him..u need to talk to tha guy..and be like "du u love me oR not?"! and if he says yes then be like "doesnt look like it"!! and thass a wayy tu like staRt tha convo..and hope it all gets stR8en out! let me knoe how it tuRnz out!
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First of all, you NEED to talk to your "best friend". Once you tell her she should quit flirting with him all the time. I mean if she was a really good friend then she would stop. Then after you talk to your friend about it, talk to the guy. He needs to always know how you feel on things n you should have the right to know how he feels about things also, so then you won't get hurt all the time. COMMUNICATION is the BEST thing that relationships have:-D trust me;-)
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Id say dump the friend. Well i would only do that if shes done the same thing before. I mean please... thats low for a BEST FRIEND to do. And after he did what he did to you (which was TOTALLy romantic) lol i would say theres no way he could like her. You guys have history. Tell him how you feel and if nessicary dump the boy stealer. shes just jealous anyway.
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Talk to the guy and tell him that kiss was really something and se what he has to say it just bring it up when its just you 2 and not other people around-trix
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doesnt your best friend know you have feelings for him? if not: TELL HER! and if she truly is your best friend, she will back off. and also, talk to the guy. he couldve been being a player and leading you on or he could've been serious. if hes serious about ur bFF, then you have 2 back off. if hes not, move in!
hope this helps!
xoxo
ali
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dear triangle,
my best friend did the same thing last month. i just told her that i hated how she had hurt me and that i was really hurt so go tell your friend how you feel. she'll come around and to
humor yourself go slap the guy. lol
good luck. *~~~shana~~~*
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straight up ask him, ask him if he likes u or ure frend and if hes smart he'll say u and u two will be happyilly ever after lol but if he says ure frend u get to hav the fun of bitch smackin him and then workin ure hardest to steal him back hope i helped
**Ker~Bear
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Did he grab HER and kiss her like that? Probably not. Flirting means little compared to the things you two have shared together. The guy told you he loves you and he probably doesn't even realize what he is doing is hurting you. Sometimes people are overly flirty without realizing it and they can end up hurting people they care about unintentionally. Tell him you're confused because of what he said to you and then you see him flirting with your friend. Tell him it hurts you to watch. More then likely, he doesn't like your friend and is just one of those people who flirt or appear to be flirting without trying to.
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Aww thats cute until I read the rest then I felt so bad =( Guys just don't know how much they hurt girls! Errr. But, first I would talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel about this boy you have loved for a long time. She should understand and she should back off if she's your best friend. And then when you're done talking to your best friend, go and talk to that boy. And just tell him how you feel about him, say something like "We've known each other since we were 2 years old! And that one day when you grabbed me and kissed me and told me you loved me, I felt the same about you, but then the next day you forgot about it and flirted with my best friend, and that really hurt me, because I honestly really do love you. And I just want to know if you love me too." Just say something like that and tell him how you feel about him! Good luck and tell me how it goes. If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox!!
xoxo Kourtney
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well talk to him tell him how ur feelin, and tell ur best friend too and that u dont appreciate her flurting with him in front of u n that its really upsetting u, i hope i helped and i hope everything turns out ok!
XoXo- Shauna
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