Ask girdy_goo15!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About girdy_goo15



Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
*Z*

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

E-mail: muslimah4life1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: y'all know you ain't neva heard of it
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Yahoo: muslimah4life1
Member Since: July 20, 2004
Answers: 867
Last Update: January 3, 2007
Visitors: 44513

Main Categories:
Love Life
Random Weirdos
Spirituality
View All

Favorite Columnists
HollyAnn2282
xHeartxOfxGoldx
missmanda
AngelaMarie824
bad_gurl559
imatreasure
leticia45331
Kali7890
SWAN
PiMpIn_In_PiNk
more...

Advicenators.com



what does "(sp?)" means :S sorry i just don't seem to get it lol

i used to get confused about this too.lol
it means you don't know if the spelling is correct

[view]


There is this Jack Black movie where he is a wrestler in Mexico (I think). Can you tell me the name of it? He always seems to be in funny movies.

Thanks a lot! :D

it's nacho libre (i think that's how you spell it)

[view]


oh my god og my god oh my god please anyone help i cant even type my best girl friend just committed suicide last night, i'm freaking out. i just heard this morning, she lives two streets away from me, i'm 16/m. she's 15/f. wow i really dont know what to say shes my only friend that ever listened to me and actually cared and i feel like im one of the main reasons she killed herself. she had tons of problems, and lots were with ppl i talked to and stuff. i duno what to do, oh my freaking god. i cant believe this. please help i seriously think i was the main casue of her wanting to die

first of all, take a deep breath. Im really sorry to hear about your friend, but you can't blame yourself for her actions. no matter if you were crude to her, which im sure you weren't from the way you sound horrible bout what happened, she chose this. I don't know, she could have gotten help perhaps, but again this was solely her decision. It is NOT your fault. i know you are probably feeling like crap, you feel guilty, and you feel really depressed, but honestly the best thing you can do is try to carry on. Being depressed and stressed and removing yourself from your everyday life, won't solve anything, and it won't bring her back. My suggestion to you, is talk to someone you trust. Maybe your mum or father, or even a counselor or teacher, or even a friend. You need to talk about what you are feeling so it doesn't destroy you from the inside. and if there is anything i can do, please just let me know. im really sorry about what has happened. please take care,
*Z*

[view]


Well yea here is my problem, i have a boyfriend lets just call him henry, and we have been going out for almost 2 years and he is ready to settle down with me and have a family but and we have been promised to each other for a long time and he is ready to settle down but i am only 16 years old so wat do i do ?

Dear should i have a kid,
i honestly think you need to talk to henry about this. beacause sweetie, 16 is too young to start a family. if that is what you both want, then it is different. but once you start a family, it is with you for the rest of your life. everyday you have to take care of them, and don't always get the time you need for yourself. if you want to wait until you are sure that it's what you can handle then i say talk to him about it. if he truly cares for you, then he will understand and wait for you. i hope i helped some. take care.
*Z*

[view]


hi.i jus wana no what girls like about guys can girls please ask this question

well i don't know about all girls, but i will tell you what i like..
1. personality
2. sense of humor
3. they are shy, but not too shy
4. their eyes... it's always what attracts me to them physically
5. respect
6. open-minded
7. not soo macho that they act like the girl is below them
...hope this helps some:)
*Z*

[view]


Does anyone have any tips on how to stop cutting?

well it's hard to stop, because when you cut, it releases chemicals to relax you. but anywayz, try putting a rubberband on your wrists. you can get all different colors so it doesn't look odd. then everytime you feel the urge to cut or you start getting depressed, or are around the things that usually trigger your cutting,snap the rubber band until the urge passes. don't hurt yourself with the rubber band, but snap it enough so you get brought out of the trigger. hope this helps, and if there is anything else i can help you with, just let me know:)
*Z*

[view]


ok so my hair is straight like naturally and i jus got it layered, i love it but I CANT DO ANYTHING WITH IT!! i really hate putting my hair up so its been down and straight everyday at school ... && it gets boring, anyways uhmm does anyone have any advice on what to do with my hair????? please oh and if u suggest scrunching then i have to warn you that my hair WILL scrunch but it will NEVER LAST A WHOLE DAY OF SCHOOL, that's what i hate so much about my hair ... but i just wanna know any hair styles i could do with it. THANK YOU

well i have straight and layered also. try curling it. try flipping it out, where the ends come up, or try curling it under.. another cool thing to do with layered hair is do little spiral curls on the different layers. not all, just some here and there. also after you wash your hair try blow drying it but not all the way, leave a lil' still damp, then comb it so it looks kempt.. it provides a cool natural look. hope this helps some
*Z*

[view]


I've heard this like a thousand times and i feel like a total loser not knowin what it means when every one else seems to.

sol= shit out of luck

[view]


can you have sex durring your period?

you can..but it's not a terrific thing to do. if you are on your period, you are bleeding. if you have sex while you are bleeding, then blood gets everywhere. it's very gross. but some people like that, so it's all in your preference.
*Z*

[view]


I think I know what they mean....

What does it mean "i got fingered"
and "I got a blow job"

Thnx

if you got fingered it means someone stuck their fingers in your vagina. sometimes it's called finger fu**ing. if you got a blow job it means a guy got oral sex performed on him.

[view]


What does fingering mean?

fingering means when someone sticks their fingers in a females vagina.

[view]


can you have sex when youre pregnent?

yes you can but you have to be careful as not to hurt yourself and the baby. usually when you are in your 8th month you shouldn't have sex till you deliver. but just be sure to check with your doctor to see if you have any conditions that should restrict your sexual activity. sometimes when women are further along, they have sex on their sides. this is a more comfortable position for you and the baby. hope this helped some. take care
*Z*

[view]


ok so like i have been feeling dizzy and i dint get my period ever this late me and my bf been going out a year and i drank his cum and now i feel dizzy and i dont feel good he didnt stick his thing inside of me but im still scared i never felt this dizzy and i still dint get my period is there a possiblity that somehoh i could be pregnant and his thing was next to mine but no condom...and now im afraid it went in so am i pregnant?

okay well first of all, you aren't pregnant. so don't worry about that. a period can be late for many reasons i.e: change in diet, change in activity, weight gain/loss, if you have had harm done to your body for example a fall or hit. and also your body could be still getting used to your period. it's a big change and can have these complications for a few years at the most. your dizziness can be from the same things as i said about your period loss, also stress, not eating healthy... many reasons. if your dizziness continues then i would go to the doctor, you don't have to tell them about your relationship with your boyfriend, just that you are dizzy and don't know why. i hope i helped you a little. take care
*Z*

[view]


my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month.
he's 16, almost 17, and i'm 14, almost 15.
i'm afraid these things are just going to snowball into something bad.
he totally respects me and my decisions, but i didn't want to do anything past making out and it just happened and he fingered me.
i don't ever want to do oral, and he respects that, but all my friends tell me i'll give in and it's just something you end up wanting to do.
and i don't want to have sex until i'm married, because i don't want to get pregnant before then.
i'm just scared i won't have an self control.

advice?

okay i, first off, want to tell you how wise you are for your morals. nowadays you don't find many girls who actually have any. believe me it will be hard to keep your self control around him if you care deeply about him. there are ways you can minimize this for example: don't put yourself in a position where y'all can have sex. try to stay in public, or if you are alone make sure you are in a place where someone could just walk in. that worry can help you keep a lil' strength. and have the thought of maybe becomming pregnant in your mind at all times. i know it sounds harsh, but it has to be done. just remember to try and stay out of situations where y'all are tempted to have sex. i hope this helped you some. take care
*Z*

[view]


My period hasnt been on for two months. I have not had sex with a boy, never. what could be my problem. Please help

well if you haven't had your period for a few years, your body could still be getting used to it. i have had mine for 4 years or so and i still miss them sometimes. but besides that, if you have had harm done like a fall, punch, or if you are more active..etc. then it could just be your body saving you from some stress.. if you are still worried about it.. talk to your mum or see a doctor. but i am pretty sure you will be fine so take care.
*Z*

[view]


can you guys tell me if theres is anything i can do in order to make my bf like go crazy like and sexual games and stuff??

thanks i rate

okay this may seem mean to some guys...but teasing. i am not talking bout being mean or anythign but tease him a lil' don't just give him what he wants all at once. try massaging him.. touching, kissing, rubbing.. this doesn't all have to be in the private areas but anywhere. kissing him on the lips and moving over his body... there is so much. just be creative and let your emotions guide you.

[view]


what is 4/20...i keep seeing these surveys where they ask..."do you celebrate 4/20"? and i'm like what is that??

haha thanks

it's april 20th...national pot smoking day.

[view]


my best guy friend says that he wants to have sex with me before we graduate. we're sophmores. i dont mind because i care about him because he is one of my best friends but if i have sex with him will it ruin our friendship?

well it could.. it sometimes does. it just depends on how strong a relationship you have. in my opinion after y'all have sex, you won't be just friends anymore.

[view]



16 f. chicago, il
if i have sex with a 24 yr old male.. and im not unwilling either (i know. i'm horrible.)
what would the police do to him if neone found out?
thanks

he could get arrested for statutory rape

[view]


i was just wondering if when a guy fingers you is it supposed to hurt??? because my b/f has done it to me a couple times and it hurt. is it supposed to or was i not doing something rite like not spreading my legs out far enough or something?

it can hurt but after a couple of times it shouldn't. you need to spread your legs more to relax your muscles. and try and relax cuz the mucsels in your vagina can tense as well making it hurt.

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker