Name: Chris
Gender: Male
Height: 5'5''..or 5'6''
Hair: Black..sorta long..
Hobbies: Skating, playing guitar in my band, hanging out with my awesome girlfriend:-D jolinn.
Eyes: Brown
Hey, my name is Chris and i live in Arizona. I really like helping people because it just makes me feel good when i help people. I'm 14 and i'm going into highschool. I have experience with a lot of different things even though i'm so young. 14 isnt that young afterall but anyways, I hope i can help you in any way you need. And i'm taken by the most beautiful girl in the world lol haha and her name's jolinn:-D
**hey jolinn you're the best..i'll always love ya lol**
E-mail: whenSWANSattack@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Arizona
Occupation: highschool student
Age: 14
AIM: SecludedGift
Yahoo: whenSWANSattack
Member Since: June 18, 2004
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do? (link)
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sorry this took so long..my internet's been gay..allright this is a very tough situation..okay well all you need to do is tell yourself..who do you feel more comfortable with..and dont worry about what other people are gonna think of you..its your relationships and if you like the person then you like them and you cant change that..so this is completely youre decision..so good luck:)
-Chris
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I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
help please? (link)
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allright, this is definetly not something to worry about too much..a lot of people are shy..you just have to try your best to open up to people and not care what they think about you..just be yourself, and i am positive you will find that special someone:-D..good luck and dont worry too much about it k..hope i helped..bye bye
-ChRiS
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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well you obviously really like this guy and if you have that much trust in him and you are falling in love with him there's not much you can do to change that..you're dad is just gonna have to accept that. you cant be his little girl all his life you know..so try talking to your dad and tell him your feelings on it..ask him why he thinks so badly of your boyfriend..after all maybe daddy is just trying to look out for you..but let him know you trust this kid..allright well hope i helped!!! good luck. :-D
bye bye
-ChRiS
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Hey im 13.Well i need advice wit sumthin lol I have a best friend named Tiffany and shes not just like a regular friend were really close n fer me she stands out above the rest but now it seems like ive been loosin her as a friend we use to hang out like ever day now we dont even see eachother she never calls me anymore and when i talk to her about it..it seems like she doesnt even care she be like "o well ilu gurl dont worry" and when i use to talk to her about it b4 i thought we were goin our seprate ways she would always be like "OMG dont u EVER think that again"like she cared more n then we would go out sum where to talk more.But idk im scared im goin to loose her what should i do?
xOx'Christina (link)
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hey sorry this took so long but i know the sitution you're in. but friends do sometimes split apart...but if you truely dont want to give her up tell her how you feel and just pour your heart out to her. cause nothing can replace a real friend. so just tell her how you feel and try talking to her more and just hang out with her more if you can. just give it your best and then if the worst does happen you can say that you didnt give up. so good luck. the best of wishes to you. okay i hope i've helped. bye bye.
-ChRiS
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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well its a possiblity that he likes you and is thinking about you. you may have a chance if so. maybe it just took him a little bit to find out he likes you. or theres a chance he might be toying with you but you can never find out if you take a chance. there's a lot to look forward to in highschool..i'm going to highschool as well this year. okay well good luck and i'm sure you'll make the right choice..have fun in highshcool! okay bye bye
-ChRiS
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What do you find in a pretty girl? and
what do guys think is hot in girls? (well yes personality but be specific, certain traits and ways to dress) i dont mean to sound vain but i really want to know. i have been doubting my self latley, maybe its just the awkward age!! (link)
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okay well sorry this took so long..my internet's been acting up lately. Me personally love a girl that has a great personality and can just be herself around you. Guys also like a girl that is pretty good looking and takes care of herself. You just have to be really outgoing and willing to meet new people and just be yourself. A lot of people go through that age where they just dont think they look good or anything but its just a phase. I hope i helped:-D good luck with everything. okay bye bye.
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Okay im like 12 and i have this boyfriend that we'll call danny, i wanna kiss him so bad but i don't wanna make the move. I want him to. What should i do? I really love him!
-wanna kiss
p.s.
i rate real good! (link)
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well if you really dont want to make the first move then you should wait for him to but if you feel you have waited long enough then maybe you should go for it! cause if you love him enough maybe you'll be able to. but i know how you feel not wanting to make the first move and all. maybe he's shy and stuff you know. just give him some time. but you cant wait forever lol so take action if you have to. lol you say you're in love. being in love is the best thing lol so yeah. if you have to do it..kiss him and put all your emotion into the kiss and show him how much you love him. Good luck!!! okay have fun...bye bye:-D
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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =) (link)
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lay on your stomache it helps
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i luv my bf ALOT and hes really sweet...we havent been dateing that long but do ne 1 hav any ideas that i could d0 f0r him that would b sweet?? like idk we kant drive yet so we cant go no where real far but kan u gimmie sum ideas that will turn him on n make him happy? (link)
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Well bein a guy and all, I dont think you should have to do much to make him happy lol. Just be yourself and just be there for him and stuff..lol I'm sure he'll love it if you just spend like..a day with him and just spend the whole day with him or somthing. lol just be real flirty with him and stuff or something..i'm sure that'll turn him on and make him happy lol..okay well i hope i helped!! good luck!!!..okay bye bye
-Chris-
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I'm asking you this because you play guitar. I've been in voice lessons since i was six so that's been eight years, my band said that they need an extra guitarist and since i just sing and don't play an instrument, i can't afford to take guitar lessons. Do you know any way i can learn without getting lessons? Thnx tons
Lizzy (link)
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allright..well i learned all the basics without lessons..i kinda scrolled around through the internet looking for free guitar lessons. You'd be surprised at what you can learn online. and if you have any friends that play guitar that might be willing to teach you that would help too. you just have to put a lot of work to it. and if you're stuck, you could always save up and take the lessons but i learned for free what i would have had to pay to learn. and from there i just taught myself. if you have a good ear you could also learn songs by ear but thats not too common..thats what i do..lol okay well good luck with all of that..hope i helped..stay supportive to the music and dont let anyone tell you to quit..k well rock on!..lol bye bye
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hi it me Jenipher , well I have a problem I spent 2 days at my xbfs house with my friend Bethany. Well his Parents just keep wanting me and Dustin to well go back out...... I want to but I really dont know if he wants to , he said hed think about it.......... .,^^^^^ I really dont know. what should I do???? PLZ HELP Jenipher (link)
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well let him think about it. Once he comes to a decision then you should know what to do. But dont let his parntes pressure you into going back out with him. Only if you really like him then go back out with him. HOpe i helped you. Good luck. Bye bye
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Hey I really love to rollerblade, and I have trouble doing a glide down the rail... can u give me advice on how to do that??? Oh andI really dont know any one on here so can we become friends??? my names Jenipher and Im 15 (link)
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oh..i'm not the best roller blader..i dont remember the last time i did lol..i'm more into skateboarding..but um..i'm guessing to do a glide..or..grind down the rail..just jump onto it and dont be scared..keep your balance well. (if its your first time you should probably wear pads just in case) and make sure that rail is waxed and you should get it eventually. But i'm not an expert so i may be wrong lol..allright well i hope i helped..now go out there and have fun haha okay lol bye bye
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hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever (link)
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well if you two were going out and he got a new girlfriend..i would say break up with him and dont think twice about it. If he found a new girlfriend without thinking of your feelings he may be a dick. But tell him how you feel and tell him you just cant go out with him anymore, but you still want to be friends with him. well good luck with all that. bye bye
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I'm 13 and i'm dating a 17 year old...is that ok.?..but we're in love and he dosent ask me fo sex and treats me great...so why do my friends hate him and are mad at me fo me to hang out in public with him???? are they jealous or are they juss lookin out fo me????
signed, young love
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well you're friends are probably just worried and are looking out for you because you're going out with someone who's that much older than you. They probably are just scared that he might do something..you know. but if you really are in love with him like you say..then i guess..go for it, but if its not worth losing your friends..then i wouldnt. Well good luck. hope i helped. bye bye
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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
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lol well if you like her and you think she likes you then you should ask her out..get to know her more if you dont already..and just get really close with her and then pop the question..its no big deal really..if she turns you down then its no biggie..it'll just give you more experience down the road..so good luck
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Hi my names Jenipher and I just turned 15, but I have problems with my ex, he just dosent want to leave me alone , when I go around him I feel lost for some reason,.. it feels like I dont have a friend in the world , and he keeps teaseing me about it!!!.... when I go to my room to play my ELC Guitar , he just keeps calling me ,,, what do I do???
Jenipher PLZ help WWB (link)
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well the reason you feel lost is probably because you might miss him..but if he's teasing you about that you should probably tell him that its not helping things at all..and tell him to stop calling you..you should be able to have your private time without him always calling. But if you feel lost and stuff maybe its because you still like him or something..but because he's teasing you and stuff..maybe you just need to find someone new..i dono..allright well i hope i helped you..allright bye bye
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What do guys like to get for presents. i need to get my boyfriend of one month a gift verry soon but ive got no ideas and ive even asked him but he says he doesnt know. Any ideas?
Also are guys shy about calling girls cause im worried my boyfriend isnt that commited because he wont return my calls when he says he'll call me back. (link)
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ok maybe your boyfriend is just shy..and gets choked up will talking to pretty ladies...but for the whole present thing...you could maybe take him out somewhere...or just some how show that you really care for him...for instancce on my moms birthday she'd rather me do something specail or make something, not go out and buy something...well thats about all that i can think of right now...hope i helped...bye bye
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i want to get a gutar, but i dont no what to get? i dont want it to hurt my fingers but i want to rock!
what should i get? (link)
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well if you're first starting..get a cheap guitar..because people go through fasis and all of a sudden want to play the guitar cause they think it looks cool..but yeah..still get a cheap guitar so that you can learn and if you dont like it..it wont be as much as a waste..and eventually if you get better you can probably get a better guitar in the future..and you're never going to rock if you dont suffer the pain of your fingers hurting..its part of playing the guitar! NO PAIN NO GAIN!!! haha okay well i hope i helped..good luck and remember to have fun with it..okay bye bye:-D
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hey Chris..i have a question..which is better to clean my clothes with? Tide or Oxiclean? thanks!
-Shannon :) (link)
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i'd say tide..cause i've used that since as long as i can remember...i think Oxiclean is a load of horse sh*t...lol thats my advice..okay well i hope i helped...bye bye
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there is this boy that loves me but I don't love him and he keeps begging me to go out with him
what should I do?
Love
summer (link)
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tell him you're not into him that way and that you just dont want to go out with him...and if he keeps bugging you tell him you'll get me and i'll beat the sh*t out of him..hahaha jk..okay well i hope i helped:-D good luck!!! bye bye
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