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Hi everyone! I've been through a lot of fights and troubles and I am willing to help anyone who needs it!
Gender: Female
Location: AZ
Age: 13
Member Since: June 18, 2004
Answers: 20
Last Update: June 23, 2004
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well everyday or so i go to my bestfriends house an theres always her guy neighbors over therre an there is this one that i really like! his name is jay an hes just a year older than me an he is always grabbin on my ass an saying funny stuff to me... like to day he wuz like "miss do u know were anyone can gimmi a lap dance?? do u by any chance?" i think he was kidding but like ive only known him for like a month or so an i REALLY REALLY like him an all my other friends ask like "do you like michelle" an he "smiles" den my friends ask like "would u go out with michelle?" an jay goes "only if she would go out with me" I DUNNO IF I LIKE HIM OR IF I SHOULD MAKE A MOVE OR WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN I REALLY NEED HELP IM REALLY CONFUSED!! plz answer asap i gota go soon an im going to my friends (yes that friend) house tommorrow!!! xoo michelle
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well i mean if u really like this guy u should get to kno him better then try and see if it works out


Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions?? (link)
well ask him about it if u 2 have been going out for a while and if he truly loves u he shouldnt be cheating on u but i would ask him b4 jumpin to conclusions


hi, my best friend wants to be a singer when she grows up and lately all she's been doing is singing and its driving me crazy the other day i told her to stop singing and she said so make me. i told her its driving me crazy she just said to bad what do i *Do do not rate this question!!!* (link)
ok well tell ur that u support her singing but u just gotta tell her that it annoys u and ask her nicely if she can stop


Okay so I like this guy and he used to be my b/f but now we're just friends. We went out for almost a year and I still like and I think he still likes me. I want to go out with him again what should I do? (link)
well if u think he likes u then u should ask him if u two could go back out


ok... i like this boy and i think e likes me. sometimes we make like 1 second eye contact or like when we pass by eachother, i can feel a vibe. i gave my friend this note 2 give 2 him and he looked freaked out. so he asked me 2 days later if i wrote it, and i told him no because i guess he didn't like me. ever since said no, he started to bother me again like teasing me and stuff. school ends the 25 and i want 2 know if he likes me or not! plz help!!!!! (link)
hmm well it seems to me like this guy may like u...u should tell him that u wrote it because u never kno if he likes u...u gotta take risks bcuz that will lead to good things


well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him (link)
well im having the same problem! just member all of the good times u had with ur friend but simply tell him that u wanna be friends and u love him so much u dont ever want to lose him bcuz i kno how this can happen but u need to tell him how u feel....good luck tell me what happens


Hello I am 40 years old and I'm happily married. I have a wonderful husband that I will always love. It's just that sometimes I don't feel all that happy. Can you help me feel better? Is it my self-esteem? (link)
Well are you having troubles at work or is something going on in your life? It sounds like you have a good life and you should enjoy it. But if you have low self esteem then u just gotta believe in urself!


One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything? (link)
ok well u just gotta tell him to stop and say, plz stop because its really buggin me and if ur a true friend ull stop please, and he should respect that


lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do? (link)
Ok well I know going thru friend troubles isn't easy. But you need to see a doctor, fast. Not eating is so unhealthy and if you lose too much weight you can die. Please get to a doctor immediately, because this can result to awful things.


i have a pretty good life how come i am not happy (link)
Well why arent you happy? If you have a good life theres no reason why you shouldnt be. Is there family or friends problems? No ones life is perfect, but if you have a good one you should be pretty happy.


okay.. i have been wondering about this.. do you have to shave {down there}? do guys prefer? which is most common? sorry im very curious! lol (link)
Ok well I suggest you don't. Try asking your doctor about what they think. Hairs are sensitive down there from what I've heard so my opinion is no you probably dont have to.


well the past 3 years me and my ex have been talkin every single day on da phone.. he calls me everyday and he is so sweet to me and so am i but we havent seen each other for 3 years never.......i kno its weird but i kinda liked da way he waz with me and how he called me everyday anywayz today i went to see him and omg i think i like him alottttttttttttttttttt......but i dont know what to do he called me today and we were talking about each other and eerything please help me i like him alot (link)
Well if you like him so much, ask him what he thinks of you! Go for it! If he likes you back, you could have a great relationship! Hope I helped!


i really want to go to canada. i want to just drop everything and go there. live my life in a cabin in the middle of the wilderness on a small lake and use a busch plane to get to town when i need to. i could drop eveything in my life and go and not have any regrets. except one. i have a girlfriend and i LOVE her a lot. i really do. im 16 and i could leave both my parents and everything else with out regrets except her. i feel like i have found true love. but on the other hand i feel like im 16 and dont know shit about love and live. i dont care how old you are, i just want to know what you think of my situation. (link)
Well I know what you mean in a way. I am going to Canada next month and I love it there! But maybe you could ask your parents about moving there. But it would not be right to run away and go there. But when you get older you can move there and have a nice cabin in the wilderness ;)


How do you loose weight the easy way??? Im confused i have been going to a gym regually and still i haven't seen no change in my weight. Im annoyed and im starting to want to give up but i really want to loose weight. Is there any other ways of loosing weight faster??

Luv Shelly (link)
Well if you aren't gettin results by the gym, maybe you're eating too much fatty foods. You should probably watch what you eat and that will help tons!


well i was in gym one time and i fell off of the rope i was climbing. i hurt my arm really bad and my gym teacher told me to stretch it out. he didnt let me go to a nurse. when i got home i went to the emergency room because it hurt really bad. they x rayed it and turns out i fractured it. what should i do about my teacher? (link)
That is horrible! You should tell the principal about your teacher because that just isn't right.


i constantly feel like im fat i weigh 108 im 5'4 and 13 i want to slim up my abs thighs and i think they call them love-handles i want those gone but i want them gone fast! can you help me please? (link)
Believe me you are not fat. You are a good weight and you should be proud. Well if you truly feel like you're fat you might want to go to a doctor. But trust me, you aren't fat.


i'm 15, and ever since 420 i started smoking weed. i want to stop but it seems like eveyrtime i try to more coms around and i'm like no i'l stop but i odnt. i do want to thouhg but idk what todo.. i really like it (link)
This is hard for anyone to go through. Just tell yourself how bad this is to your health. If you want a good future, you don't want to be smoking weed. Everytime you're tempted to have it, just remind yourself of its dangers. If you're hanging out with the wrong people you might consider other friends.


i love my best friend she is so awesome but i guess lately ive been succeding in a lot of things and shes always telling me how much better i am at things than she is and i think shes kinda getting upset about it. i try to reassure that w/e she does is awesome cause it is but i guess it just really gets her down when i am "better" at something... what should i do?? (link)
Ok first of all, it sounds like your friend is just wanting attention from you. Besides, everyone is good at something special and she shouldn't be making you feel bad because of that. Just tell her she can find something that she's good and she will succedd. Hope I helped.


i need help because i am so ready to begin a serouse relationship but my mom thinks im to young! im ready to kiss a guy or make out but im scared my mom will find out! hat do i do! (link)
Well the thing is that most parents have trouble with their kids in a relationship. But you simply have to tell them that you think you're ready and you want them to respect that. See what they say! Good luck!




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