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i need help because i am so ready to begin a serouse relationship but my mom thinks im to young! im ready to kiss a guy or make out but im scared my mom will find out! hat do i do!
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If your mom is still weary of you being in a relationship then yes you ARE too young, that is, unless you're 15 or older.. then you have an over-protective parent.
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How old are you?
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well it depends how old r u ?
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Well first off all mostly all mothers are like that...she just wants u to be careful....but if u begin a good relation ship then i think u should go on a head and kiss the guy and even if u are this serious.....then u need to go over to his house and just try to have sex......i an pretty sure if no one sees u two doing it then u dont have to worry about anybody or your mom finding out.
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Just to let you know there is a big difference between a serious relationship and having a boyfirend to kiss and hug. In high school, or even middle school(which I am guessing you are in) there are few if any serious relationships. There is much much more to a relationship than making out. If your mom doesn't think you are ready, you probably aren't. Don't be so anxious to be kissed, you need to find the right guy first anyway.
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It all depends on how old you are and how good you carry yourself. And if when you say no you mean it and you can show guys that. But if you can do that then write me back and ill tell you more on that. Hope iv helped a little.
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Short N Punky
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try talking to your mom tell her you know she just wants the best for you but your not a little gurl and that if she loves you she should be able 2 trust you
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Hey-- i have been in your position before and i am sure a lot of young girls have. Think to yourself though if deep down inside if you are really ready to begin a serious relationship. Just because other people at school are, or even your friends doesn't mean you have to. But if you think you are ready, then i wish you the best of luck! I didn't tell my mom when i kissed a guy/ or made-out until a lil bit later. Because i wasn't comfortable to tell her. Tell your mom when you are ready & comfortable. i really hope i helped! please keep me informed with your love life and tell me how things go with your serious relationship! if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!
xox tay
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Well, first of all having a serious relationship means more than just kissing and making out. You need to understand that first and foremost. Usually moms know best, so she may be right, but if you REALLY think she's just saying that because she's scared of losing you because she knows your growing up..then I suggest you have a mature-sit-down talk with her about how she's raised you well and because of y'alls relationship you're ready for one with a boy! :)
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Well the thing is that most parents have trouble with their kids in a relationship. But you simply have to tell them that you think you're ready and you want them to respect that. See what they say! Good luck!
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ok well all parents are gonnna think there kid isn't ready for a serious relationship and it also really depends on ur age and how comfortable u are with all that and i can handle all the drama in a serious relationship. and about all the kissing and stuff i didnt' even tell my mom when i did eventually i did but it took me a lil bit jus b/c i wasn't comfortable with tellin her. i mean its ur preference whether to tell her or not but i mean eventually a mom should know when there daughter had her first kiss. Also i think u should try talkin to her and tell her how u stand if u havent already doesn't hurt to try. And also dont be in such a rush to grow up, u know, take things slow u have ur whole life ahead of u. i know everyone sayd that and it can sound kinda lame lol but it is true! well hun i hope everything work out for u and some of this has helped u! *kisses* Ash
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if this is what you want to do, don't let your mum get in the way. don't tell her, and don't do it at home.
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ok first of all parents always tell their kids they arent ready.. im 16 and my parents still tell me that a serious relationship isnt gonna happen at this age.. but if you feel ready then go for it.. if your mom finds out just be like mom im ready i know what im doing dont get loud with her tho and if she grounds you she grounds you...but dont rush into anything.. just remember you have your whole life ahead of you!
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well hun it depends on ur age... im 14 n i told my mom i was ready n she freaked out n told me i wasnt able to until i was 16 at least... i went behind her back n had a couple of b/fs n i know she knew but she never really told me anything.... but its a bad idea cuz now she dont even trust me no more... but i think u should talk to her n telll completely how u feel! good luk n tell me how it turns out.. goped i helped *ANABEL*
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If you are to afraid your mom will find out and be mad, your not ready. Take it slow!
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