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hey i really like this guy and lke he has this g/f but he tells other people he likes me....i just dont understand....what should i do? (link)
hey... well i think dat u should just straight up talk to him and ask him wats going on. If he has a girl but tells ppl he likes u i think dats wrong if he likes u he should just dump da girl. and i thikn u should tell him u like him too and ask him if he does like u or not. i mean maybe he does like u but just doenst know how to dumb his girlfriend. well hope i helped. bye


im embarassed, all of my friends have had sex, and i don't wanna have sex yet, but when im older i think its gunna sound stupid. and their gunna ask me if im still a virgin and ill say yes. its jus weird. (link)
u dont have to have sex just bcuz every1 else is!!!!!!!!!! u should be proud dat ur a virgin. im not a virgin n now i regret dat!!!!i wish i could go back n get it back!!!!! now days there are alot of ppl dat arent virgins n alot of em do regret losing it at a young age!!! i think u should wait n be a virgin until u have found dat right person cuz dat will make it so much better for u.... ***ANABEL***


My bf and i are 16 and his penis is about 5.5 inches long is that the average? Im not sure he's a bit insecure about it i don't want him to feel bad. (link)
well im not sure if its average...but its not bad n he shouldnt feel intimidated. well me i have seen sum that range from 5 to 7.5 inches but they r all 14 or 15 yrs old...i think u should tell him that that u dont care bout the size or sumthing he shouldnt feel insecure but yes it migh be average but im not 100% sure... i read the the average pnis range from 5 to 8inches... hoped i helped....tell me wut u think..


I want to get a cellphone but my parents wont let me!..Um..What kind of cellphone do you have? And how many minutes do you have each month? And if someone calls u how long do you talk? (link)
hey omg i had the same problem n i convinced my parents like this.... i have a Sony Ericsson n my lil brother (whos is 9 n itotally dont think he needs one) has a flip phone... well theres this plan on with cingular wireless that u can add lines for only 9.99 n ok even though i share minutes with my bro is worth it cuz he doesnt even call neone... so maybe u can tell ur parents that... im not sure that hellped though... i have free nights n weekends n i talk free with who ever is on cingular (in-plan)so most of my friends have that soo its cool for me!!! n the phone is cute i have a baby-blue one in it ROX


ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
me honestly i dont judge cuz i was the same way... ur not a SLUT but u need to be careful.... theres alot of diseases going around hun. just becareful n use a condom ALWAYS!!! just watch out who u do stuff with n always makesure to protect urself... hoped i helped *ANABEL*


My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (link)
well if u really want to have sex with him... try birth contrl n make sure he wears a condom... there alot of ways to prevent pregnacies but of course non 100% safe... i know not to much help but i tried... let me know how it turns out


Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions?? (link)
well most guys r like that... they r always checking the girlz out n talking to u bout them or sumting like that... thats good u trust him but maybe u should talk to him bout it.... let me know how it turns out hun.... *ANABEL*


i need help because i am so ready to begin a serouse relationship but my mom thinks im to young! im ready to kiss a guy or make out but im scared my mom will find out! hat do i do! (link)
well hun it depends on ur age... im 14 n i told my mom i was ready n she freaked out n told me i wasnt able to until i was 16 at least... i went behind her back n had a couple of b/fs n i know she knew but she never really told me anything.... but its a bad idea cuz now she dont even trust me no more... but i think u should talk to her n telll completely how u feel! good luk n tell me how it turns out.. goped i helped *ANABEL*


i'm 15, and ever since 420 i started smoking weed. i want to stop but it seems like eveyrtime i try to more coms around and i'm like no i'l stop but i odnt. i do want to thouhg but idk what todo.. i really like it (link)
i have alot of friends who r hooked on weed!! trust me u cant stop all of the sudden! but u have to keep in mind that all of this is just hirting u n the ppl that care bout u! umm weed makes u feel happy n well me i dont stop laughing! when im with the ppl that smokes i do it to sumtimes so i know my "friends" have alot of influence on me (n maybe u to). so ask urself this... "Do i wanna quit?"... "Is what im getting high worth me hurting my health?" and if u have younger sisters or brothers u have to take into consideration that they always follow the older sisters foot steps. (i told my lil brother that if i ever caough him smiking i would slap da S*** outta him n he told this, "why cant i smoke if u do it n then i can do it n my mom knows n she lets u so i can do it" honestly that made me change everything n i dont smoke weed (well only at parties or 420 or u know)
hoped i helped let me knoe how it turns out ***ANABEL***


i was the girl who was wondering how much i should do with my bf who we have dated for 5 months. well he's 16 i'm 14 our bdays are both in aug. hope that helped and help me (link)
well ummm ok...
dont rush into it(sex) make-sure ur ready for it... n make sure u use protection!! for me honestly if i was dating sum1 for 5moths i would have sex with him just bcuz of how much care n love i would have for him! i honestly think that u maybe having sex with him on his b-day would be a good bday present... but make sure u r ready hun n dont just do it bcuz everyone else is. 14 is a common age for us to be having sex (i lost mine when i was 14 back in feb, im turning 15 sept. 12) so yeah... i really hoped i helped n plz tell me how it works out.... *ANABEL*

but if u dont wanna have sex but wannna pleasure him u can always give him a handjob or a blowjob!


ok how do u play hard to get? i want to learn how to play hard to get .. im a girl 14 help! (link)
OK WELL...its like when a boy keeps flirting with u flirt back but let him nonw he cant get u! i dunno how to explain it its very fun to do... but just act like if all those guys arent good enough 4 u.... hoped i helped *ANABEL*


how can i hide a hickey? (link)
cover up
or try taking it off by:
1. putting a frozen spoon over it
2. take a chap-stik cap n scratch over it
those should work...thye did for me
bye anabel


i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
y da fuck would u have sex with ur dad???


ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (link)
it all depends i think ur boy sounds very nice n its great he can wait... but if u wanna have sex with him go ahed if u really tink hes da 1 (u dont wanna do the same mistake i did, i lost it to sumone i oved n cared for but he just lied bout feeling the same way towards me) REMEMBER USE PROTECTION!!!but i think if u like him alot u should do it but wutever ur comfy with! remember that


im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
ok im 14 n i know its kinda wrong but ok the first time it hurts not extremely bad but it does... n then u bleed afterwards!!! it really sux (that the only part) but then once ur first is done n u do it again it feels goo a lil painful but nothing much...its great
hoped i helped ANABEL


i've bene really close to having sex with my boyfriend but we havent.. i heard that if u wear tampons it doesnt hurt too much. well. i'm still a virgin. of course but how is it and how does it feel? will it hurt really bad? (link)
ok this might sound bad but im 14 n i lost mine in february with the wrong guy by the way! :( but ok the first time it hurts not like "ima die" pain but it just hurts! umm i did use tampons b4 but it still hurt. actually after u lose it n ur done u star bleeding from down there like if u got ur period or sumthing. to tell u the truth the pain on the first isnt horrible but the second time boy its good...
hoped i helped luv anabel anymore questions holla!


how old were u when ur got ur belly button pierced..? (link)
im getting mine done next month... im 14 but i gitta get my tummy hard so i can feel comfy showing it off! n i convinced my dad to let mye get my tongue pierced too!!! well all my guys friends told me that would rox when i told them! so yeah!! love u anabel


My best friend smokes pot. She used to do it only once a month, but she has done it 2 times this week. It's because she has started to hang out with the potheads at school. Please don't tell me to tell an adult. I know she would never talk to me again. What can I say that will convince her not to smoke so often? I tried to tell her about the consequences, but she wouldn't listen. (link)
ok my best guy friend smokes weed too! it bothered me but i couldnt do nething about it well until he started asking me for money! i have to admitt ive tried twice n i dont c wut the big amusment is! it just makes u act n look stupid... plus u end up hurting other ppl than ur self. does ur friend have unger sibs? u should tell her that maybe in the long run they will end up doing the same thing... i always tell my friend that whens he high hes stupid, immature n a dumbass! ask her wut the big deal of getting high is n defenetly tell her how its ruining her life... umm i also tried to tell my friends that if they dont stop being pothead ima stop being with them... (most of them r very close too me so they pull it down a notch)
hoped i helped... ANABEL


advucenators suck dick. i see all these fags in here. like this one guy said he was sucking his bro's dick is that normal it isn't. all you people are pothetic

if u got any comments press answer the question and put your comments down fuckin fags (link)
first of all ur the fag,fag!! second of all just bcuz u think u dont got problems dont mean other ppl dont. i know that duisgusting n everything but u sont have to be mean... n plus u calling us pothetic ur the one who actully signed in to this so ur considered that too!!! lastly who do u think u r to b judging ppl u dont fucking know? do u know me? i dont think soo! n u know wut next time check wut u write b4 submitting it u make no sence u dumbass! WTF is up wit u? u dont gots to bring ppl down just so it'll boost ur self esteem up! laterz ANABEL


my mom never spends time with me i ask every day to but she always says she's to busy but she's not i have talded to her before but she just said so what do i do (link)
write a note to ur mom telling ur mom exactly how u feel.... about how u think shes neglecting u... if that doesnt helped just tell her straight up how u feel one day n make sure shes not busy when u do... plan a date for u n her n tell her its very important u need to talk to her...
hoped i helped ANABEL




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