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Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions??
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well ask him about it if u 2 have been going out for a while and if he truly loves u he shouldnt be cheating on u but i would ask him b4 jumpin to conclusions
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Well, if you love him and you really want to make things work..the first thing you need to do is communicate. You need to tell him exactly how you are feeling. And tell him just what you posted..that you don't trust him and it hurts you that he talks about other girls and ETC. If he truly and sincerely cares for you and loves you, he will immediately make some changes in his behavoir. If he doesn't, you need to drop him..because if you don't that's just going to tell him that how he is acting is okay and you'll let him treat you like a dog. Don't ever let any guy think that. Stand up for yourself. I know it's hard cause you love him..but if you love YOURSELF you'll take a stand! :)
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its nice to just ask him straight out if he is or not and tell him exactly how you feel. sometimes its the best way to go. and don't let your love for him blind you. make sure you truely think hes cheating on you. and try to gain some trust for him once you know hes NOT cheating on you. trust is really important in a relationship. without it your paronoid and it ruins things. hope i helped!
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well most guys r like that... they r always checking the girlz out n talking to u bout them or sumting like that... thats good u trust him but maybe u should talk to him bout it.... let me know how it turns out hun.... *ANABEL*
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ok it sounds like you love him alot..but then again you need to bring the problem out in the open and talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel. Maybe he will understand and stop doing it.
-Haleigh
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Ok, maybe you can ask him nicely if he could stop because it hurts you....but if he keeps on doing it..then tell him straight up "you have to stop talking about other gurls..and if you don't care, i care if it means anything to you!"
-Princesa Tuya-
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Awww, sounds like you do love him to death! My suggestion to you would be to talk to him about this, tell him what you told me. Trust is such an importance to relationships and I can't stress that enough! Let's hope that Damion truthfully states why it is that he likes talking to girls and trying to make you jealous. Guys are very hard to understand!! They obviously think different than us and they are just so unsure of what they do sometimes. So maybe he doesn't even realize he's doing this to you! Hunnie, let him know what's on your mind! If he is cheating on you, maybe it's time to find a new guy. As much as you hate to do it, if he is cheating on you don't let him do that to you! He is only yours and no one elses. No sharing! Haha. If you have siblings you probably know what it's like to always want something or someone who is JUST YOURS. Relationships are like that, you get that chance to have someone all to yourself! And if he decided to cheat on you, obviously he didn't give all his love to you, therefore he's not the kind of person you want to be involved with! Good luck, hope everythings okay! Never stand for any guy doing that to you! Love ya -Mandee
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You should certainly talk to him! I grew up very close to my sister who was cheated on for 10 years and never did anything about it. Chances are if he is talking to girls in front of you he isn't cheating but there is still a chance. Talk to him before things go too far and you worry about it too much. Good luck!
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You need to talk to him about how u feel. if u ask him if hes cheating he'll defenitly deny it so u mite never find out if hes cheating on u but u need to tell him that it bothers u that he talks about other girls in front of u. if he really likes u he'll understand ur feelings. if he doesn't stop he's really not worth the time if he cant respect ur wishes. just talk things out and c where u both think the relationship is headed.
....OG....
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