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How can you tell the difference between normal discharge and a yeast infection?
well a yeast infection is when u really burn down there. its not comfortable at all as u probably kno. um i think when u have a yeast infection ur discharge is yellow-ish. yup but drink cranberry juice and eat yogurt if u have one. they help kinda.
Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
depends. i could mean u r gettin together to have sex or that u r just gonna go out. but to me its used mostly to mean ur gonna screw. lol
ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help
he wnts u to drop a sport for him? i dont c y u cant just play and be with him. wut a wierdo. if he really wants u to drop softball i say drop him cus that is really stupid.
I want more info! I dont want to lose 100 lbs, but 20-30! I saw that you said your dad lost 100 by doing six small meals..like can u explain it more in detail and ask ur dad 4 tips, thanks and i rate!
it wasnt just eating 6 meals a day. he had to excersize also because he was basically getting ready to die from a heart attack or sumthin. wut u do is start off in the mornin with like a bowl of fruit or cereal, w/e just sumthing to fill u for a lil while. then u eat like 3-4 hours later and make sure your eating healthy foods. u can snack on chips if you want but dont just eat a bunch of junk food. but basically he eats every 3-4 hours, just small meals to fill him up and it raised his metabolism. he also excersizes and stuff to speed his metabolism and get fit. he runs and does sit ups. its not much but it worked for him so i guess it could work for anyone! lol.
Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable ..
i have the same problem! i try to avoid him and stuff. i told my mom and shes like we just have a very touchy feely family. it is so wrong wut he does and if u feel uncomfortable and ur mom wont do anything u just keep saying sumthing till sum1 does say sumthin. even if it means the police or sumthin. cus its really gross...i totally feel ur pain.
if anyone cuts and they want to stop i would be happy to help you if you want. i used to cut myself and i havent done it in a while. i can explain to you why you do it if you dont already know(like why it makes you feel better). but if you want you can im me at blinkbabe2469. or my advice column is xForeverxForgottenx if you want to do it that way. but if you want help or you're depressed then i'll listen if you need someone. i know what it feels like to be alone...or atleast feel alone.
i dont kno y ppl ho cut think ppl who dont dont understand. just cus we dont cut that doesnt mean we dont kno wut its like to feel alone or want to hurt ourselves. im not saying anything against ur statement its just that i wanted to say that so other ppl would kno to.
dont have my period yet, but when i do.. i need steps for putting on a tampon, im not wearing diapers!
its really not that hard and u cant really have anyone help u. u just find the hole and push it up. if u can feel it go up then ur putting it in wrong and it will hurt to walk and to pull it out. theres really nuthing any1 can say to help u. its like asking sum1 to teach u how to kiss, it just comes when it comes.
im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica
first u should eat. if u ever get an eating disorder u'll gain water weight. wut u can do is eat a bunch of little meals which speeds up ur metabolism. like 6 small meals a day. it sounds iffy but it works1 my dad lost 100 lbs from that and excersize. and if u cant bring urself to eat at all then u need to go get help.
ok so i want to host a murder mystery party thing but i dont know how it works please help me ill take any suggestiong ill gladly take them thanks love mimi
omg those r sooo much fun lol. write down a bunch of characters on pieces of paper and put them in a hat. then u make the list of ppl u want to come and pick their parts. put in the invitation how they should dress and act and who they r, just so they kno wut they r doing. u can get all into it and decorate ur house and act everything out or just have them read their parts in like a story circle. acting is more fun tho. and just have fun. there is so much u can do. try looking online or sumthing. have fun!
Okay, where it says how many times you have been rated, mine keeps dropping, but on my feedback I have more than the number it says. Is this happening to ya'll or what's wrong?
it drops because it only takes the ratings from the last 24 hours. everyday it starts over and only does the ratings u just got.
Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad?
no its not bad. im gonna b 14 and i've never done anything. just wait for the right time and person. dont do anything ull regret to make ur friends happy cus they rnt the ones that will remember it like u will.
Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do??
looks shouldn't matter. as long as u like him and u guys r happy that should be good enuf. and dont care wut other ppl say. ppl only say things when they wish they had wut u have.
Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
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if he gets mad at u tuff. he is only using you cus he thinks ur hott and wants to get in ur pants. sry for being blunt but its the truth. he doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend and u deserve better. who cares if hes mad, at least u can b rid of him and not have to deal with him trying to pressure u to do sumthing u'll regret.
Ok theres this guy whos like totally cutte and i really like him and he totally calls me every nite! we wind up talking for like 1-2 hours and i really am falling for him! i always ask him who he likes and he NEVER tells me! i told him i liked him and he was like oh thats kool. wen we hang out hes always like looking at me...like really loooooking at me and wen we hug goodbye its like we both dont wanna let go! lol i swear this kid will NOT admit that he likes me but me and my friends thinks he does! i never really try to pressure him or get people to annoy him about it b/c maybe he`s just shy? but i dont know what to do cuz i know that hes gunna call 2nite so any advice on what to say? cuz i really wanna be with him! HELP!
i say u ask him out because if u dont he might never ask u. dont b shy. and if he says no(which i highly doubt) just tell him to stop flirting so much. lol but u should just ask him.
i told my boyfriend to eat me out and he said im waiting for a girl who has orange soda coming out of her vagina. wut do i do?
tell him u have strawberry soda coming out of yours and that strawberry soda is better
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous?
its just probably because you want the best for him and your trying to look out for him like a sister. i feel that way about my friend too and its just like you dont want him to get hurt. just try and ignore it the best you can even tho its hard. theres nuthin u can really do about it.
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Hey friend is really thin and she has her hip bones sticking out is that ok bc i always tell her to eat more bc she think shes fat *shes 5'5 108 pounds* is that ok?
no thats not ok. u should get her some help because when ur 5'4" u should way between 120-140. so she is really small.
okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
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ya its all normal. i wear a bra then a sports bra when i have to runa nd stuff to keep my boobs from bouncin all over the place lol. no1 else can tell if one boob is bigger. its just you. unless they r starin for a long time then maybe they could but its like anorexic people seeing fat on themselves.
there's this girl who lives in my apt complex. lets call her amy. well amy is in a gang, does drugs and kills people. she is nice to me and we hang out and she calls me her "home girl" now, so i guess we're pretty good friends. the only illegal thing we do together is smoke. she said she's going to have a party on halloween in a house a few houses away from our apt. the party is going to have gangs there and drunks and druggies and other stuff that i dont want to be involved in. i decided to not go to the party but help her plan the foods and stuff just so she wouldnt think i didn't like her anymore. but that was before she told me she was going to kill the old man who lives in the house they're going to have the party in. she said that no body would miss him. i dont know what to do. if i do something bad things are going to happen anyways and if i don't then i'll feel bad about not even trying to prevent it.
whoa. uh shes serious about killing the guy? if he dies then wont the apt be surrounded by cops trying to figure out who killed him? then they wouldn't b able to have the party. umm well usually ppl would say to tell the cops but u cant do that cus the ppl might come after you.and if u didnt do anything ud feel bad...wow this is really hard. well if you dont want to regret it for forever then i guess you should tell the cops or sumthing and just tell them to watch the house then or sumthing like that ya kno? and if you feel afraid for ur life tell them about her. or u could just keep quiet and it mite not happen...its a long shot but they could just find a new place. they could find a new place! thats wut u could help her do. find a bigger and better place for the party...sum warehouse or empty house. well i hope sumthing works and sorry i wasnt too much of a help.