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ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help
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If he really truely loves you he will let you play softball and be with him but if he makes you wut he wants you to do DUMP HIM no matter how hard it is you have to be your ownself and not let him tell you to choose ]
That fag shouldnt make you choose what to do. I say, go for the sports because you can get a better boyfriend that will accept that you can play sports and have a boyfriend at the same time, so go ahead and dump that fag and go for softball ^_^
~**~((Nicole Anne))~**~ ]
Why doesnt he want you to do sports? If hes only going to think about himself and not what you like to do.... then that isnt right. If you rather play sports than have bf then do sports. You shouldnt not do sports if thats what you love to do. I know because im a sports person and i would chose sports over a guy! ]
You need to tell him if he wants to be with you then he needs to accept you for who you are and not on what he assumes about you. just tell him that and if he cant accept it then you need to tell him to shoo fly.
hope this helps.. ]
if he's your bf and he reallly likes you he shouldn't be making you choose. you should do whatever makes you happy, if that's being with your bf then choose him but if you really love softball then you should do that. your boyfriend should support you not make you choose between him or something you love to do. ]
* omg!! tahts is o0o mean if he actually telling u this he isnt worth it*
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he wnts u to drop a sport for him? i dont c y u cant just play and be with him. wut a wierdo. if he really wants u to drop softball i say drop him cus that is really stupid. ]
Well if your boyfriend doesnt want you to play softball and you really love that sportand you love him too but if he wants you to pick between him or softball i think you should pick what you like to do best and if your boyfriend cant handle it maybe its time to find someone new ]
gah people like that make me ashamed of my gender. tell him he can choose your or his pighead attitude. ]
If your boyfriend loved you he wouldn't make you choose. ]
ha ha what a dOrk .. ha .. chOose sOftball withOut a dOubt .. yOu shOuldn`t have tO chOose between the twO .. if he lOves yOu enOugh, he wOuld suppOrt yOu and yOur decisiOns .. so gO with sOftball--definately ! ]
man he should be more supportive what kinda guy is he? I think you could evenly balance the two nicely and he will hafta get over it tell him like it is! hes not the sun and the earth does not revolve around him... im sure he is a lovely boy but u should beable to understand ur needs of athletescim! (cant spell) hope u make the Right choices!! :) ]
wat a tweeb..choose softball. if he cant support the fact that ur an athletic person and that u want to play softball. then hes a loser anyway. ur boyfirend should support the things you do and be happy for u that ur doing things u love. DUMP the guy ur with now cause hes not as good as he thinks he is..dont give up wat makes u happy and shapes ur life over sum guy. ]
Tell him that you dont like to be told to make choices like that and that you want to play softball and if he has a problem with that and thats not for you to deal with! If he is a real Bf he will understand and say sorry if not forget him gurl theres better guyz out there
Good Luck ]
choose softball...he shouldnt make u choose! ]
Choos softball. Though you may be in love with your boyfriend, you probably wont marry him (sorry thats just the facts) and softball keeps you athletic and is good for your college resume ;) Your boyfriend shouldnt be making you choose. ]
Dude, ok i can see if you wrre like 20 and having this problem but ok if your still in school theres bigger issues then you and your little boy freind, and your not in love with him,u dont even know what love is cuz your too young. Puh-leeze, grow up ]
thats selfish for him to say that so dump him faast and talk to me on aim pimpedoutprep114 ]
chose softball because if he cant like you for what you do then hes not worth your time therea other boys that wiol appreciate you for the sport you play
telll me what happens
hope i helped
~monica~ ]
wow..first off i would choose softball! its dumb that he is making you choose! love doesnt last forever, especially love like this ((no offence)) but if he is going to make you choose between those two..then choose that! its horrible that he is doing that to you sweetz! ]
he isnt worth your time if he is gonna make you choose between softball or him.. take my advice or not but i say choose wutever makes you happier
good luck
x3 amanda ]
you should not have to choose... if he's that selfish, then you're better off finding someone else. ]
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