I like playing sports, haning out with friends, listening to music, sitting and chatting on the computer, dancing, BEING ME! I'm 13 going in the 8th grade! whoo hooo! not!
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Gender: Female
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Age: 13
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Member Since: August 21, 2004
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My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom. (link)
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Well sit down and talk to him...just say..what ever his name is just say i dont really think your mom likes me. she always says your mowing the grass and she yells at me. did i do something wrong?
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I hope I'm just being nervous and paranoid. I pray to God that I am.
But me and my boyfriend were having sex last night, and when he pulled out, the condom came off in me.
How..I don't know.
But he had already busted..so...u get my drift. I'm pretty much done for..aren't I? (link)
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well not always. u can be pregnant at the very first time but not always...wait a while and take a pregnancy test and if it comes positive then tell your mom about it and hopefully she will understand and if not i kno there is group talks with people that had the same prob. with you cuz there is in my town.
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Hey,I'm 13/f I just helped my best friend get this boy 2 go out wtih her that liked her and well now I am jelouse and want a bf.There is this one boy that I think I still like that I have liked since last year! He knows I like him cause I told him last year. I talk 2 him on msn but that is it. I have my friends that r friends with him tell me funny stories and stuff that happened with him at school. I REALLY like him but he doesn't like me..I think..
Help...... (link)
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Well if he likes you he would prolly go out with you but you know you have to talk with him and write him notes and stuff like that. Flirt a little and become really good friends. Just dont embaress yourself. Anways just try your best at becoming friends and if it doesnt work maybe move on. Hope I Helped!
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ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help (link)
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Well if your boyfriend doesnt want you to play softball and you really love that sportand you love him too but if he wants you to pick between him or softball i think you should pick what you like to do best and if your boyfriend cant handle it maybe its time to find someone new
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Hi well im 12 gonna be 13 soon . and well i havent had my period. im 5'2 or 5'3 and 95 pounds. Do tall skinny gurls have there period later than bigger boned gurls? w When do you think i will have mine. I dont like to talk to my mom about this kinda stuff and im the only gurl so i cant talk to my brothers about this so im asking you now. please help me (link)
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Well most of the time it's big boned girls who get theirs first. Most of the time you get it when your mom had it or just around that time she had it. Most of the time once you hit 100 pounds you get it. I dont think you will get it till your about 14. Hope I answered your question correctly. ;)
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theres a hurricane coming and im rlly scared. we dnt have shutters. im going to stay at a friends house wut should i bring from my room.i want to bring evrything but i cant. i rlly need to noe hurry thanks (link)
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bring food that doesnt need to go in the microwave or stove. bring blankets and pillows. a flashlight. and cloths
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My girlfriend is cutting herself,she has been doing it for about a year.She is not as bad as she was but she is starting to think about it more and more,she says she is addicted and she doesnt know if she can stop, and she really wants/needs help.I dont know wat to do or say.What can i do to help my girlfriend? (link)
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I seen this on a show once. Have her put rubberbands on her wrists and everytime she thinks about wanting to cut have her snap the rubberbands this might help but if it doesnt then take her to the counsler at your school.
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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!! (link)
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Jc Penny's, Victoria's Secrete, and Vanity.
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HELP!! A few summers ago I grew a few inches and gained a significant amount of weight, and now I have so many stretch marks, and they're making me SO Self concious!! My boyfriend of 6 months always wants to run his hands up my shirt to tickle me, and I always make him stop and blame it on tickeling.. but it's really I just don't want him to see my stretch marks!! They're on the front of my stomache, my sides, even on the sides of my breasts.. and I don't know what to do to get rid of them. I've read about them and they're caused from the lack of cologen or something like that, when your skin stretches, so it makes the marks. Does anyone have any home remedies or products that work efficiantly and aren't that expensive??? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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I have that same problem except they are on my legs and butt. And I'm only 13. But anyways go to Younkers in the perfume spot and look for Re-Fine by AVON Solutions. It doesnt make them go away but it makes them smaller and so that you can't feel them and it works really good!!
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I like this guy, he likes me back. He says he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people is out dumb because no one actually goes out or they stop talking. I'm not goin got ask him out because if he can't ask me out then he is going to be a bad boyfriend. He's had girlfriends before so it's not like he's not ready. WE are both in 7th grade. Any ideas on how ot approach him and talk about it? (link)
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Well im in 7th grade too. I have been in the same situation. Just dont ask him out just be really good friends and talk to him about everything. Kinda like your best friend. Hang out with him sometimes like go to the movies with him and other stuff that you guys both like to do. go to the mall and stuff like that. Just be sure that he is a person of trust.
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Ok I was having a convo online with a person i adore and I had my BEST friend EVER over.. I asked him if he liked me as a friend."Hell no" If he was my friends "HELL ya"She asked him Who would he rather go out with (My friend Only likes him as a friend..)He said Tori My friend..
She asked him who was prettyer ME ! But he HATES me Not just a little hate i mean HATE..I dont know what i should say to him ! :( (link)
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Just ask him why he hates you. and if he says some reason or he wont tell you then you need to say that you have to know so that you know what you are doing wrong. tell him that you want to be friends with him and that you are sorry for what you did. i hope this helps.
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ok i dont want to seem like a player but i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend and to admit it i like his friend a little more then i like my bf.. but me and my boyfrind have been going for like 7 months.. and i dont no what to do! his friend likes me a lot too and i need some help badly! please help! thanks x3 (link)
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Well just tell your boyfriend that you want to go out with new people and that you dont want to hurt him you just wanted to tell the truth. after about 3 days go out with his friend and see if that is better.
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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop? (link)
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My mom works at the hospital on the phychiatric unit. If your mom doesnt think she needs help and you tried to tell her already then I think that maybe it is time to tell your counsler and maybe they can do something. Sometimes when people need help they dont know it so other people have to get help for them. That is not right the way your mother treats you and I pray that things get better.
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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year? (link)
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Its wrong to start one on him becuz then he might just make more about you. Maybe he is jelous of you or something about you. If this doenst quit then maybe take this to the counsler or else talk to him on the phone or sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel and how you dont like when he makes these romours about you.
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Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me? (link)
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you should ask him. If you dont start doing stuff with himyour relationship might fail.
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Hi, I'm a 15/F. I guess you could say I have like average self esteem. Some days I think I look SO adorable. But other days I hate everything about myself. For example: I bought a shirt and when I tried it on I loved it , then I tried it on at home and I thought it made me look horrible. Does anyone know why this happens to me & what I could do to fix it ? Thanks in advance.
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maybe you are having mood swimgs. try and wear it to school and see if anyone says like oh i love your shirt you look so pretty and that might cheer you up. I have the same problem sometimes. but just try that and see.
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does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
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well you can drink water and juice and stuff like that and cut down on the pop. only have a bout 1 pop a day. be4 every meal drink a cup of water and then you wont eat as much as normal if this helps then great!!!
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ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and i mean we havent been goin out too long wow like 10 days whoo hoo! well ne ways i got really annoyed cause he kept teling me he loves me but i know he doesnt (cause we r only 14 and dont know what love is... he also told all his ex's that he loved them... one of my best friends is his ex) ne ways... i always told him that i loved him so he didnt feel bad when i realli dont love him... he also kept bringing up some other hypethetical girl and it made em feel uncomfortable... well so i dumped him and i still wanna be friends with him but he wont talk to me... i feel realli bad he kinda made me feel reallyy bad... what should i do to not feel so bad? (check out my advice column im x27pixidust27x ) (link)
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well just tell him that you want to be friends and the truth about how you feel about him telling you about how he loves his ex's and ect. if he wont talk to you then write him a note and put it in his locker at school or call him or if he has a computer then e-mail him.
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Does anyone know of any good graphic sites? I like journal icons, and images that i cna put into my column... (link)
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umm well my cousin gave me some good sites like www.crucioness.tk and laza.8k.com and www.msndollies.com and www.imdolls.com and stuff like that.
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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her? (link)
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Just tell her like after school or something that she needs to call be4 you go to bed or what ever time you go to bed. If she does call at 1am and you want to go to sleep then tell her that you need to talk about this tomorrow and you need sleep.
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