My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 12:36 pm: wow..umm ou ever meat his mom in person??maybe she those kind of moms that dont wont him to grow up you no...well you shouild talk to him and tell him that his mom yells or you shouild tell him to pick up the phone..or atleast try to!!!or you shouild call him and if his mom yells then say mam i reall dont appresiate when you yell at me may you please stop..but then she might think that your like crazy,talking to her like that..well maybe you shouild ask your mom what to do!!and maybe she will give you something to say...maybe you shouild also trying meeting this evel lady..and maybe shell like you then...hope i helped..
love always,
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passionate answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:21 am: If he has a cell phone call him there and you can talk about his devilish mom. Or you can just confront his mom by saying "Boy, your grass sure must grow fast for him to have to mow the grass just about everyday." or someting like that.
ronda answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:07 am: Well the only way for him to know his mom is being bitch is to tell him(but without the bitch part).Try asking him why dose his mom do that.If you don`t tell him you may never get a cance to talk to him.I hope everything works out:) [ ronda's advice column | Ask ronda A Question ]
karenR answered Monday June 13 2005, 7:45 am: I don't know anyone who mows the grass that often. If you have another way of of contacting him I would use it. Then I would definitely ask him about it. It could be he doesn't want to talk to you and has mom running interference. I hope for your sake that isn't the case...but it could be. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
x3bEstOfmEx answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:58 am: thats soo mean!! maybe you should just ask him like next time you talk to him what he was doing at whatever time you called him or to prevent his mom from yelling at you tell him to call you when hes not bust doing anything or you could talk to him and try to get him to understand how you feel and just tell him what his mom is doing to you maybe its true and maybe its not you jus have to ask and make sure!!
hope i helped!! good luck ♥ hOlly [ x3bEstOfmEx's advice column | Ask x3bEstOfmEx A Question ]
alyssa_ann answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:53 am: Well sit down and talk to him...just say..what ever his name is just say i dont really think your mom likes me. she always says your mowing the grass and she yells at me. did i do something wrong? [ alyssa_ann's advice column | Ask alyssa_ann A Question ]
Jerseygirl89 answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:29 am: Well, you don't want to seem like you are over reacting so i would suggest maybe hanging out at his house (ahh! scary, i know!) while his mom is there to see how she acts and hopefully it will begin to show the way she treats you in front of him!
Good Luck!
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DangerNerd answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:17 am: Hello there,
It seems to me that you have to do something that will get this solved once and for all.
How about this: the next time you call and she says that he is outside cutting the grass, say thank you very politely. Immediately go over to his house.
If he isn't even there and his mother answers the door, tell her that since he is always outside mowing the grass you thought you would come over and see him. If she says he isn't there, tell her you thought that adults were supposed to lie to children.
Maybe it will make her think, but no matter what your boyfriend will at least know that you came by.
If she isn't telling him that you call, then he may think you don't like him anymore since he hasn't heard from you in two weeks.
Mackenzie answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:56 pm: Aww!! What an awful situation to be in!! I feel foR ya, Kid; I Really do! Next time she does this to you, ask heR "Okay then, so WHEN would be a betteR time to call him back?" Make HER foRce out an answeR. That way, she'll have no one to blame foR heRself if she gets pissed at youR calling. And if *I* weRe in that spot I would just nonchalantly ask him how mowing the gRass was. FoR example; call him, and ask in a joking type of voice 'How was moving the gRass'. If he tells you he was neveR mowing the lawn to begin with, then act all suRpRised and unawaRe by saying, "Oh... I thought you weRe. At least, that's what youR Mom says when I call". Hopefully he'll question this and how the said the woRd "says" instead of "SAID", hinting him that it's happened moRe than once. I undeRstand you don't want this BITCH mad at you, but she alReady dislikes you, so why should you even caRe!?! You can't let heR get away with this foReveR... I wish you all the best of luck!! Hopefully this has been of even the SLIGHTEST BIT of help!! :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
MHScutie87 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:52 pm: next time she says hes busy or whatever, just be like o okay is there a time i can call him back or can you tell him to call me back. if shes still mean, then i dono. try talking to him online instead of the fone lol. or if he has a cell phone you could just call him on that, but if he did im sure you wouldnt be asking this question.. lol
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