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mean freshman boys
My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year?
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Its wrong to start one on him becuz then he might just make more about you. Maybe he is jelous of you or something about you. If this doenst quit then maybe take this to the counsler or else talk to him on the phone or sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel and how you dont like when he makes these romours about you.
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well obviously ur the elder, and little silly frosh boys WILL be put in their place (O:-D) tell everyone ahead of time that their fucking *sry* stupid and their juss stupid little froshys, spread rumors about them too! two wrongs do make a right i do say ;) andd juss ignore them...boys are stupid anyways =D a rumors a rumor, it wont kill ya
*jesikuh
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all you have to do is show people that you arnt like what they say about you and they wont beilive the kid(sometimes it evan backfires on the rumor spreaders)so be nice to everyone and show them who you really are.good luck!
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Ignore them. Or laugh with them and say jokingly ohh yea it's so true! and act sarcastic. Maybe you'll even become friends with them. Just don't start saying stuff about them, that'll probably just make it worse. Hope I helped! Ratings appreciated =c)
Love, RacheL
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Eeek. I know how you feel. What you should do, is talk to them about it and ask them why the hell they're being jerks. If that dosn't work, ask a friend about it, and try to do some damage controll...Like if he says you're a lesbian or something, just be like "What are you talking about *Throw in a sassy laugh* I broke up with you because you told me you were starting to have feelings for guys.." And walk away. It's mean, but maybe it will give him a taste of his own medicine.
~Megan Kristine~
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dont pay attention to then and also dont listen to them..it will just make matters worse..act like they're not there..and if they do this..is probably means they like you or they're just jackasses! - hope I helped
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Deny it.
-xXoBrianna
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:( i go through the same thing...everyone thinks i'm gay or something because i'm so nice...like seriously they think i like boys...and one of my best friends from like last year...we don't see each other anymore, he turned on me and he got new friends or w/e and they all started calling me GK...for Gay Kyle, it was pathetic but still, stuff like that hurts, so i know where ur coming from, but i just ignored it, and if they said it to my face i'd let them know it was a mistake, people who cut others down r usually extremely insecure about themselves, so by dissing what other people have that they wish they had, it makes them feel better about the void in their life, u won't see hardly any of them after high school is over, 2 more years and those meanies will be gone for good, and none of them have futures acting the way they do, just be urself and if they don't like it that's tuff stuff cuz u seem really nice and deserving of much better than the bs those guys r handing u, good luck -Kyle :D
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tell them theyr immature and they must not have anything better to do then make shit up about you. tell them its not funny n theres a whole buncha stuff you could say about them but you dont bc its not worth it (even if u don have ne dirt on them haha). if ur worried bout wut other ppl think jus tell ur friends tht these boys are gunna strt stuff but none of it is true..so your friends will know the type of ppl these boys are and theyll back u up 100%. gl
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The best thing to do in this situation is to stay calm, act normal, and ignore them. They are jerks anyway and need a lot of prayer if they are goig to be doing that. You will find a new group of friends that will help you through the hard times and pretty soon, these guys will see that it doesn't bother you and stop doing these cruel things. If you let them know it bothers you, they will just keep on getting worse and worse. Trust me, I've had that very same problem and that's the same advice they gave me. Hope it works for you like it worked for me!!
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