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okay recently i had this boyfriend who i thought was my everything. well everything was apparently nothing at all when i kissed someone else so now i am broken up with my boyfriend and the other guy my parents never want me to see the other guy again but we both really like eachother. We arent going out right now bwcause neither one of us want a relationship. Oh yeah and i have liked this other guy for about a year.So i have liked him b4 i met my boyfriend. I am 13 years old and a female!Plz give good advice!!!!!!!! (link)
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All guys when they first start going out with you think you are the only one for their lives. Everyone, actually, starts out thinking this way. A true relationship comes when the two mates truly love each other for who they are and really care about the person. Not just because of a fluttery feeling in the stomach. Those relationships, a lot of the time, don't last long. Soemtimes they do. I can see your parents point of view because you cheated on your boyfriend by kissing another guy. You need to think about your actions and what you really want in your life. If you want the guy A, you need to think about how you can earn his trust back and how you can get his love back to where a relationship should be. If you want guy B, you need to let guy A go and go after guy B any way you know how.
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ok, so, there is this guy i have been friends with for about a year. and well, i like him. he has a girlfriend tho. anyways, he was walking me halfway home and we decided to sit down 4 a minute to take a rest cuz its kind of a long walk. and he tickled me a little, then i tickled him back...and so on....we are both VERY ticklish. well, while we were tickling each other i kinda like, layed back (not purposly) and he looked into my eyes.................................and kissed me! i mean its what i have wanted for so long but i didnt want him to cheat on Kim 4 it! what should i do?! i want to kiss him again but i dont wanna ruin anything with them and i dont think they are ever gonna break up. so...what do i do? he has been talking to me latley and he said that with the way things with him and kim have been going latley that they probably wont last long. so maybe thats why he did it. cuz he was confused. (link)
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Tell him how you feel about it. Let him know that yes, you do have feelings for him (if that's the case), but you don't want to ruin his relationship with the other girl because of it. Being friends is okay. If they break up and it's not because of your relationship with him, then it would be okay to go ahead and go out. Guys get confused really easily. Tell him that he needs to focus and look at what's important to him. Have him pray about it. Have him really think about his feelings and his relationship with Kim. I wouldn't want to dump someone just because I liked someone else. I've had it done to me before and it hurts. If there is a significant reason, like she cheated on him or she went out and had sex with another guy, then I would understand. But not for someone else. It's best just to stay friends and see what happens with their relationship.
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Hey. I need some ideas on what I can do for this holiday weekend. I have like noooo money and I want to hang out w/ a couple of friends but we want to do some neat stuff like hang at the mall or have a bonfire etc. does anyone have any good ideas? (link)
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A good thing to do on a holiday weekend when you have no money is just hang with your friends and do what you think is really fun. Do something you haven't done in a while. If you're a girl, you can sit down with your girlfriends and have girl talk and if you're a guy, just go out and have fun and do what guys do best. Me, being a female, I just like to relax and have fun. Whatever opportunity comes up that involves no money, I go out and do it. One suggestion would be to get involved in your church. If you are in youth group in church, suggest having a lock in. I know this is probably for fall break or something, but for future use.
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i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP! (link)
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Don't take sides. Stay on the anonymous side. If you side with one person, it'll only make the other one mad. If you don't side with either one of them, they will eventually stop asking you to intervene.
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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help! (link)
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I think it's twelve inches. I will talk to one of my friends who has done it for quite a while now. Please respond back so I can give you my response.
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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
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You should ignore them. The more you let the teasers know how much it bothers you, the more they are going to do it. They are just doing it for pleasure and to get you worked up. I had quite a few of these while I was in high school, so I know how you feel.
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This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do? (link)
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Maybe they are just going as friends. I would still go up to this guy (when the other girl isn't around him) and let him know your feelings straight out. See what his reaction is to you and go from there.
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I love volleyball... but i fucking hate my coaches... they are such dush bags... should i quit or should i stick with it? if i quit i would def. play soccer... HELP!! (link)
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Stick with it. Quitting will only feed the coach's pleasure. The coach is probably wanting you to quit or his home life is miserable so he's taking it off on the team. If you stick with it, it will start to get better. Start complimenting the coach and saying nice things to him to see if he/she gets better.
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okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him? (link)
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You should let him know what your feelings are because he's probably thinking that you are just thinking of him in a friendship way. If he just wants to be friends, let it be. It's probably meant to be that way for a reason.
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well, im turning 14 in february and i wanna go somewhere special with three of my friends... i live in miami(it might help if u knew that) any ideas where i can go???? thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Go to your favorite hangout place, even if it was one when you were little. Sometimes, old hangouts are the best place to go with friends to hav e a good time. Or go to a very nice restaurant around the area. I'm from Ohio and never been to Miami, so I wouldn't be able to tell you specifically places you could go. I'm sorry.
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hey its X Lissa X ..Okay ive felt like crap all day. you know that feeling you get in your stomach when you havent ate anything all day or your really really hungry? well ive had it all day, even now and ive ate stuff too but it still wont go away and it HURTS! idk what could be wrong. does anyone know? and how cani stop it cuz i wont be able to sleep.. thanks a lot. (link)
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It could be that you are starting to get the ever popular stomach flu. If you have anything, take something that's for upset stomach's and try to take a nap. If that doesn't work, try taking Ibuprofin or Tylenol. I hope you get to feeling better.
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HELP! how much money should i give my friend for her Sweet 16 tonight? (link)
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I would give her $20. But, only if you can afford it. I'm not saying that's how much you should definately give. Plus, it shouldn't have to be based off of how much you give her, it's the thought that counts, no matter what you give her or how much money you give her.
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OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship? (link)
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If he is the type of person who will just sit down and talk, tell him you need to have a "heart to heart" talk with him. Let him know what your feelings are and see what he says. It's okay to have those feelings. Sometimes, friendship is a better gift than a loving relationship.
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17-F Ok there are these to boys Rob and Dan. Dan is my type and we get along really well, the thing is we don't wanna screw up what we have and it seems whenever we hang out I wanna do naughty things to him. But Rob he's more sweet and nice to me and I've known him for a while and I can see us having a long relationship. But Dan is more exciting and Rob is more loyal and faithful. I'm a senior in HS and I haven't had a BF in over a year so I dunno who to pick please help (link)
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I would say to go with the loyal and faithful one, Rob. Mainly because those are the ones that will stick by your side through thick and thin. This isn't always the case, but 9 times out of 10, it will work. It's okay to have a fun friend, but if you know someone who is sweet and nice and have known them for a while and can see having a lasting relationship for it, I think you answered your question. You can still be friends with Dan, don't get me wrong. I hope it all works out for you.
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i have a science fair project im working on and the problem is: does the sense of sight and smell affect the way food tastes to us?
does anybody know any good websites where i can research stuff like this? thanx a lot (link)
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Just go to http://www.ask.com and type in the question: Does the sense of sight and smell affect the way food tastes to us? I can't really give you a valid explanation but this: My mom's sinuses are so bad that she can't smell. Because of that, she can't taste anything. I hope this helps. Also, try the search engine at yahoo and google and type in sight and smell. Ask.com is probably your best bet.
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Tomorrow I'm meeting up with my boyfriend. It will be the first time I have seen him properly out of school since we started going out and I want to make a big impression. I need to look nice and casual. How should I do my hair/makeup and what shall I wear???!!!
PS. If this helps: My hair is dark brown and comes to around my shoulders. I have blue and eyes and pale skin. (link)
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On the clothing part of it, just wear something that you feel comfortable in. Looks aren't what a guy should be going for. Yes, you do need to look nice, so wear a nice pair of kakis or a denim skirt that isn't really short (short skirts and low cut shirts are just distractions to a guy's eyes) and a nice and dressy shirt that would go along with it that isn't low-cut int eh neck or short and shows your stomach. As for your hair, there are several ways you can do it. You can leave it down, warming up the curling iron, and lifting your hair up just a little bit from the roots and curling it under at the tips. It will give your hair a little more volume (unless you already have thick or curly hair, then you don't want to do that). But, if you dont' want to have to mess with the curling iron, just use a headband and pull it back, put a few butterflies in by pulling a few strands back with them, clipping the sides up with a big clip, or just leave it down and gently brush it before you leave. I'm not much for helping with makeup because I am allergic to it. THe only thing that I've worn is blush and anti-allergenic lipstick because of my high school music department's major production. I hope I have helped you.
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my shoulder came out during my football game yesterday ( we still won cause were beast like that ) but anyway how long do u think it will talk for me to be able to play again it will talke atleast a week ( league rules u go off tot he hospital u gotta miss a game )i also gotta concusion form it
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I've pulled my shoulder out three times and pulled a muscle in it once. Mine only took a couple of weeks to where I could use it more fully. It will still hurt for a while after that. Don't start back too rough on it once you can start using it again. It takes a while for things like that to heal. I know how you feel sports wise because I ran crosscountry and played basketball and ran track in high school. That's how I pulled mine out so often. Once I pulled it out the first time, it must not have healed back completely or went completley back in because of how many times it came out after that. It didn't happen right after another. I pulled it out once my freshman year, junior year, and senior year. I pulled the muscle in it my sophomore year. Good luck and take care of it!! I'm praying for you!
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Alright i dated this guy for like a long time and we were really close i mean i would tell him everything and he would totally listen to me but then after a little while he broke up with me and said that he thought we should date other people. well the thing that i am confissed about is that he said I love you and i REALLY like him Alot and i said i love you too and i meant it but like i was crushed when he dumped me and i just could not move on and now he likes this other girl that is alot prettier than me but i really want him back or i want someone who is going to be serious in a realtionship and mean what they say. But what i am confissued about is how i should find someone else or should i try to get him back or does anyone else have any other ideas. Please Help.....Thanks Bunches!*~* (link)
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I can relate to this one. I had a boyfriend a couple of years ago that did the same thing. THe only thing I can help you with is to find a group of friends that is outside of the ones you met through him and start hanging out wit them. Don't completely ignore the friendships you made that are connected with him. Just try to get him out of your sight and that may help you to get him out of your mind to where you can start thinking about meeting someone else. I did. I hope this advice helps you as it did me when I was having this problem.
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anayone know lotions or something for when your hands become kinda sweaty... or if i should go to a doctor and get something..!!???!?!? (link)
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Basically, you can try any kind of lubricating lotion. This might sound silly, but also try some moisturising cream. Your hands may be losing all the water in them and letting you know that you need to add something to it.
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I was hoping to start my own non-profit organization. I have all the details worked out, and as soon as I find a name I like I am going to buy my domain. However, as I started to reasearch deatails a little more I noticed that you have to get all the papers filled out and stuff and get the org. government approved. I was wondering if anyone knew what is the 1st step to starting one, and to whom I need to speak with. Thanks -Free2bMe :) (link)
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I'm sorry I can't help you immediately, but I will look into it. My mom is head of the Western Washington County Food Pantry and I'm sure she knows something about the process. I will get back with you if you respond to this so I will have your name in my inbox to reply to. Hope to be getting back with you soon.
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