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my friend/crush
okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
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bring out that you like him that you two should go out and that the risk of ruining the friendship is a risk he'll just have to take. tell him it's great that he's worried about the freidnshp like that but remind him that you two are good together and thta plenty of other relationships have survived the aftermath and stil remained friends (like me.. i am freinds with every single former boyfriend i've ever had). ask him why you two should ignore something that could be so great just because of a risk you know he knows you two can surive (haha sorry if i threw you off on that last tongue twister there)
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You should let him know what your feelings are because he's probably thinking that you are just thinking of him in a friendship way. If he just wants to be friends, let it be. It's probably meant to be that way for a reason.
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aww ur good friend jon is such a sweetie, he actually knew that by going into a relationship it might get ur friendship ruined. firstly i think hes really thoughtful to let u know the truth about how he felt, he was honest about it and maybe hes even speaking from experience. who knows how his previous relationship ended, but nobody wants to be a busybody so i'll keep my nose outta there. and also he also insisted that u two stay as friends meaning even if u said u liked him, will he like u back more then just friends? and of course u should continue being good friends with him! im sure there is another guy whos willing to accept ya.
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Tell him that you feel the same way, and pitch the idea of maybe trying to go out and not changing anything, but being prepared if it doesn't work. That way you don't set yourself up for heartbreak. Good luck, give "jon" a hug for me!
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hay! i think you should go out with him. say at the begining that if yall ever break up, then u n him have to be really close friends again. This works fosho!
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Well its always totally great to have a friend thats a guy and especially if he likes u back too....Well since ur friends w/ him either like call him,IM him,or maybe even e-mail him or talk to him in person and ask about what his cousins gf said....then maybe the relationship will start from there...but herez the main thing if u guys break up n he gets together w/ someone n u still have feelings for him then ur going to get pissed off probably! But thats why it is sometimes better to be friends but tell him how u feel cuz he'll understand cuz he likes u too but tell him what i said bout tht! I hope I helped n I hope everything goes well w/ jon! *muah* LiSsY
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we'll if you like this kid "Jon" and he likes u too n u guys are really good friends then go for it i mean it won't hurt ur friendship becuz u are already really good friends and plus u probley already have a lot of feelings for each other so you will be together for a long time an yeah so if u like each other go for it n tell him
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YOU ARE GONNA KILL YOURSELF GIRL!!! you better talk to hime even if he says hes not going to do anything about it, so you do something about it, if you dont say anything to him youll probly get emotionally frustrated and we dont want that.
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