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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator
hey some people r telling u 2 ignore him n u really shouldn't do tht but if he does ask u out just say i wanna be friends with benefits =]! Also make sure hez not hurt in any way!
Im 15 and I have been going out with this guy for about 2 days now. i have known him for like 4 months and we just started going out. i really like him a lot too! hes the perfect guy for me! his birthday is coming up this monday which is in about 6 days. but i have no idea what to get him if i should get him anytbing. i was thinking maybe like a picture of me and him in a picture frame that i can go buy. is that good? i need a answer sooooon! so thanks yall!
Yeah thats really good maybe u could even make a video of u and all his friends like saying happy birthday even ask him what he wants =]! hope i helped please rate n give feedback xox lissy xox
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I'm a 13/f and I have 2 very good friends. They both like the same guy. This one guy happens to be one of my very good friends and we talk on AIM all the time. I always saw him as just a friend but now I'm starting to really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me. I want to be honest with my friends but they like him and they want him to like them. What should I do?
i have the same problem all of my friends like him but they don't know that i like him but anywayz...u really do need to tell them and hey you guys can all talk about the good qualities in him....maybe tell him how u feel but also some of ur friends like him so u don't want to go out with him because it would hurt ur friendship unless ur 2 friends r okay with u going out w. him! hope i helped please rate me xox Lissy xox
i want to like some1 rlly bad. i just started goin to junior high with all of these new ppl but i don like any o the guys that r in my classes! its rlly sad n sumtimes it rly depresses me cuz i want a bf. so how can i get myself to like som1? this question mite b kinda impossible to answer but plz try to. thnx
Well to be honest you can't make urself like some1! but just think of something u would like in a guy and get to know some of them n maybe it'll be one of them or maybe even like some1 in a higher or lower grade n once u found tht person u like just ask them out and they'll say yes if they got to know u real well prolly! hope i helped please rate me :D xox Lissy xox
My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)
lol i've never made out either, maybe he hasn't either but he wants to try it? lol well basically i would watch movies n stuff tht have ppl kiss a lot n notice how they do tht lol take notes! xox lissy xox
ok im not really excited about christmas and i dont know why? i mean i feel like something is missing in my life or is it that im just getting older but i dont think that is true bc i like christmas and all but it just seems like it doesnt matta anymore.
Maybe its someone missing(cough cough chris cough cough) not something! Ash like i said before u need to tell him how u feel lol
^ lol okay if i wasn't friends with u this is what i would say
If your not in the christmas moods it probably because ur growing outta christmas...it gets kinda boring as u get older! But lol this is wat i do I pretend tht santa is real lol i know hez not but yeah its still fun to believe lol juss do tht when it gets closer to christmas! ASHLEE U HAFTA BE EXCITED BOUT UR NEW CELLIE PHONE THT UR GONNA GET! lol i wanted to say more things but i forget what lol! but ashwee u were excited the other day when i talked to ya!
why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?
They don't always break ur heart but usually they do simply u just gotta remember there are other guys out there n maybe if u keep it long n don't get wayy too attached it won't hurt as much i hope i helped xox lissy xox!
Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?
i tell myself hey i've lived for 16 years so i'm safe and if there was anything really bad going to happen ur parents would move but like what every1 is saying watch a sad or funny movie or a tv show(lol full house works for me) but remember all those movies r fake just say to urself its not real its not real its not real but whenever i get scared i pray and ask my gaurdian angel to protect me n i feel better either tht or i go in my parents room hope i helped!
Alright, so a friend of mine's dad died on tuesday after a long battle with a brain tumor. i've known the guy for since like thrid grade (we're freshemen now) and his mom was my teacher. when i heard about this i was very upset. I couldn't bring myself to go to the funeral today, but i'm worried my friend's going to think i don't care about him, and that i'm not worried about him. I'm sending him a card and donating for the charity they wanted us to donate to instead of flowers, but is there anything else i could do for them? i feel horrible about not going to the funeral, but what else should i do?
Well theres nothing more you can do then what your doing already but give a really good explantion why u couldn't go n say ur real sorry n stuff hope i helped!
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
Like what is your question lol cuz I was kinda confused
well u see i have this friend and we always get into fights about the stupidist things ever and one time we got in a fight and she asked me a pastense question and when i tried to anwser she got really mad and was sayind things like why do u always bring suff up form the past were talking about this fight noy ones that have happened in the past when i tried telling her the i was only anwsering her question she would not listin! what do i do?
You really need to tell your friend how you feel so you guys can work this out. Tell her you still want to be friends but if we keep getting in fights it'll be hard for me to get along with you! Hope I helped xox *muah* Lissy *muah* xox
I have this friendin 6 th grade and a sister in 8th, my friend likes my sis. He said that she was hot( no lie). He said it right in my face...i told him i felt like barfing and i dont want him to get 2 close to my sis. Am i being 2 defensive about my sis?
No your not you totally have the right to be protective to her I mean a sister is like your best friend you can tell them like anything!
Im haveing a grage sale on saturday i no a week away but i need some ideas of how to make more money and how to attrack costurmers all hte money is goin to go to me and my mom to go to paris in march! (hehe im there on my b day)
ya do u have n e ideas?
Make posters really big posters and put them on busy streets like where lots of people go by. -LiSsY
ahh..homecomings next saturday..and all my frens know how to dance.."BUT ME" and like i can shake my hips and all thatbt i cant move my booty to well and i never know what to do with my hands..SOMEONE HELP i needa learn how to shake my thang and notlook stupid doin it ~!
Maybe take a short dance class?
Is it ok to aproach a guy like makeing out if you not dating? Please HELP
sara
N00000!!!! Thats like extremely slutty! People would be talking about it and a lot of people will hate you especially like his gf if he has one n then she'll tell everyone to hate you and yeah!
Hello,
I am a natural brunette with my own natural highlights of red and a few blonde tones in it. I recently decided to have the style of Rachel Stevens and went to a salon to get it done. The hairdresser did a lovely job but i am not too sure, sometime i look at it and think wow he did a great job and then sometimes i want to cry. I think it is too light for me and being the first time i have gone this colour, i am thinking about going to another salon to get my natural colour put back on so all i have to worry abbout is growing the fringe out that he cut in. My partner says it is nice and that i am stupid to get it re-done. What should i do, i think i might be worrying about it if i dont.
Hello,
Well I have three(i'm not sure if one will work) suggestions for you! One, Wait for the roots of your natural color to grow back. Two, Go to the hairdresser and get your natural hair color back like you said. Three, Did they tell you not to wash your hair? Well like you take a shower every night and scrub ur head really hard for around 3 weeks and it'll come out(I'm not sure if this one works my friend told me it did)! I Hope I helped! Please Rate and Tell Me if I helped! *muah* LiSsY
It is possible to be in love at the age of 13???
Rainbowcherrie
Of course it is possible! Why when I was like 9 I fell in love with this boy and I still am and i'm 13 today! Of course he knows I like him and I basically show it that I do but yeah you can fall in love at any age really!
me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx
Wow thats kinda of bad if your like 13 or 14 15 too but no you can't because you need your parents to sign papers and i know a few people who have done abortion and they were really upset about it so I wouldn't do abortion anyways....I think you should probably give it to a foster home if you can't take care of it but someone close so you can vist him/her...but take a pregnecy test just to make sure your not pregnent!
whats a good screen name for me becuz right now im like brain dead and i cant think of one and i really need you guy(s) help right bout now so come on please help me out here!! thanks a bunch!!
brain dead x,lil(w/e ur last name is) xox, x0x(urname) x0x